Fall in love...that's how i quit
If you just feeling nothing special by your punt. Just try Therapist 19 yo japanese girl. TMC
it's different taste of other WL. also Virgin flavor.
if you have strong mentality. you can quit and you can punt any time.
you still young age, Don't think about this too much.
my rule of go out somewhere is just when i have money, i go out and spend money for whatever i want
If around you friend say something about punting is not good. but If you want to punt, you can punt.
Don't need follow any idea for your things. young man is Free
Fall in love...that's how i quit
Therapist will come back we hope!
Is it possible to quit punting?
Yes, if you become her boyfriend....
But it costs a lot of money.....
That's why I can't quit punting
Sorry bros....
I quit twice first time - breaking my body. so that meant 6-8 months after 3 you forget it.
2nd time - unemployment. works wonders. As long as you have NO income any form and it just causes more pain.
it's like drug addiction.
then again I found it made you think more about the WL you choose to blow money on.
The other side is you try harder for the free stuff. I dropped my standards during the GFC
There is many bull shit sad story and many personal problem. That girls ask for punter.
some girls likes watching competition of boys. boys fight each other for girl.
girl telling you bullshit story to boys.
I don't fight for girl. i just fuck with girl. If i want to pay for drink or gift for girl. i pay. but if the girl ask me for money.
I just give them my sperm to mouth
There is many bull shit sad story and many personal problem. That girls ask for punter.
some girls likes watching competition of boys. boys fight each other for girl.
girl telling you bullshit story to boys.
I don't fight for girl. i just fuck with girl.
If i want to pay for drink or gift for girl. i pay.
but if the girl ask me for money.
I just give them my sperm to mouth
Maybe rather than go cold turkey, wind back your punting frequency to once a fortnight, or once a month.
If you want to save money, rather than punt, then take away the temptation: move your money to a high interest savings account, and limit your "ATM accessible" account to a few hundred bucks, just enough to live off, but not enough to spend money unnecessarily on punts.
That way, there is a "friction" in accessing your money which may help to remove the temptation, especially if you wank to remove the sexual urge component.
For me, the main temptation is if I am out in the evening, the natural temptation is to make the most of it by ducking off for a quick dirty hour. I leave the ATM card at home when I am thinking with my big head, so my little head is not able to make the decision later in the evening
It's hard to remove the temptation, especially reading about some of the hot horny encounters some other bros are having, but the best way is to wind back gradually, and make it 'harder' to punt.
Live in the country for a while. When I was out there, and when I still visit, the WLs charge outlandish prices. Basically what you pay for at 5* or Ginza but without the quality. I understand the same is basically true for Melbourne and Brisbane.
Hmmm, here is where I admit that while seeing my regular has given me a new perspective on life, the actual addiction to her is stronger than I've been willing to admit. Failing to follow through on the lessons she's taught me makes me a bad student who is hot for teacher! I've seen her 10 times in the last month and going cold turkey isn't an option. I'm distracted at work. I'm distracted at home. HOT FOR TEACHER AAAAAAAAAA!!!!!
Haha gggi, I know the feeling, for the first time in years Ive come across a WL to whom I am truly addicted. I've seen other WLs but that just makes me want my addiction more. To make it worse, she knows I'm addicted, she knows what I like, and she makes sure to give it to me every time, which isn't helping matters. Yes I think I am upto about 10 times in the last month too.
But then, this isn't helping the OP is it...
The perception that we get through punting is the 'always on' availability for sex. Even if we got other parlour for our favourite girl and she's not available, then we will accept the next available girl for our fix.
Sadly, real life and real life gf are good but just not this available.
So, giving up punting means giving up this always available fantasy.
Over the years, I have been to see a couple of psychologists about this addiction and their solutions do work for about two yeas and then I drift back.