You sync'd the VR with the fleshlight? Or you're just using them at the same time? Either way, welcome to the wanking future!
I work in VR development so I've "researched" quite a bit of content. Most of the tech that tries to digitally sync toys to content is pretty expensive and mostly crap.
I really want to produce some better quality porn game content. Set the cameras better and allow the player to be "hands-free" but select choose your own adventure options via a gaze control. I think the next evolution is the story control element where you virtually fuck the girl the way you want.
If anyone wants to invest, I'll do the development for free.