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    Quote Originally Posted by Meng View Post
    Fark 161 posts since joining in Feb. How does one get the time to post that much.
    And that is just one of his accounts and not even counting the time he spends jabbering at himself and others on multiple accounts. If being a useless weirdo was chess this guy is Kasparov multiplied by Deep Blue.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ScotPassingThrough View Post
    And that is just one of his accounts and not even counting the time he spends jabbering at himself and others on multiple accounts. If being a useless weirdo was chess this guy is Kasparov multiplied by Deep Blue.
    I wouldn't grant the window licker the kudos by associating him with chess. It's all so obvious.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sharkgirl View Post
    Y u onli right stuf when H ya bi is here. U here jus 2 folow him?

    Is L hapi that u right on here as xtra 2 blog?
    Fuck off, Hayabi

    Quote Originally Posted by ColesBag View Post
    I wouldn't grant the window licker the kudos by associating him with chess. It's all so obvious.
    Fair point. Bad analogy

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    I went to sign up to a site to see if it still a shit show and this one girl aged 33, says on her profile old guys need to stop messaging her. She is only looking for guys around her age....

    Looking for: Men between 25-35!

    OMG 2 years older and 8 years younger hahahaha!

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    It totally makes sense to use dating sites like Tinder if you're single and in decent shape. A lot of people on there are just looking for casual hookups, and it’s way cheaper than paying by the hour or spending a lot on sugar babies. I’ve had pretty good experiences with these apps – you get to meet new people and it's way more affordable.

    If you're still hunting for this info, I have a suggestion. I found a site called villideitti.net, which is like a sex club where you can easily find a date just for sex, no strings attached.

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    The amount of times I went straight to a private or brothel after another catfish or smokescreen meet up was pretty high! Having said that there was quite a handful of outstanding fucks and formed fuck buddies that made up for it!
    If you got time to spare enjoy the game but if time is money it’s a waste
    And there’s stalkerish moments and hurt feelings amongst the fun

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    I personally think that going into a relationship with a girl is a completely different thing from punting. Just because both will lead to sex doesn't mean they're interchangeable. Even the sex you get out of both will be different.

    So I always say, if you need to punt go punt, just don't let that stop you from having a normal relationship with girls.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LuvJapPusssy View Post
    Relationships & marriages will cost you significantly more in the long term. And less sex or even no sex later on.

    Only fun & exciting at the start
    Everything (in life) has a price, it's just a question of what you are willing to pay, and whether the price was worth it.

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    Lol. I married a girl, haven't had PIV sex in 4 years. With her atleast. Lol.

    Women just aren't interested in sex in the same way. They use sex to get commitment. And they desire sex a lot, but only if there's commitment to be gained.

    Once they've got that, they sort of don't care.

    So fuck it. I got married for social obligations. The sex dried up after like 6 months of living together so I said fuck it.

    Now I fuck 18 year old hotties whenever I want and never have to beg for sex or do the chores or anything.

    I would have much preferred to have regular sex with my wife, but she doesnt want that so I'm going to make the best out of a bad situation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LuvJapPusssy View Post
    Yes this is true. The problem is if one day your wife finds out about your punting, then decides to leave. Or she just decides to leave one day for no reason.

    Then you have all your money and assets at stake

    If she gets most, you may have trouble continuing to "f"ck 18 year old hotties" whenever you want
    Eh men, only participate in the legal system as long as they deem it fair;
    If it's unfair, then there is no legal system worth participating in.

    In other words if that looks like it's going to that way, il'l grow a beard, all assets in bitcoin, and I'm going to go hide on top of a bar in soi6 for a decade or so.

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    Quote Originally Posted by andrewv View Post
    On the other hand, sugar sites like seeking.com has a ratio of 5:1 girls:guys .. but the catch is men have to pay $$$$$

    This is why massage shops and brothels will always be in demand.
    Is this still the case? There's barely any girls I'm interested in on those sites, though I do notice a lot more unsearchable/hidden profiles...

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    if you have the majority of the following attributes then yeah sure Ok you can probably have sex with attractive young women on a semi regular basis without paying for it ... you have to be young, rich, handsome, fit, famous, hung, confident, successful, intelligent, charismatic, connected etc ... but even then you would have to work pretty hard for it, and ultimately pay some serious money ... but if you are a mere mortal like me and 99% of the dudes reading this then if you want regular sex with lots of young gorgeous girls ... then you are gonna have to be a punter ... nothing wrong with paying for it, nothing to brag about and nothing to be ashamed about, just a rational lifestyle choice ... enjoy!

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    When i was younger and it was before the dating app days AND when sydney nightlife was still good, i used to go around sydney picking up girls

    I did get women to sleep with me, but it was very time consuming. Since i lived in the burbs, travelling to the city and back on shittyrail took over an hour.

    Then approaching, getting her number, dates, flakes, no shows, logistics to take her back home, and trying to get her to have sex was a tedious task. The saying hi to final sex ratio was very low.

    It was also inconsistent as well. Some nights i would do very well eg kissing one girl, fingering another and sex with another girl in the parking lot to getting absolutely shut down 10 times a night and going home with nothing but feeling shit.

    When i was younger and poorer, it was something fun and exciting but after early 20s, its just not a productive way to spend your life tbh.

    Now you can drive around sydney and pick any one of the 1000 working girls or two

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    Apps like tinder work if you are a good looking and stand out from the rest. Way more guys on there than there are women. If you are one of those types of guys, it’s a goldmine. I’m decent looking but definitely no Brad Pitt, so it means I would have to devote the time and apply myself more than others. Then it’s a case of meeting for coffee and dinner. If you don’t click, that’s time and money down the drain. May as well go and see ML/WL and walk out happy. Although, it’s not the best for one’s self confidence (for me anyway). My perspective may come across as negative but it’s the reality for guys these days.

    Women are quite picky on those sites and have heard stories from mates time and time again. One in particular has met up with a few girls off tinder and hasn’t had much luck. Some girls being quite blunt in terms of communicating that they don’t find him attractive. He walks away quite dejected. The good looking rooster of the group does quite well but is sick of paying for dinners and having to spend time with them in order to get them into the bedroom lol.

    As per a previous post, nothing is free. You just have to make a decision as to whether you want to play the game or go to FS or massage joint and take a pick of one of the gorgeous girls.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rooter View Post
    if you have the majority of the following attributes then yeah sure Ok you can probably have sex with attractive young women on a semi regular basis without paying for it ... you have to be young, rich, handsome, fit, famous, hung, confident, successful, intelligent, charismatic, connected etc ... but even then you would have to work pretty hard for it, and ultimately pay some serious money ... but if you are a mere mortal like me and 99% of the dudes reading this then if you want regular sex with lots of young gorgeous girls ... then you are gonna have to be a punter ... nothing wrong with paying for it, nothing to brag about and nothing to be ashamed about, just a rational lifestyle choice ... enjoy!
    Spot on. Great post!

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    After spending time in my late teens/early 20s and through to my 30s going out on weekends, and even using very early iterations of online dating + speed dating to date and bed women - I have found the whole process completely boring. This lifestyle is not cheap nor is it convenient these days.

    I've also lost count of the amount of times I've booked a session immediately after exiting a online dating app date. In fact, I've even excused myself to the bathroom a couple of times so I could phone/text through a booking... before then excusing myself completely with a "it was nice to meet you".

    I don't even have dating apps installed anymore. I'd rather go have a nice dinner and drinks on a weekend in the company of close friends rather than sit there with a boring woman - who can't wait for you to go to the toilet so she can check her Instagram and respond to her friends messages about whether all the 'checklist' items are being ticked off.

    There are so many gorgeous MLs/WLs out there - who are available at your leisure and convenience, to give you pleasure.

    In one way or another, you pay for it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by andrewv View Post
    Last week, I met an old mate and compared notes on our favourite subject. He has been a punter for years while married. His marriage ended a year ago. He kept punting for a few months, then signed up with a couple of dating sites. He discovered that many women on these sites are reasonably attractive and are looking for sex as much as he is. He calls it the "hookup world," and it costs a lot less than going to shops (paying by the hour) or paying sugar babies $500+ each time.

    My question is, if you are single (no fear of discovery by a partner) and in reasonable shape, why don't you "hookup" using Tinder and other sites, knowing that many of these women are not looking for a boyfriend/husband and need sex over the weekend, and most likely ghost you anyway afterwards? Taking a woman to dinner at a nice place still costs less than $200.....

    What is your experience?
    Why ? Because Tinder and other *free* hookup sites are just as dubious as Matchmaking companies full of exaggerated , fake and scam profiles . Yes , you can get a freebie but prefer the cash transaction of a WL/ML where service is guaranteed without the timewasting whining and dining AND especially no strings attached after with persistent phonecalls , future relationship and crazy stalker

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    Look how difficult it is with all the advertising about consent.

    At least with a WL she won't withdraw consent while you're balls deep.
    My level of sarcasm depends on your level of stupidity.

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    Free product and service are usually the most expensive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by holi_day View Post
    Free product and service are usually the most expensive.
    you either pay now or later pretty much. roughly still costs the same at the end of the day.

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