Haha. Exactly. If a girl who sells “love” for money still does not want to see you when you want to give her money, for whatever reason of personal preference, it’s madness that you would persist in trying to get the mamasan to convince her. A bad outcome for everyone concerned.
You literally said in your original post that you wanted the mamasan to tell her you’re not Indian. To what end? Just so that some ML who does not want to see you and you claim you do not care about seeing does not confuse you as a Bangladeshi or Sri Lankan or something similar for an Indian. This sounds like an issue of regional nationalistic pride for you.
Then stay anonymous mister south asian. Hahaha
Unfortunately they have a reputation of being rough and haggling etc.
If they're Indian themselves then they probably don't want to risk being seen with people of the same race incase somebody knows them.
Very interesting but did the mamasan or girl outright denied because you were of a particular race?
Just note that girls have the right to choose customers up to their discretion. Not saying OP is ugly, but you might've not floated the girl's boat.
Russell Peters did a funny skit once when he was mistaken for a Sicilian.
stupidest response i've ever heard
lets play your game
I am from Vietnam
oh shit now you all know who I am from that
Frankly, when they say "No Indians" they mean the whole of South Asia: India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Sri Lanka, etc.
After all, before 1948, India was one country consisting of today's India, Pakistan and Bangladesh. If you get my drift.
There are always other working girls that will be happy to take your $$$$ so it is pointless to trying the "I am not an Indian" convincing strategy.
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Perhaps go to the shop and choose one of the girls who doesn't have a problem. After the session, talk to the mamasan and explain that you'd like to see X next time, ask if she thinks you would be acceptable.
Op is Nepalese or Pakistani. Why don’t you just say where your from and we can decide if you have been mistaken
I can see why the OP doesn't want people to identify him as Indian, especially if he isn't from there. Same reason as someone from Japan wouldn't want to be identified as Chinese etc. but Chinese, Japanese and Korean probably all originated from East Asia.
But in the context of punting, most of the WL/ML's just lump south asian's as Indian. Don't take that as an offense OP, its just how it is. Find an ML that will accept you as what you are.
And Canadians get very upset if they are identified as Americans LOL
The reason the authors of these AR's had good times is simple: the providers wanted to do business with them. If she doesn't want to do business with you, then why waste time trying to convince her otherwise. Or to correct her on your correct nationality/heritage. She has other things on her mind then differentiating the region's various nationalities. Punters are turned down for many reasons: nationality/heritage, age, not having a high enough price ceiling... Myself, I've been told a number of times that I'm "too big"... unfortunately, she was talking about my stomach...
This is just a bad case of FOMO. My advice? As Yul Brynner told Eli Wallach in The Magnificent Seven, "RIDE ON".
https://youtu.be/DcmzHtokiMw?t=115
Believe it was Garrick Utley who told this story:
Iranian hostage crisis, American diplomats held hostage in Tehran. An American TV news channel sent a reporter team to cover. Team surrounded by crowd, crowd growing more and more angry by the minute, chanting "Death to America, Death to America". Things looking grim. Then Garrick said, "But we're Canadian..." Crowd calms down, starting to disperse. Then a voice pipes up, "Canada? You're the ones who HID the Americans..." Crowd starts to regroup... Team decided to skip the story.