"WL's request to decline visits"

[Atilla]

These girls can come across lots of creepy guys and also guys who are over attached. That means that sometimes they don’t recognise a guy who falls within what he sees as the sweet spot and simply likes her and wants to see her on that basis. An understandable misunderstanding. And yep, she may be overthinking it but Im told that some women might do that sometimes and as others have said she is in a vulnerable position. You can’t do anything about it unfortunately. I can understand the frustration, but you need to move on and get her out of your head.

[F0x]

Wow Zig, you got off really lightly post wise.






I was expecting (and still expecting) "hyaw hyaw, bro-uh, tell me who she is and I'll Thanos snap her pussy out of existence for you with my cock then see how much you still like her hyah hyaw"

I mean it's another 'fallen for WL' thread, but this one kind of hits different because of how the WL has reacted.

It's not just all about the punter.

I agree with 11B, this WL has a lot of class. Even the way you mentioned 'every punter comes here with a purpose' and didn't want you wasting time or money on her.

You don't need to say anything about your feelings to her, Women know exactly how you feel by your actions, they are heavily tuned to that as I have mentioned multiple times in posts I've written. Truth be told, most people with an emotional sensitivity of more than a doorknob usually can tell how people feel about them without words.

If you really want to see her one more time to talk, make sure it's a talk about how you'll respect that she's given you a very forthright chance to back off and thank her for the time and memories (if you want to get that mushy up to you) and that you won't see her again. You can mention you might see other girls in the shop. Then walk away.

Don't book a session for it unless you are forced to, ask if you can very quickly talk to her privately. Whole thing shouldn't take more than a few minutes of your time.

I don't frequent FS shops much if at all, but I'd recommend going to No5 and seeing either T Anna or K Dana (if they are still there) they both were good punts for me.

However, what's even more recommended is not trying to find a partner in a Sex establishment.

It's not as bad odds as gambling, but it's the same ballpark.
Everytime you go and punt, remember that as much fun as you had with her, she's about to do that for a dude right after you (and one before you), who might even be getting far more than you because she is actually far more into that guy.

I sure as hell know I've on both ends of the spectrum reading reviews here. (Read my Bella @ SBM review compared to others lol)

So do like your namesake, and zig and zag from girl to girl. Enjoy them all.

Happy punting.
- F0x

[Themassageking]

Respect her wishes. But i would keep going to the shop and bang some of the other WL.

[Zoobender]

I think you have creeped her out. You might be giving her stalker vibes. Usually these girls like regulars. Easy money and they know what to expect. But sometimes the regulars become a bit to 'regular' I woundn't go back. She definitely has the ick and you won't be able to get back to equilibrium. This is the punting equivalent of being friendzoned. Just move on.

[GoldfishMan]

I'd say don't see her again, but I have a feeling that you probably will try to.

[Mybadwilly22]

Alright, Zigman, I’m feelin’ like rappin’ this response Eminem - Stan style today, ‘cause mate, you’re about to write yourself into the next AUS99 thriller.


Dear Zig, I know you’re feelin’ big, thinkin’ you’re her guy,
But that “one last visit” vibe, mate? I think it’s time to say goodbye.
She’s out here saying you’re crossing a line,
And yet you’re in this thread like, “She’ll change her mind.”

Mate, it’s the start of a stalker show, can’t you see the signs?
She’s sayin’ “don’t come back” — that’s clear as daylight shines.
All the brothers here telling you it’s time to move on,
Before your “one last chat” becomes your court-ordered bond.

Look, Spectra and cumquat already broke it down real clean,
You’re caught up in a fantasy, know what I mean?
Think she’s “playing hard to get”? Nah, son, she’s uneasy,
You’re sittin’ here stewin’ when she’s askin’ you nicely.

In Stan, it starts with letters and ends in disaster,
But here you’ve got brothers saying “move on faster.”
So why double down, mate? Just walk away,
Before your name and “creepy” get linked in the same day.

11Bravo nailed it, he’s droppin’ truth bombs right here,
She doesn’t want you back, and it’s crystal clear.
And, like Stan, if you don’t take the hint,
You’ll go from “just a punter” to full-on nightmare stint.

So please, mate, take a step back and think,
It’s one shop in the city, just one lady in the sink.
Heaps more fish in the sea, so drop this “one last goodbye,”
Before “just one visit” ends up in a jail cell nearby.

[Candy1234]

Didn’t even know this was even a thing! Yeh I would just find another, fuck it and move to the next.

[mn69]

I seen a previous WL before like everyday as she was only here for short time. And she loved it. But this never happened to me, where she tells you to stop coming lol

I guess it depends how handsome the guy is as well. OP must've done something that gave her the "ick".

But remember, a guy is only creepy if the girl doesn't find him attractive.

[1inchguy]

Don't see her anymore. See someone else at the shop.
Unless what she's saying is the truth, you have ulterior motive. By seeing someone else shows she's just a thing and you're looking for satisfaction.
I do it all the time when a regular ask me do I see someone else at the shop. I tell her the truth, when she's not available i see someone else.

[harry444]

This is classic stalking. And as in most cases the stalker can't see that.

[Candy1234]

Shop and girl’s name? Thanks 😉

[crhaayn]

Move on.

Disregarding how you may actually feel, she thinks you're falling for her, and she's not down for that.

[PussyBonpensiero]

Don't see her anymore. See someone else at the shop.
Unless what she's saying is the truth, you have ulterior motive. By seeing someone else shows she's just a thing and you're looking for satisfaction.
I do it all the time when a regular ask me do I see someone else at the shop. I tell her the truth, when she's not available i see someone else.

What if he looks like Channing Tatum?

[rubit moore]

Alright, Zigman, I’m feelin’ like rappin’ this response Eminem - Stan style today, ‘cause mate, you’re about to write yourself into the next AUS99 thriller.


Dear Zig, I know you’re feelin’ big, thinkin’ you’re her guy,
But that “one last visit” vibe, mate? I think it’s time to say goodbye.
She’s out here saying you’re crossing a line,
And yet you’re in this thread like, “She’ll change her mind.”

Mate, it’s the start of a stalker show, can’t you see the signs?
She’s sayin’ “don’t come back” — that’s clear as daylight shines.
All the brothers here telling you it’s time to move on,
Before your “one last chat” becomes your court-ordered bond.

Look, Spectra and cumquat already broke it down real clean,
You’re caught up in a fantasy, know what I mean?
Think she’s “playing hard to get”? Nah, son, she’s uneasy,
You’re sittin’ here stewin’ when she’s askin’ you nicely.

In Stan, it starts with letters and ends in disaster,
But here you’ve got brothers saying “move on faster.”
So why double down, mate? Just walk away,
Before your name and “creepy” get linked in the same day.

11Bravo nailed it, he’s droppin’ truth bombs right here,
She doesn’t want you back, and it’s crystal clear.
And, like Stan, if you don’t take the hint,
You’ll go from “just a punter” to full-on nightmare stint.

So please, mate, take a step back and think,
It’s one shop in the city, just one lady in the sink.
Heaps more fish in the sea, so drop this “one last goodbye,”
Before “just one visit” ends up in a jail cell nearby.

Haha this is the best post on this thread. Even had me visualising Eminem in battle mode laying this down for the crowd.

https://tenor.com/view/eminem-ciciri...a-gif-24132633

[secret0]

Part of me thinks I shouldn’t go there if she’s uncomfortable, but at the same time, I feel frustrated. After thinking it over, I told her that I would visit once more to share my thoughts with her, though I haven’t decided yet.

What would you all do in my situation? I would appreciate any advice.

She's told you in no uncertain terms you make her uncomfortable and she doesn't want you to try and see her or visit the shop ever again.

What would I do? Respect her wishes and never try to see her again or visit the shop.

Don't try to come up with reasons or excuses otherwise. Don't be that fucking guy.

[rubit moore]

I have a favourite WL and have visited her a few times.
A few days ago, she asked me if I had ever come to the shop and then left without meeting her. Recently, I found it a bit challenging to make an appointment by phone, so I visited the shop when I had some time. However, when I saw that she seemed busy, I simply decided to leave. I explained the situation to her. She thought for a moment and then told me that it might be best for me to stop looking for her. When I asked why, she replied that it could be a misunderstanding on her part, but she felt that I might think of her in a special way, which had started to make her uncomfortable..................................


What would you all do in my situation? I would appreciate any advice.

Oh btw OP, do this woman a favour and leave her alone. Your actions in that paragraph above were pre-emptive and not the actions of a real man. Take the hint you've been given and stay away.

[holi_day]

Always trust women's intuition.

If she sense something uncomfortable, intimidating or even dangerous, she's probably right.

[1inchguy]

What if he looks like Channing Tatum?

Obviously not if shes feeling uncomfortable.
Maybe ghe guy has a resting stalker face who knows. But if she doesn't want to see him anymore. Best to move on and pay someone else.
Plenty of pussy around.

[Celery]

I am writing this after much thought because I think the WL you are talking about is me. You said you would visit me one more time to let me know your decision, but I don't want to see you anymore. I will tell you because you do not seem to understand. The service I provide to my clients includes my smiling face. However, I can no longer provide you with my smiling face. You never took your eyes off me for even a 1second while you were with me.You may ask why that is a problem, but the look in your eyes when you look at me is a problem for me. I have a strong feeling that you are not meeting me to enjoy your time with me, but that you expect something else from me. All my actions started to become awkward in front of you, and that is why I do not want to see you anymore.
But I know you are a really nice person (naive person), so I suggested that maybe you stop visiting the shop. You said that this experience was your first. If that is true, you may have a bad experience somewhere else, so I suggested it. I also don't think I will be a good memory for you, but this is the best I can do for you. I hope you will enjoy a healthy and happy life, and I hope you will accept my request. I also hope that you will accept my other wish that I do not want to see you posting about me on this forum anymore.

Holy moly, wtf is this thread? Are OP and this poster real, or just a troll? In the case that this is all true, OP I think the girl is just testing your resolve and seeing how far you're willing to go to prove your love to her. If I were you, I'd step it up a notch and perhaps organise something with the mamasan before your next visit to make it extra special. I've dealt with these types of girls before and I know that persistence pays off. Go get it champ!

[Axeman123]

Id be to embarrassed to see her again. Restore your manhood n see another in the shop.