Hmmm have you looked at Cracker? (not that I am saying it's a great and reliable source of intel..) I remember seeing a rather nice looking Asian lass based out Carlingford way that did bdsm.
Or I could introduce you to my ex-wife. She is a man eater. And I'm not talking about the "whoa-whoa, here she comes" kind of man-eater. I'm talking about the kind that uses your dignity as a dishtowel to wipe up any shreds of manhood that might be stuck inside the sink. Not my thing unfortunately.