Reply With QuoteYou can’t win her back. She’s not interested in you
Go and punt like crazy and get her out of your system
Hello brothers,
I'm long time quiet reader and this is my first real post here.. I've been to many places around sydney, rnt, fs, privates, and seen too many girls to remember.
Recently I've been seeing this same girl exclusively at rnt shop for 8 months, we started to go out outside the shop and you could guess, as I know her better as a person we somehow develop a mutual feeling and I fell in love with her.
I started to see her once a week, then twice, thrice and so on, in the shop or outside, and this soon becomes a pattern, everytime i see her i would give her financial help even when we dont do anything.
She is very intellectual girl and have clear mindset of what she wanted to achieve in life. I can see that although shes popular, she is struggling emotionally and doing it only to survive until this year. I can communicate with her and talked about anything, even porn and dick pics that always circulate on my guys only whatsapp group. This is what made me to fall in love with her, other than physical reason of course.
I am married, its going downhill however, and i've told her about it, and my marriage issues once i felt i have a feeling for her.. She was fine with it. I have now reached the point where I would leave it for her.
But couple weeks ago when i went to her place she cried and told me she is seeing another guy. He doesnt know what she does for living. Part of the reason is when she look at me, she always remember that we met at the shop and it brings her memories that she doesnt want to remember. She started to make distance to me, and although i said i wanted to support her financially, she disagrees.
She agrees to still see me outside, as a friend, I'm still madly in love with her and i still want to win her back but I feel I'm losing the battle here.. I should have known better.
One thing that could help me to step back is perhaps going back to seeing other girls, but at this point i feel its hurting more as i know i still love her and have no interest in punting.
I dont regret falling in love with her, I need to share and vent before I'm getting mad
You can’t win her back. She’s not interested in you
Go and punt like crazy and get her out of your system
Tough situation, but you really need to move on and go to another shop.
Quit now. Cut your losses. Move on.
In a week's time you will be over her. She is already over you.
Sounds like you had a great experience. Don't spoil it now. Let it rest.
Your next amazing experience is just around the corner.
Just enjoy the memories and move on
Try to love your wife again
The people before me have given you some great advice, IMHO -- Babycat especially.
Here's a little bit more: The best way to forget one is in the arms of another.
Good luck mate, you'll work it out.
Consider yourself lucky that she is seeing another guy , I’m telling you from my own experience , it’s always end badly !!! Spend more time with your wife , and also go punting like crazy with other girls !! Don’t waste your emotion and money on her anymore ,
Enjoy the good memories! Maybe there would have been too many issues for the relationship to go further
Thanks bros for the advice, i sort of know i need to get over her. At this point i'm still in deep shit but. Im going to see her out next friday - as friend, i shouldn't but i still not able to resist.
Still not in the mood but i started to look around the rosters and see if theres anything interesting..
As for my wife, i feel theres nothing i can do more, we sort of still stay together but there is no respecr or feeling anymore between us.
Best way to get over a girl is get a new one !
There have been numerous threads on this subject in the past.
The overwhelming consensus was DON'T DO IT.
Nearly had a nervous breakdown. Divorce messy and drains your money. You would want the best for her so do you both a favour and let her go. It took me 2 years to work this out.
Mr T, do you have children with your wife?Originally Posted by takasitau
Assuming you could some how win your ML back, would you really divorce your wife and be with her happily ever after, sure you can live with her past career ? Mate , having a ML/WL on the side or as a gf could be very much different than having a long term relationship or marrying one.
As most people here have suggested, go back to your wife and move on.
Good luck.
Stop punting hang out with your mates get a hobby. It’s hard to get over totally understand that some people love differently to others.
Oh I see. No feeling might be able to fix but no respect or no trust is the worst.
Agreed. If you try your best already but still not work, then don't be afraid of breakdown, just like you got wounded and it's rotten so it's hurt but you need to cut it off. Otherwise, whole life will be suffered.
Thanks bro ahlungor.. i wouldn't mind with what shes done to got the money, she needed it to survive, not collectiong wealth, and its only temporary.
Now the thing that would get me over her is if i have another girl to talk with me rather than just ml/wl-client relationship, but this could be another disaster.. sigh
At my age its hard to find mates that are not busy with their gf/family/kids, thats why i vent out here.. i sort of have a sports hobby but in this situatuon, i lost interest for everything generally, bad for work too
Ok brothers, ive made few punting arrangements next week, hopefully i could get over it sooner.. one is girl that i havent seen for a while, hoping when i see her i can vent out
Am I the only one who noticed that the OP mentioned he’s in a guys only group in which people are sharing dick pics ??
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