Handsome guys - why do you punt?

[sporty32]

For the handsome, good looking, fit guys... What makes you punt? Is it the convenience? is what you don't get at home?

Girls are not relatively easy for dudes like you to get?

[Jacko2810]

Handsome mix guy and rich... why not it’s fun[emoji12]

[lagozeyi]

there are many beautiful people who absolutely do not use their appearance and can be generally insecure personalities.

[sporty32]

Handsome but not rich enough to get a Sydneysider beeatch as a girlfriend? Can't keep on using your hands all the time you know. Girls from an Asian countryside makes the best girlfriend compared to Aussie/ABC bitches or international students who think their shit doesn't stink.

"who think their shit doesn't stink". so good!!! yeah you're right, asian (and also latin women) makes the best girlfriend, im 100% agree!

[sporty32]

there are many beautiful people who absolutely do not use their appearance and can be generally insecure personalities.

I have a friend who fits perfectly into what you write about the "insecure personalities"....and he is so handsome.

[tales88]

Becuase its fun and alot less effort thank dating.

[Jacko2810]

I agree with tales [emoji12]

[sporty32]

Becuase its fun and alot less effort thank dating.

Also i am agree with this!

[jasonko]

too much work, girls are not worth the effort if you have money

[Sabotage]

Good to punt and know if you want sex you can get it with no hassles.

Gives you more confidence around other women, perhaps not justified because you have paid for sex.

Just helps to know you don’t have to be controlled by women for sex. Go on a date and not beg for sex. Could argue I’m still controlled because I have to pay

[didaswiwaw]

Handsome alone doesn't guarantee you to get girls easily. Handsome but lack of social skills will not get you hot girls, because hot girls will not make the first move. I never know anyone who's handsome with great social skills need to punt, they can easily find much better girls at the bar or club.

However, its a different story if the guy is in relationship or married, going punting means there's no drama or feeling involved with the girl. So to answer your question unless that handsome guy is married/in relationship OR lack of social skills, I don't think they will go punt

[Jacko2810]

Handsome but lack of social skill? Lol that’s generalisation in context. I have no issues with social skills, my reason is to get away from the norm and experience a point of difference each time.

[tales88]

Handsome alone doesn't guarantee you to get girls easily. Handsome but lack of social skills will not get you hot girls, because hot girls will not make the first move. I never know anyone who's handsome with great social skills need to punt, they can easily find much better girls at the bar or club.

However, its a different story if the guy is in relationship or married, going punting means there's no drama or feeling involved with the girl. So to answer your question unless that handsome guy is married/in relationship OR lack of social skills, I don't think they will go punt

So this is a fact?

[Jacko2810]

So this is a fact?

I think he’s delusional

[Spanishseeker]

Honestly to get something different even if your dating or married. You could be with a girl that’s perfect but maybe you just want some big ol titties on your dick. I could be single again and slam it but it’s probably just as expensive boozing and being out

[asheton]

By no means handsome, but it's definitely the buzz when you walk in a shop, that elevated heart rate and thought that you're doing something naughty.

[Spanishseeker]

Also agree to asheton it just feels awesome. Sometimes going somewhere you don’t know who’s gonna walk in like a roulette

[Jacko2810]

Agree with Asheton and Spanishseeker.

[howareyoukk]

i log in to my account in private browsing just so i can answer this question, albeit I am just a mediocre asian dude at best.

I have been a virgin for 27 years and only until the last few years did I realize my I am severely lacking in social skills because of the bad developments in childhood and formative years. (strict parenting high school bullies etc)

I don't like crowds or going out often. The girls i had a crush on in the past were full with excuses - "i am not into a relationship", "you are too young"etc

I was struck by enlightenment this week that i might never meet a half decent girl that i actually like so why would I save my sexual encounter for that. So i booked my first session this week and I had no remorse.

I am even thinking about losing my virginity to an escort or ML that i like in a few months because I am now all about the mentality that i would rather rent an audi rs3 for a short period of time than being stuck with a Corolla for eternality.

[pthong]

Having sex/ flings with girls is different to punting, it requires effort & usually there are some strings attached haha. When it comes to massage, you lay down, relax & enjoy the hour :shout:
In terms of $$, I've definitely spent more on paying for dinner dates than punting lol

FYI: Not saying I look like Tom Cruise.. but I'd consider myself decent/ fit.

[cuteguy]

i log in to my account in private browsing just so i can answer this question, albeit I am just a mediocre asian dude at best.

I have been a virgin for 27 years and only until the last few years did I realize my I am severely lacking in social skills because of the bad developments in childhood and formative years. (strict parenting high school bullies etc)

I don't like crowds or going out often. The girls i had a crush on in the past were full with excuses - "i am not into a relationship", "you are too young"etc

I was struck by enlightenment this week that i might never meet a half decent girl that i actually like so why would I save my sexual encounter for that. So i booked my first session this week and I had no remorse.

I am even thinking about losing my virginity to an escort or ML that i like in a few months because I am now all about the mentality that i would rather rent an audi rs3 for a short period of time than being stuck with a Corolla for eternality.

There's no point being a virgin until you meet your ideal girl. As you said, girls will come up with all excuses these days not to get involved in serious relationships because they want to experience life and try out with a few guys before they decide to get steady or settle down. Life is short. Go enjoy life. Have fun but be safe in your adventures.:cool2:

[punterGod]

Personally I want a quick fuk no complications.

That’s pretty much my sentiments as well. No strings attached, quick fucking the way I want.


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[vitrium]

Having sex/ flings with girls is different to punting, it requires effort & usually there are some strings attached haha. When it comes to massage, you lay down, relax & enjoy the hour :shout:
In terms of $$, I've definitely spent more on paying for dinner dates than punting lol

FYI: Not saying I look like Tom Cruise.. but I'd consider myself decent/ fit.

One of my mates at work has said to me 'why would you pay for it?'

He's a bit of a playboy at work. Handsome etc. He has a girlfriend and has fucked a few of the sales girls.

It's put him in a lot of shit though and he's constantly working to try and keep himself out of trouble.

He told me he was once on a date at a restaurant with his GF and one of the girls he fucked from work sat at the table next to him. FML. Said he was sweating bullets. Luckily she didn't say anything.

HELL NO. Not worth the effort. Especially with people at work, or from your industry.

With punting. You just walk in, choose a pretty girl. Put the money down. Pump away until you're balls are thoroughly drained. Leave. Go home. Everybody is happy.

[booty_duty]

One of my mates at work has said to me 'why would you pay for it?'

He's a bit of a playboy at work. Handsome etc. He has a girlfriend and has fucked a few of the sales girls.

It's put him in a lot of shit though and he's constantly working to try and keep himself out of trouble.

He told me he was once on a date at a restaurant with his GF and one of the girls he fucked from work sat at the table next to him. FML. Said he was sweating bullets. Luckily she didn't say anything.

HELL NO. Not worth the effort. Especially with people at work, or from your industry.

With punting. You just walk in, choose a pretty girl. Put the money down. Pump away until you're balls are thoroughly drained. Leave. Go home. Everybody is happy.


Exactly this.

Not worth the baggage or brain damage. Pump and dump.

[MrPerson126]

Haha, I feel like I should weigh in here... I was a (pretty unsuccessful) male model when I was a bit younger, and I've kept in decent shape and looked after myself since then. I have never had trouble picking up girls in bars or hotels... or at work, work events, in the street, on trains... basically anywhere.

BUT, that means coffee dates, lunches, dinners, deep connections. I used to love that, but if I was honest with myself, I was there to get laid, and after a while being a total sociopath and pretending to be interested in somebody, or a bunch of bodies at the same time, makes you feel like a dirtbag.

When I punt, I get options, I get convenience, I get CONFIDENTIALITY (real important), and I get to get my rocks off with somebody who knows exactly what the deal is. Then, when I'm done, I get on with my day, no checking in, no phone calls, no follow up, no guilt.

Punting isn't great. It's a bit sleazy, a bit dirty, and it's definitely not something to write home to mum about. But, if there's an itch to scratch, at least an ML or WL knows she's there to scratch it. And isn't that a little bit kinder than picking up a girl, talking her into bed (and sometimes, into cheating on her boyfriend or husband), leading her on and not intending on seeing her after that?

That's why I punt.

[Kwinko]

Easy way to avoid trouble when you want to see someone and in a relationship

[Crusader]

I've never had trouble picking up really good sorts at clubs, bars and restaurants. I have a pretty good strike rate with the Asian ladies. I am relatively good looking for a wog and I do have a bit of coin behind me which I do not flaunt. However I do seem to struggle in getting the same level of interest from girls in the massage space. Not sure how to interpret this.

[kevwon128]

Long story short...the times when girl I liked and I were single and available never really matched...and never been able to find love now that she's married. The WL visits keep my needs fulfilled I guess

[person551]

Possibly the girls enjoy seeing the handsome guys more, give better service, and hence these guys can't resist more...

For me punting gives decent sex consistently without all the games and wining and dining, sure you can take you time more not paying for it, but WL generally give great service if not tired etc etc.

[slickg]

Punting is just easier in terms of satisfying yourself and not having any baggage after

[distanceRunner]

For me, I lack the social skills, but I wouldn’t classify myself as handsome, even with a 6 pack. Of Nuggets

[Sydboy65]

Not sure if I’d call myself handsome. Good looking enough perhaps. I punt because it’s fun. And I like the illicit thrill and variety.

[4FoW2]

Growing up had a sporty body, blonde hair blue eyes athletic build. I would not say I am handsome but had enough women to know I was getting more than the average guy. Also had jobs where came into contact with lots of females think gyms, lifeguard etc.
My old man was into sex in a big way and I think I must have inheritted some of his genes - dur.
Also I was introduced to sex at a very very early age - not abused but led astray by girls usually a little older who knew much more than they should have at that age.
If you ask me punting is in a man's DNA - go foth and multiply - and once you get a taste well you know the rest.
I actually think now I'm older it would have been better to be less exposed to sex and actually have less experiences. For me if a girl grabs my cock its ho hum.
I was no stud but if it was on offer its hard to say no. People will repeat pleasureable experiences. Agree with ego arguement too. Punting is a way of feeding our masculine insecurities and makes us think we are lord and master.
Why do guys punt - why can't people stop eating pringles - handsome or otherwise.

[MatthewSoul]

Well punting is like cardio day for me. I prefer buying an hour of fun and sweat like a pig than going on a treadmill in a gym.

Also handsome man is still a man. We get excited to do a stranger who is paid to serve instead of serving the other half at home.

The only downside is punting requires a condom which feels different but what can you do lol.

I had fwb while having a partner but things are just too complicated to handle and the emotional stress is no good. Punting is no strings attached and you get to choose

[Sher1888]

Getting rejected by uglier girls and some demand a lot of things. I agree to the comments above, mind you that I am in my early 30s, started like 7 years ago.

[Nick007]

No strings attached, both parties know what to expect, multiple options, convenient time
Also, it is safer for men with the current #MeToo and other anti-men views around

[itoko]

A factor for me is time picking up someone takes time, it rarely works like in movies I buy a drink for them wink wink we go back to my place. I don't remember who said it but you paid for sex for the sex part but for them to leave afterwards.

[Idurian]

easier and cheaper for a punt then the process through apps and dinner etc etc

[4FoW2]

That's why we should have a system like in Thailand, Phil's etc - a venue where you go to meet girls, they go to pick up guys, everyone knows why they are there. Cut out this BS.
Beach Club in Kl used to be like that - a club for one reason and if you were white and ok looking you'd have 20/30 sweet Viet girls front you, sometimes even fight over you.
Well that's how it used to be in 2014. Alas now no BC.
4FoW2

[It Hurts When IP]

I don’t pay them to come over; I pay them to go away.
I don’t pay them for carnal encounters. I pay them to leave.
You don’t pay a call girl to do what she does. You pay her to leave afterward.

[snorlaxroflcopter]

less effor than dating, and financially probs more worth than giving gifts and dining out every now and then lol. And you get to see and touch all different kinds of girls from diff backgrounds.

[Eggs.Fertiliser]

Still can't get over the break up with my ex more than 2 years ago. Can't move on but too lonely, esp with the lockdown so I'm just looking for some physical connection, a bit of curdling/touching

Not much into the body fluid exchange though, I'm very horny most of the time but just don't enjoy sex without the connection

[jedibear]

Getting a FWB rarely ends well. With a punt, it's just a no strings attached, you both get what you want and you go...

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[s21ultra]

agree, definitely for convinience. even hollywood stars pay for sex.

[BLEPSICHUNGUS]

I would hardly say im the most attractive man on earth but i do remain fit and like to take care of myself. Its definatley easyish for me to come by sex with dates and sex from friends and I usually fuck 2-3 girls concurrently at work and parties most of the time but i dont like the effort and BS associated with dating or clubbing to obtain sex. Not to mention the insane cost of associated with going out for dates or clubbing in the hopes of sex.

In my head i also would rather save the money and blow it on myself as a treat. Heres how i do the math in my head for dating and why i prefer punting even as a reasonably attractive man:

Typically most girls generally dont fuck on the first date unless your dealing with a more slutty girl. But im speaking more so professional women with careers etc. Usually speaking from my experience most girls will kiss but sex isnt on the table at least for 2-4 dates.

Each one of these dates isnt free, its costs money. You start off with getting ready for the date. Usually if punt, i have a shower i pop on a hoodie, some footy shorts, a little deoderant and spend $3 on the train getting to the brothel. I walk in, unload and leave. But if have to get ready for a date, i have to generally drive which means $10 in petrol, the tread on my tires etc. Then you pick up the girl and get some drinks. Generally speaking girls will get you to cover the bill but sharing also works. Lets say you buy 3 rounds of drinks = 6 drinks total. If each drink is $10 thats $30 you spent on yourself and potentially another $30 for her, not to mention you didnt even get to get drunk and you harmed your body for no reason. Add in paying for dinner thats around $50 and youve already racked up close to $100 for that date. Multiply that by 2 and your looking at a quarter grand just to have mediocre sex once!

The alternative math is for clubbing/bars:

Lets say you start pre-drinking with your friends, Lets say you only bring a six pack of pre-mix drinks + a couple of extras, Thats around 30 dollars. Then because every is so drunk you all share an uber to the club. If you take an uber to the city alteast for me that $40 and if thers 4 friends that $10 a person. Then if you want to go to mainstream club like IVY in sydney your looking at $10-$30 minimum to enter.

Then you start by buying a couple drinks for your self and each drink in a club is at least $15. Thats $30 just for you. Then if you try and chat up a girl shes not gonna leave the club without a couple drinks, add an extra 30 right there from your wallet. If you split an uber with her back to your place thats $20 give or take. Add all that up your looking at around $120 mimimum for a big night out. And all of that and you may still not even fuck.

The last thing i'd also add in about going for a punt even though you can pick up girls is that punting releives that urge and desparation to fuck. Women love to be the gate-keepers of sex and hate desperation!

If i punt more often i'm less likely to try extra hard to get a woman and therefore the demand vs supply for sex equals out because i dont need a woman to have sex with me, i can just punt instead

[Jamesyouare]

So everyone “pays”

If you are a bit disillusioned you could use tray but it’s pretty individual

I’d say convenience and ease - a brother cut out the bullshit but done enjoy that part of it

[suckitbaby]

What about Ugly guys why do you punt, because money makes me more handsome for an hour.

[BLEPSICHUNGUS]

What about Ugly guys why do you punt, because money makes me more handsome for an hour.

God made man, money made them equal

[sugarless]

I think some guys do it for the thrill

[devo69]

I am just as lazy as the next guy and prefer to pay a fee for someone who is supposed to know what they're doing. This becomes more relevant as you get older of course. Anyway, being a half decent looking dude doesn't make that much difference. Sometimes it actually has a negative effect. You get rejected because they think you are going to be a hard job so they take the ordinary looking dude instead because they think he will probably cum easier and have lower expectations.

[Wilson777]

You guys should check out Aaron Clarey (economist + author + podcaster) who covers this exact topic in detail.

He has a book titled "The Book of Numbers: Analyzing the ROI on the Pursuit of Women" that goes through an economic analysis of the cost of dating for sex versus paying for sex.

His theory is that you're paying either way so it makes sense to just go with the cheaper option.

His conclusion is that it's far more economical to pay for sex than dating women for sex.

[Mike_23]

I would hardly say im the most attractive man on earth but i do remain fit and like to take care of myself. Its definatley easyish for me to come by sex with dates and sex from friends and I usually fuck 2-3 girls concurrently at work and parties most of the time but i dont like the effort and BS associated with dating or clubbing to obtain sex. Not to mention the insane cost of associated with going out for dates or clubbing in the hopes of sex.

In my head i also would rather save the money and blow it on myself as a treat. Heres how i do the math in my head for dating and why i prefer punting even as a reasonably attractive man:

Typically most girls generally dont fuck on the first date unless your dealing with a more slutty girl. But im speaking more so professional women with careers etc. Usually speaking from my experience most girls will kiss but sex isnt on the table at least for 2-4 dates.

Each one of these dates isnt free, its costs money. You start off with getting ready for the date. Usually if punt, i have a shower i pop on a hoodie, some footy shorts, a little deoderant and spend $3 on the train getting to the brothel. I walk in, unload and leave. But if have to get ready for a date, i have to generally drive which means $10 in petrol, the tread on my tires etc. Then you pick up the girl and get some drinks. Generally speaking girls will get you to cover the bill but sharing also works. Lets say you buy 3 rounds of drinks = 6 drinks total. If each drink is $10 thats $30 you spent on yourself and potentially another $30 for her, not to mention you didnt even get to get drunk and you harmed your body for no reason. Add in paying for dinner thats around $50 and youve already racked up close to $100 for that date. Multiply that by 2 and your looking at a quarter grand just to have mediocre sex once!

The alternative math is for clubbing/bars:

Lets say you start pre-drinking with your friends, Lets say you only bring a six pack of pre-mix drinks + a couple of extras, Thats around 30 dollars. Then because every is so drunk you all share an uber to the club. If you take an uber to the city alteast for me that $40 and if thers 4 friends that $10 a person. Then if you want to go to mainstream club like IVY in sydney your looking at $10-$30 minimum to enter.

Then you start by buying a couple drinks for your self and each drink in a club is at least $15. Thats $30 just for you. Then if you try and chat up a girl shes not gonna leave the club without a couple drinks, add an extra 30 right there from your wallet. If you split an uber with her back to your place thats $20 give or take. Add all that up your looking at around $120 mimimum for a big night out. And all of that and you may still not even fuck.

The last thing i'd also add in about going for a punt even though you can pick up girls is that punting releives that urge and desparation to fuck. Women love to be the gate-keepers of sex and hate desperation!

If i punt more often i'm less likely to try extra hard to get a woman and therefore the demand vs supply for sex equals out because i dont need a woman to have sex with me, i can just punt instead

great analysis!

[Delf0z]

Could sound odd, but there's some sort of allure to the quasi taboo feel of it all. It makes the whole thing almost irresistible.

[Jacxz7]

The reason I punt is because I’m single and young, I don’t want to commit into a relationship yet and would like to adventure sexually. I make a good dollars every year as I usually qualified for bonus and have a few side business. So punting kinda stress relief and reward for me ha3x

[Westie_0ne]

Consent. There are establish rules and protocols.

There is no consent when you approach a stranger at a pub or club, and this has always bothered me. Fotunately I'm financially well off aswell.

[dudelove]

because punting is the best

[Ada Hill]

bec i am poor! Girls love money do not care who fucked them at all

[Themysterypi]

Convenience, just pay and get a root. For apps you got to put in effort and troll for god know how long to find someone real. Also the variety, bored with the same chick after 2 - 3 times.

[HornyPunter123]

Sometimes it's easier, get what you want straight away without beating around the bush

[Lefrodo]

I would guess the same reason as ugly guys

[Renegade86]

Nah most ugly guys punt cause the can't hook up through apps

[Ya123]

The thrill of it!

[yonah]

More handsome you are, more controlling the gf/wife is. Very hard to muck around with different girls in same city, they all likely know your partner and you get caught. If you're single all the girls will play hard to get to make sure you're chasing only her and no one else. Punting is easy way to get sex without attachment or getting caught trying to woo another girl.

[Shivere]

Because I'm not paying for sex. I'm paying for discretion and for the girl to go away when I'm done.

[lymp]

100% all about the thrill

[Vincentius]

It’s a guaranteed end result.

[TasteTester]

For a spice of variety and to experience different women

[alphaomega8384]

No strings attached, and stress buster, literally lol