Guys are thinking too much..

Even if the purpose was not good.
It's up to you what to do.
They haven't done anything wrong with that sentences.

Finally, what important is what would you do upon hearing that. And what would you do next.

I know, reverse psychology, trap, sweet talking, caring, etc.
I don't care, what do they mean.
I'd just take it positively.
Why are you making your experience less enjoyable. You pay money to be happy, not to

The most they can take from me is money.
And it is up to me when to take out my money.
Who I'm going to give it to, is up to me.
If it ended up as stupidity. Then it's my own responsibilty. Not to be exposed in the forum.

Same as when a girl is fooling you. And you lose heaps. And you met her in a club as your sleeping friend for the night.
Would you post about her on the forum.
Or
Would you tell everyone that isn't your friend at the club when you see her again?