How to quit Punting?

[CunningLinguist]

Over the years, I have been to see a couple of psychologists about this addiction and their solutions do work for about two yeas and then I drift back.

What are their solutions ?

[gggi]

Addiction. It is hard. I actually got the shakes today.

[astro boy]

The perception that we get through punting is the 'always on' availability for sex. Even if we got other parlour for our favourite girl and she's not available, then we will accept the next available girl for our fix.

Sadly, real life and real life gf are good but just not this available.

So, giving up punting means giving up this always available fantasy.

Over the years, I have been to see a couple of psychologists about this addiction and their solutions do work for about two yeas and then I drift back.

Do they generally tell you that you must give up.. or leave it up to you and then give you strategies.
I would be more comfortable with male psychologist

[borock]

best way to quit punting? Quit this forum!

Too many erotic ARs here that it is almost impossible to not try the girls yourself.

So, even though I have a gf now, I'm still trying to fit in times to punt...but eventually, I do realise I have to stop. And that is most likely the time when I quit this forum, to stop reading all the ARs and forget that I'm missing out on all those amazing ladies working their ass off to please us customers.

It's gonna be hard.

[kobe7]

best way to quit punting? Quit this forum!

Too many erotic ARs here that it is almost impossible to not try the girls yourself.

So, even though I have a gf now, I'm still trying to fit in times to punt...but eventually, I do realise I have to stop. And that is most likely the time when I quit this forum, to stop reading all the ARs and forget that I'm missing out on all those amazing ladies working their ass off to please us customers.

It's gonna be hard.

I do not read much of the AR's ,only some and I mostly read the shop roster or go to their website if they have one ><

[black knight]

best way to quit punting? Quit this forum!

Too many erotic ARs here that it is almost impossible to not try the girls yourself.

So, even though I have a gf now, I'm still trying to fit in times to punt...but eventually, I do realise I have to stop. And that is most likely the time when I quit this forum, to stop reading all the ARs and forget that I'm missing out on all those amazing ladies working their ass off to please us customers.

It's gonna be hard.

I agree quitting the forum is the first step, the enticement is definitely there.
Once you read a review of a girl, even one that you have seen before,
you just want to have "what their having" experience, or relive the good times
you have previously had.

Walking away from the computer, and occupying yourself with other stuff ie,
family, travel, chores, dates, meetups etc will keep your mind busy,
and give you less time to worry about your next punt..

[Violent Martin]

The best way is to find yourself a girlfriend bro

If you're ugly, jobless or have no game etc just set your sights low. go for an easy target like a single mother or a 3/10 fatty. It really don't matter bc once you start tapping that pootang on the regular (and probably rawdoggin too) you wont never want to pay for it again!

[Max Impact]

The best way is to find yourself a girlfriend bro

If you're ugly, jobless or have no game etc just set your sights low. go for an easy target like a single mother or a 3/10 fatty. It really don't matter bc once you start tapping that pootang on the regular (and probably rawdoggin too) you wont never want to pay for it again!



Mosquito, will you post an AR soon so that I can say you are on the payroll of the shop? lol Idiot!!

[pkwilsoncw]

I have the same problem as well, I started last year November
and I have been going at least once a week ever since...

It is highly addictive, especially for me, I love big tits (D cup at least...),
In real life, its tough to find some good looking girls with D cup or plus but they are no taken
so... punting is the only way...

I tried to quit, tried not to think about it but I still come to this website almost everyday...

[gggi]

You're right. I'm taking a break!

[Wayne]

The perception that we get through punting is the 'always on' availability for sex. Even if we got other parlour for our favourite girl and she's not available, then we will accept the next available girl for our fix.

Sadly, real life and real life gf are good but just not this available.

So, giving up punting means giving up this always available fantasy.

Over the years, I have been to see a couple of psychologists about this addiction and their solutions do work for about two yeas and then I drift back.

Great post. But, what are the psychologist's solutions?

[gggi]

I am here to report abject failure.

[RoyalFlush]

You punt less when
-you are in love
-you believe in monogamous relationship
-you are busy with work
-you are busy running a business trying to make a profit
-you found a new addiction
-you are getting free sex
-you are preoccupied chasing a girl
-you are overseas esp in a country where you are not interested in the girls
-you realise you cannot afford to punt
-you have been getting bad punts consecutively numerous times in a row
-you start to get a night job if you punt at night
-you start to get a day job if you punt in the day
-you got fired from a job
-it is rainy and cold outside
-more than one WL insulted you for anything like cumming too fast, dick too small, have you come yet?
-someone discovered your punting habit and threatening to tell others if you dont stop
-you met your coworker or boss in a punt shop
-your wive left a tracking device in your car and ask did you have a meeting at 22 Brodie again?
-you caught STD
-you just lost a lot of money and you are trying to stave off further losses by punting less
-there is a big personal problem that requires your attention

[IExperiment]

I think of seeing a WL as like going to see a movie, only better.
You pay your money and for the allotted time your are entertained and get to live out your dreams and immerse yourself into a reality of your choosing.
You get to interact with a young beautiful girl who will do almost anything for you.
Once the time is up you are back in the real world and can have fond memories, just like a good movie.
Afterwards you know it was all an act, but during the session/movie you let yourself be fooled to get the most out of it!
I wonder what is on now, might have time to catch a "movie" before dinner ...

Pretty good CL.

From my Experience it is very hard to tottally give up and most will fail.
I am not trying to quit, it just that I am very happy and occupied with quite a few things on my plate and I guess I am also very happy with my partner now.
I mean we guys are very selfish I know I am. Movies is a little bit different as its always new and entertaining but I know what CL mean. If your having great sex and always knew what your getting and very happy with it than you stay until you get bored and look again like some Punters here seem like they fall in love with WL if they can only thing in seeing one WL only.

[IExperiment]

Therapist will come back we hope!

How is my man whore

[IExperiment]

You punt less when
-you are in love
-you believe in monogamous relationship
-you are busy with work
-you are busy running a business trying to make a profit
-you found a new addiction
-you are getting free sex
-you are preoccupied chasing a girl
-you are overseas esp in a country where you are not interested in the girls
-you realise you cannot afford to punt
-you have been getting bad punts consecutively numerous times in a row
-you start to get a night job if you punt at night
-you start to get a day job if you punt in the day
-you got fired from a job
-it is rainy and cold outside
-more than one WL insulted you for anything like cumming too fast, dick too small, have you come yet?
-someone discovered your punting habit and threatening to tell others if you dont stop
-you met your coworker or boss in a punt shop
-your wive left a tracking device in your car and ask did you have a meeting at 22 Brodie again?
-you caught STD
-you just lost a lot of money and you are trying to stave off further losses by punting less
-there is a big personal problem that requires your attention

This is a turn off and yes, most of us have experience with some on your list.

[IExperiment]

I am not looking to quit but I guess I will make the most of what I have now that I dont feel like to punt even there is so many hottie out there.
There is so many on my hitlist in the past but I will make the most of it in what I have now.

Maybe I will go back punting in the future, thats the reason I still visit this site but getting very rare due to my busy schedule and what I have on my plate now, sure I still have contact but I guess they will also move on and I dont have regrets as I am sure if I go back to punting there is so many new Hottie

[gggi]

Does sending pornographic messages to the object of my addiction count as abstinence? Please say yes.

[D-93]

I have joined this forum for a year now and I think that I became an addict to any Massage Parlours or FS shops. I normally punt more than twice a week even though that I could afford it with my salary . The reason that I wanted to try it is curiousity, but also being used by women e.g. to get boyfriend jealous, money,wits, attention and etc (destiny on how I have met these women).

I am only in my early 20's with a really good mix but also a great job.Its hard for me to get a GF now even some who are interested in me .I have seen a lot of attractive women in the punting scene, I see a different perspective on women now . I value their bodies than thier personality.

Each day, I feel like to punt even though I do feel like going to that specific place. Any advices to quit or limit?

I was in a pretty similar situation a couple of months ago and got into punting out of curiosity as well. I was addicted for a while until I got too busy with uni work and didn't have the chance to go out that often which meant that I couldn't punt and after a few weeks of this I felt less desire to punt that often. Thinking about how much money I had, how much a punt would cost, how much I would have left for other things and comparing their value and worth also helped.

Pretty much I would recommend purposely making yourself too busy to go out and punt and make excuses for why you can't/shouldn't. Masturbating more could help as well as it could prevent you from thinking of punting as a necessary means of relieving yourself and the longer you go without relieving yourself the more you're going to feel like wanting to punt as you would think about the pleasure from it more. To help change your perspective on women I guess try and get into good conversation with the ML/WL and focus more on the conversation. Not sure if these will actually help or not.

[Rpd]

Wow, all these young guys in their early twenties, still in uni and with the funds to support a punting habit... Sounds like a good situation to me in if you ask me.