Yeah I feel better now knowing alot of people go through similar things. It sucks but what can you do. I've decided not to visit her and cherish the time we did spend together. She will be a distant memory for me but a happy one. I appreciate everyone's advice and comments. Really got me through tonight. I would of been just thinking why but you guys helped me see why maybe she did it.. thanks
Knowing that she hasn't blocked me on line. Should I send her something or just wait ?
Reminds me of a time 15 or so years ago. WL I saw in Burwood, 57 George maybe. I thought we had a real good connection, I liked her a lot, and I don’t think I’m dreaming it was mutual. I was never as close as you in your situation but we were close enough that I can still replay meetings in my head and think about her often. I wasn’t married, had no girlfriends or anything, I really liked her.
The last time I saw her, at the shop, I didn’t know it would be the last time I’d see or speak to her, and neither did she. As usual she asks private questions and I was happy to answer. Then I knew she had to walk away from what she did, I couldn’t take her. I couldn’t buy her for the rest of her life. I couldn’t give her what she had, the manicures, the hair, the shoes, maybe more importantly whatever else she did with her money.
So that night she realised I couldn’t provide for her at that time of her life, and I realised it wasn’t meant to be. Who knows about another time, which of course is why I still think about her. It was easy to close the door behind me.
most of the girls ive spoken to at the popular shop on this forum and im pretty sure most of you guys who have asked know 90% of the WLs have date or gone out with the punters. its funny BC mention blue mountains hehe that were i took a Japanese WL a year ago. you have to have good mental strength and a special kinda of dont give a fuk attitude if she continues to work.
To put it bluntly, OP u need to forget about her and move on to other chicks. Girls are fickle, I think Jap girls more than others. For whatever reason, she bailed on you. The pain sucks I imagine but trying to stick with her will only hurt more.
Got a tinder match once with a jap girl and we got on well online but when we were scheduled to meet as agreed upon, she totally ignored me that day with no warning or sign at all. Fortunately had other matches so wasn't to hung up on her but I would imagine it would suck for a guy to be left hanging like that after a good start till tat point. Lesson is....don't be too committed to a girl in the beginning.