I have just seen this thread and as I was the one who provoke Sextus's comment I need to contribute.
As with
Littlewonder I believe that you need a longer session, 30min jobs are just not long enough unless to get a nymphomaniac and there are not to many of those around. A minimum of a one hour session and preferably longer like two. LW has also covered most of the issues but as Sextus wants a do-it yourself guide so here goes.
Key points IMHO are:
- book your session early in the day when she is fresh. Make sure your personal hygeine is good, clean your teeth.
- have a longer session at least one hour, preferably more as
females are totally different to men and need time
- take it slowly, do not rush it and be gentle
- test what the girl likes, watch for signs of response or lack and try something else
- gentle kissing, touching and stroking of her body and looking for her erogenous zones; again do not rush. Be gentle with her breasts and do not grab and twist the nipples, gently kiss, lick and suck them. They are sensitive organs.
- some girls like DATY and some do not; however if they do, start by moving down the body then around the groin area down the insides of their legs, rather than diving straight in. The anatomy of the clitoris is interesting and the "clitoral legs" extend around the pubic region and down the insides of their legs. Brush up on the anatomy here
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clitoris
- then move inwards across the labia majora and up around the mons. If she is a responsive type this will create an desire in her clitoris. This is when you can start to move on to the clitoris proper and after a while you could try pushing her hood up to get more direct access to the glans, but be gentle.
- as the clitoral legs extend around the area you may try to put a bit of pressure with your hand on the pubic bone
- when she is worked up you can move up and kiss and then, if allowed, go to work with your finger after applying a bit of lubricant to increase sensitivity but be careful to take it slowly, only use one finger and do not hurt. At the same time use your other hand to touch and stimulate the lower abdomen.
- Search for her G-spot which is normally about 3 cm insite on the upper part of the vagina and gently rotate your finger.
- this is usually enough to get her to orgasm and in some cases to squirt.
- after she has come sometimes she may like the cervix to be gently touched which creates a nice feeling in some girls
- must be some mutual chemistry or it can be a lost cause