Best techniques to make the girls come?

[Jj999]

I must admit I never set out to make a WL come although often it does just seem to happen.
You guys are clearly much more dedicated than me.
I am curious though as to whether you want to make her come because you genuinely care about her and want her to experience this pleasure.
Or you want to make the girl come to feel good about yourself, to prove to her and yourself (and to other guys via the forum) that you are a good lover, to boost your own ego etc.
I have a pet theory that altruism is often just hedonism in drag. Its like people who give to charity - do they really care about the poor people they give money to or is it really just to feel good about themselves, relieve their guilt, prove to themselves and others that they are a good person etc.
I am not being critical of anyone ( I stopped being judgemental a long, long time ago) so please don't take this as a criticism, I am just curious.

For charity, esp.to SouthEast Asian, for me, partly is to relieve my guilt feeling somewhere in that region. And that's the only region I'd give charity to.

But, for others, if I don't really care for those I'm going to help, I won't do it.
My job in the financial market has unevitably invite negative opinions from some. So, it's become a "I don't care, what the others are thinking" attitude.
I never feel the need to lie to myself.
I'll help when I care.


Oh, I'm not dedicated to that.
"Make WLs enjoy a session by driving them to orgasm"
I never know if that's something they'd enjoy, or hope to experience while working.