How do you deal with Bad Punts

[dotcumdotinyou]

Happened to me at 7 cowper, I wrote an AR about it. I'm balls deep fucking and she had pods in and was talking to someone. Haven't gone back since.

[gco0307]

To me a lot depends on why I feel it was a dud punt.
Yes, I will often review in my head aspects as there are times when it may be a dud because of me and not the lady involved. Was I really wanting to go and have the fun or was it just something to kill time type of thought?
For me, if the dud aspect was no connection that is a 2 way street as while yes, the lady has a level of responsibility to try to connect and make the time pleasant, I also have the responsibility to be receptive and try to return teh connection attempts. Sometimes it works and build, sometimes ti does not and when that occurs I have to accept level of blame and so I may pass on that lady but not the place.

However, where the atmoshpere or the place itself is the issue, I will often pass totally for any other visist but remembering that it is a single shop, sometimes sister shops are not the same level of issue so I may try a sister shop.

[GoldfishMan]

Unfortunately, you described the reality of the game.

There is not one prostitute (you fellas politely call them WL!) who wakes up every morning and says, “today, I am looking forward to helping 10 to 15 men become excited and sexually satisfied in exchange for money. In the same way I did it to 200 different men in the last 2 to 3 weeks.”

Women never ever work in this field for any reason other than to make big $$$ else they’d stack shelves at Coles.

Some are good at acting/pretending while others can’t hide their body language that says we’re a bunch of losers needing to pay $$$ for sex.

All else is bullshit. Sorry to bring this unfortunate reality of punting into focus.

It’s why I roll my eyes when I read about punters here gloating about making WL reach orgasm and/or squirt.

Now, I will see the objections to my reality-check comments flood in reply…..

Being polite? No bro, I just prefer to type 2 characters vs typing out 10 characters that my spell check would probably autocorrect to something else for PC reasons. You thinking too much, bro.

[andrewv]

Being polite? No bro, I just prefer to type 2 characters vs typing out 10 characters that my spell check would probably autocorrect to something else for PC reasons. You thinking too much, bro.

At the risk of revealing too much, I suggest you talk to some prostitute without them knowing that you're a punter. Only then do they reveal the awful truth. Going out on a date with them does not count. Maybe pretend that you are the owner of a shop and looking to recruit them. I rest my case. If you find one hooker who tells you that she wakes up in the morning looking forward to pleasuring men for money, let me know and introduce her, and I'll pay you $1,000.

[Double_Adapter]

Ha..
Sex is like pizza.
Even if it's bad it's still pretty good.

I was about to say a bad punt is one were you get an STD/STI
So the equivalent would be like eating a dodgy pizza and vomiting and shitting diarrhoea for the next 3 days.

Having said that, it still won't stop people from eating pizza. So yeah, pizza is like sex.

[Umitabi]

Move on and don’t think much about it

[GoldfishMan]

At the risk of revealing too much, I suggest you talk to some prostitute without them knowing that you're a punter. Only then do they reveal the awful truth. Going out on a date with them does not count. Maybe pretend that you are the owner of a shop and looking to recruit them. I rest my case. If you find one hooker who tells you that she wakes up in the morning looking forward to pleasuring men for money, let me know and introduce her, and I'll pay you $1,000.

Nah, I don’t need them to like sucking every dick that comes her way, I just need her to like sucking my dick. Why would I care what she thinks about other dicks?


And I’ll add, I know why most peeps here love to generalise girls. Just because one WG was money grubbing means every WG will be money grubbing. Oh, just because she’ll love one punter means she’ll love all of us. That kind of thinking only shows that you’ve never actually been in a real relationship with a girl. Every one of them are different… ok?

One ex-GF of mine loved branded clothes, the next one loves gold doesn’t give a shit about branded clothes. One loves sit down talks, the other just wants to fuck no talking. What’s the point of generalising?

[11Bravo]

Was looking forward to a great session tonight but it turned out to be a bad punt and i am still thinking about it which makes me upset, my mood is terrible & perhaps i wont even sleep good tonight...

We go punting for many reasons whether it is so relieve stress , forget about worldy affairs , feel loved etc but ultimately it is to have a good time and to relieve that fantastic experience over but
is also true for bad sessions, thinking about it just makes me mad.

Yeah it happens, I understand not every WL is a unicorn and will deliver outstanding service but it is why i read up on ARs beforehand to avoid shit like this happening.

A bad punt can make your already bad mood 10x worse, relieving that experience over is shitty.

cant stop thinking about it on my drive back home...

Feedback already passed on to the shop

Thoughts?

Disappointment: the difference between your fantasy and reality

How old are you anyway?

If your life is so short that 60 minutes not living up to YOUR expectations and you can't sleep? You have bigger problems than a bad punt.

If your mood is so altered by 60 minutes not living up to YOUR expectations? Get another hobby. IME, better chance of success at a punt than at the slot machines (or any casino gambling).

If your outlook is so altered by 60 minutes not living up to YOUR expectations? Who the hell are you? You think the world owes you something? Definition of entitled.

Rather than looking inward at your misery, try, FOR ONCE, looking outward and see how good you have it if you can afford to punt.

You probably think you've met HER expectations on every punt, but I definitely agree with andrewv on this one.

You read the AR's and she didn't deliver? You really should understand YMMV.

She spat on your cock? Try watching a bit more Japanese porn. She was on her phone? Really? Maybe she didn't realize you'd penetrated her... obviously bored... You obviously have trouble reading a room. Myself, I don't lose the power of speech when I'm connected so a simple caution about any phone use on that rare occasion sufficient. Maybe you just didn't have that genuine punter aura...

Where I come from, you're known as a cry baby. Get a life. Geesh.

[justforfun2023]

Disappointment: the difference between your fantasy and reality

How old are you anyway?

If your life is so short that 60 minutes not living up to YOUR expectations and you can't sleep? You have bigger problems than a bad punt.

If your mood is so altered by 60 minutes not living up to YOUR expectations? Get another hobby. IME, better chance of success at a punt than at the slot machines (or any casino gambling).

If your outlook is so altered by 60 minutes not living up to YOUR expectations? Who the hell are you? You think the world owes you something? Definition of entitled.

Rather than looking inward at your misery, try, FOR ONCE, looking outward and see how good you have it if you can afford to punt.

You probably think you've met HER expectations on every punt, but I definitely agree with andrewv on this one.

You read the AR's and she didn't deliver? You really should understand YMMV.

She spat on your cock? Try watching a bit more Japanese porn. She was on her phone? Really? Maybe she didn't realize you'd penetrated her... obviously bored... You obviously have trouble reading a room. Myself, I don't lose the power of speech when I'm connected so a simple caution about any phone use on that rare occasion sufficient. Maybe you just didn't have that genuine punter aura...

Where I come from, you're known as a cry baby. Get a life. Geesh.

Thanks for the reality check, I appreciate your harsh comment

[wilisno]

Thanks for the reality check, I appreciate your harsh comment

In short, punting is just for fun, no need to get too wound up about a bad punt, you’ll get more good punts in 2024.

[Timeis629]

Look until you find the good ones - called experience

[Axeman123]

Learn how to turn it your way. Create something from nothing. Therein lies the challenge.

[scorpio85]

This. Live and learn. I had 2 bad experiences with 2 different girls at the same shop. Despite others having good times with these girls at this shop, I didn't and left feeling ripped off and a little disappointed. Was it the end of the world? No. Was I pissed off? No.
I've moved on and forgotted about that place and found a place where I have had nothing but good experiences and I just stick to going there from now on.

[11Bravo]

This. Live and learn. I had 2 bad experiences with 2 different girls at the same shop. Despite others having good times with these girls at this shop, I didn't and left feeling ripped off and a little disappointed. Was it the end of the world? No. Was I pissed off? No.
I've moved on and forgotted about that place and found a place where I have had nothing but good experiences and I just stick to going there from now on.

Proving the validity of YMMV. And the value of personal experiences. Accept no substitutes... well done.

[ColesBag]

The same way I treat a bad pizza, I get another one.

Pretty much. These dopey W/L's & M/L's who give bad service should remember that the object of sales ( i.e your body ) is to much sure the customer comes back again.

I've had the check phone thing whilst fucking also so I just never go there again. She loses income & I never look back.

[GoldfishMan]

FMD checking the phone while you're fucking her. Rotten luck to meet a girl like that. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy!

[rooter]

FMD checking the phone while you're fucking her. Rotten luck to meet a girl like that. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy!

Well it's possible she was going straight onto all her socials to tell the world what an amazing fuck this guy is.
It's the Insta, Tik Tok generation.

[ColesBag]

Well it's possible she was going straight onto all her socials to tell the world what an amazing fuck this guy is.

I laughed at this I have to say. Who knows, maybe she was expecting a very important call.

[JJBlows]

Dealing with it is easy, either don't go back to shop or if shop good and girl bad, just tell the manager straight up that the girl is a shit root.

[personaa]

Bad punts are part of the game and they are needed every now and then because they make good punts stand out. If you were happy everyday then being happy would have no meaning. Sadness is what makes being happy (and not happiness) meaningful.