Long story short, I met a dealer at Crown casino about a year ago, and I would travel there interstate about every fortnight for work, then play a bit of table games after. I got talking to this dealer and we got along real well, I thought I had a chance. One day I decide to ask her out, and she said no. So I thought, ok, guess I was wrong, she wasn't interested after all.

After that whenever I went, I would avoid her table. After a while, I noticed that she would be looking at me from a distance, and we'd just kinda stare at each other like that from different tables. One day I'm playing at a table, and she comes on as the new dealer. She starts talking to me being real friendly, and since then we have sort of resumed our 'thing' and everything was like before I asked her out.

Call me goddamn stupid, but I just get the vibe now that maybe she is interested. I just can't understand why she would always be looking at me and being so friendly if she wasn't interested, especially after knowing that I am interested?!?! If a guy asked a girl out and the girl didn't want to lead him on, wouldn't she say no and then after that avoid him or want to be avoided?

But on the other hand, I have friends who are married, and they tell me that their wives rejected them at first but they were persistent.

So what should a guy do, should a guy have to ask a girl out twice?!?!