Originally Posted by
harmony
You have to make it clear that you were thinking of booking a hotel room
That clarifies your intention
You cant be wishy washy about your intentions, particularly if it involves you spending money - for example prepaying for a movie or a hotel room
If you had been clear about the hotel, you may have scared her off, but equally at least then you know not to book the hotel
Some women just dont feel comfortable going to a hotel room
Women who are well brought up realise that you are treating them like a working lady
Dont get me wrong, you can invite a lady to a hotel, but she has to know you and be able to trust you
The first thing a woman wants to know is if you are married or not
If a woman doesnt know yoiu well, and they dont know where you live, and you invite them to a hotel room, it feels odd