relationship with WL

[IExperiment]

Your most welcome, glad I could share. I think writing this, was somewhat a healing process for me. To get this off my chest anonymously too was very therapeutic. I can account it objectively and not have any emotional connection to it. As stated, I could not even discuss this event of my life with any of my closest friends. It left me quite depressed and I had to deal with it internally. I contemplated getting back on cocaine, but gambling got the better of me instead! Another chapter of my life closed and a lesson experienced.

Good story and sound like her job just put to much stress in your relationship but I can see your being a gentleman now as you even admit to do the wrong thing or you are getting more mature and experience.

[Jj999]

Your most welcome, glad I could share. I think writing this, was somewhat a healing process for me. To get this off my chest anonymously too was very therapeutic. I can account it objectively and not have any emotional connection to it. As stated, I could not even discuss this event of my life with any of my closest friends. It left me quite depressed and I had to deal with it internally. I contemplated getting back on cocaine, but gambling got the better of me instead! Another chapter of my life closed and a lesson experienced.

Good lesson is never cheap.

Great story.
Although it has a conclusion of that particular experience of yours (i.e. didn't work). you didn't generalise neither did you close your mind for other possibilities. With advices.


Discuss. And be prepared.
Be sure not to regret in the future, which means if it's no, say no.
If it's yes, then don't be afraid to say yes.
Regret is the most lethal poison, affecting every aspects in your life.

[freelancer]

Don't treat them like second class citizen.. Some of them are so smart and intelligent. It's just people want different things in life.

I have the luck to date these two gorgeous and become friends with a few more. I have never hesitated bring them out anywhere.

So, make your point and let him be. He would appreciate it :-)

[Max Impact]

It's obvious to me who you are talking about, freelancer

[project_manager006]

For those who dated WLs working full-time, did you find it hard to find time to spend together?

Take for instance those Korean WLs who work 6 days a week, and sometimes she may even be too tired to see you on her day off?

[cmk76]

For those who dated WLs working full-time, did you find it hard to find time to spend together?

Take for instance those Korean WLs who work 6 days a week, and sometimes she may even be too tired to see you on her day off?

Mate, I think you've just answered your own question. If you were working 6 days a week, would you have time too 'date' someone, let alone have time to yourself? Take these scenarios as possibilities,

Assuming that the ML works night shifts, finishes no earlier than 3-4 am, goes home, goes about her 'normal life', sleeps at 9-12 noon, wakes up at 6 pm or so and starts her shift all over again at 7-8 pm.

Now, if you were able to accomodate these times, you will have a chance of having a 'normal relationship'. Basically, hanging out with her after her shift for a drink or late, late meal, possibly sex before 'bedtime' and so on.

If she is a day shift girl, you wouldn't have a problem. Times are aligned and chances of spending quality time are higher.

Personally, from my experience, I was working days waking up at 5-6 am or so, and she was just finishing up her shift. We would meet up for breakfast before I went to work. By lunchtime, she would be asleep. At dinner time, she would wake up and have a meal with me before she started her shift. this would be the 'norm' in my situiation.On Friday night, she would work til 5-6 am, I would wake up then and meet her. Drive out to the water to watch the sunrise before heading back after lunch for her sleep. After a month, she had left her work and I was 'supporting' her for the next couple of months.

From what I have told you, there is a high possibility of it working if you were after companionship. I wouldn't expect too much intimacy or sexual activity, seeing that it is what she would normally do 6 days a week. If you do have feelings for her, and is mutual, spend some quality time with her, if not, just enjoy the physical aspect of it.

If and when she drops her shifts, there is a possibilty that she chooses to have more time with you and herself. However, unless you are prepared to support her, be wary if she decides to 'quit' all of a sudden. She may expect you to 'support' her and her living expenses. In which case, could be seen as a 'business' arrangement'

Example: $300/rent, $150/incidentals = $450 a week, in return; say 3-4 x times sex a week. Now, this does not include meals together or 'outings' ie. movies, shows, short trips away, drinks

All the above is based on my experience, (from a past relationship) so please do take this with a grain of salt. I do not know your situation in entirety, but would be more than happy to offer 'suggestions' if you see that it is plausible.

Best of luck, pm

[hell no]

For those who dated WLs working full-time, did you find it hard to find time to spend together?

Take for instance those Korean WLs who work 6 days a week, and sometimes she may even be too tired to see you on her day off?

Your trying to spend some time with a korean wls outside the shop aren't ya?? Good luck on that..... Whenever they have a day off, they tend to sleep all day and all night, you'll be lucky just to get an sms from them let alone seeing them outside the shop........ These cock-juggling thunder-kunts can sleep sleep sleep zzzzzzzzzz and eat eat eat, they talk aggressive too. Wait for them to have a week off and maybe you might have a chance....

[kickass]

cmk, thanks for being so open. Your story is very insightful and food for thought.

[cisco]

For me ,Just see her in the shop to avoid many hassles and bla bla thing. Love and Money just hahahaha,......

[8inches]

Normal girl fuck 1 or 2 man for 200+ times in a year for free, WL fuck 100+ man for 200+ times in a year for a truck of money, what's the difference? At the end of the day, they are both girls, they both got fucked for 200+ times....

Sorry for my bad English

Whores fuck 200+ times a year?
Forget about your bad english and focus on your bad maths!
Just say a whore works 200 days a year and on a 6 men a day shift thats 1200 fucks not including the bf or any other 1 night stands. If she is fucking 8 -10 guys per shift imagine that! You are dreaming to think a wl gets fucked 200 times a year unless she is part time/high class escort or mls giving out cunt for tips
Your non wl maths is just about right. Say you bang your Mrs 3 to 4 times a week then yeah 150 to 200 fucks per year.

[Travelmate]

Your trying to spend some time with a korean wls outside the shop aren't ya?? Good luck on that..... Whenever they have a day off, they tend to sleep all day and all night, you'll be lucky just to get an sms from them let alone seeing them outside the shop........ These cock-juggling thunder-kunts can sleep sleep sleep zzzzzzzzzz and eat eat eat, they talk aggressive too. Wait for them to have a week off and maybe you might have a chance....

so true. but doesn't matter. we also have 5 other project girls at the same time

[Max Impact]

Most girls enter the industry as their last resort out of desparate needs, not as their first choice.

I don't normally agree with Wilisno who preaches like Jesus from the mound. But this is the same opinion that causes me to want to stop.

[wilisno]

I don't normally agree with Wilisno who preaches like Jesus from the mound. But this is the same opinion that causes me to want to stop.

Stopping doesn't help them in any way, just treat them right !

[Max Impact]

So lets just have a nice chat with them if we are so concerned? We can be life mentors!

[splash]

So lets just have a nice chat with them if we are so concerned? We can be life mentors!

Money is the issue/focus in this situation, no amount of life lessons can help them if it ain't about money...

The root of all evil.

[huangdee]

Money is the issue/focus in this situation, no amount of life lessons can help them if it ain't about money...

The root of all evil.

true! if problem is money, cannot talk problem away with no money

[cisco]

You got the Money then you got the power , No money No Honey . Money ? Hahaha.....

[rooter]

The idea of pursuing a relationship with wih a WL outside of he punt has never appealed to me or even crossed my mind, but hey I am not a relationship sort of guy anyway.
Quite often WLs have initiated things but I have never followed it up. I have great relationships with WLs within the confines of the punt, always treat them like princesses and get treated like a king in return, and its often pretty intense stuff.
but as soon as the hour expires, thats it. I figure she will move onto her next customer and I will move onto my next WL (or civilian root) and that's how it should be.
I guess everyone is different and some guys who make some sort of connection (or at least think they have) want to take things further, but I reckon its making things unnecessarily complicated, but like I said everyone is different.

[cisco]

The idea of pursuing a relationship with wih a WL outside of he punt has never appealed to me or even crossed my mind, but hey I am not a relationship sort of guy anyway.
Quite often WLs have initiated things but I have never followed it up. I have great relationships with WLs within the confines of the punt, always treat them like princesses and get treated like a king in return, and its often pretty intense stuff.
but as soon as the hour expires, thats it. I figure she will move onto her next customer and I will move onto my next WL (or civilian root) and that's how it should be.
I guess everyone is different and some guys who make some sort of connection (or at least think they have) want to take things further, but I reckon its making things unnecessarily complicated, but like I said everyone is different.

Totally agreed , the WL move on to next customer and so am i .

[Max Impact]

true! if problem is money, cannot talk problem away with no money

I didn't say not to pay them. Just to those that pretend they punt as a way of supporting the girls, I challenge them to pay up but not fuck if they are such great philanthropists.