How painful?

[Christmas]

One of my friend told me that It's really painful(or uncomfy) down there unless guys ejaculate for a while, He could not explain that specific feeling, though, it would be similar as... holding pee for 3 hours He said... HAHA
and I was like "OH!"

if so,.. I now can see how bad it is... is it true??? or just mental thing :T

Once I haven't had sex for a while.. I guess it's like 3month no sex, and I was about to be a nun. I had wet dream every ducking day but I couldn't feel any pain or discomfort ㅋㅋㅋ
We women never know!

[Raybo]

Are you asking if it is painful or uncomfortable if men dont ejaculate for a couple of weeks for example?

Might be the wrong place to ask this question. I guess most guys on here ejaculate regularly, whether it is a punt, the missus or DIY!!

[garfield]

For me I get sensation on tip of the penis and feel uncomfortable and need to cum but no pain.

[harrycd]

It's not really painful.

I went 18 years without sex once :o

[mj00]

No, it's not painful as such. Only painful in the brain.

[Raybo]

It's not really painful.

I went 18 years without sex once :o

Wow....no DIY ???

[harrycd]

Does that count?

[birch]

No, it's not painful as such. Only painful in the brain.

Agreed! The only impact of abstinence on me is mental anguish! Certainly nothing like busting for pee!

[rhunter]

Yep, no ohysical pain..... Just depression lol

[Raybo]

Does that count?

If we are talking about ejaculation....yes. unless you edge yourself. 😆

[rojandro919]

Christmas. You said you have wet dream?
I thought that was a guy thing only --P

[Starved]

One of my friend told me that It's really painful(or uncomfy) down there unless guys ejaculate for a while, He could not explain that specific feeling, though, it would be similar as... holding pee for 3 hours He said... HAHA
and I was like "OH!"

if so,.. I now can see how bad it is... is it true??? or just mental thing :T

Once I haven't had sex for a while.. I guess it's like 3month no sex, and I was about to be a nun. I had wet dream every ducking day but I couldn't feel any pain or uncomfy ㅋㅋㅋ
We women never know!

You might say it's none of my business, but did you stop working because your in a committed relationship or just sick of guys.
Good luck to you if you are 🙂👍

[shootermcgavin]

it would be similar as... holding pee for 3 hours

It's similar to holding pee for 3 hours, if by needing to pee you mean wanting to fuck everything in sight and making horrible life decisions.

[God Member]

I can confirm this. I travelled camping in a panel van with a hot girl I met who was also travelling. We canoodled dfk and petting in the back for a week, but she wouldn't give over. I could hardly walk by the end of the week for the dull aching pain. I didn't jack myself off in the caravan park showers because every day I thought I'd succeed that night with her. But the ache just got worse and worse! :burn: :miao:

http://elitedaily.com/life/yes-blue-balls-real-thing-guys-get/955798/

[rojandro919]

Im surprised noone has mentioned the official terminology for this condition yet (blue balls)

[42Gladesville]

You might say it's none of my business, but did you stop working because your in a committed relationship or just sick of guys.
Good luck to you if you are ����

None of those.. I am independent single woman ㅋㅋㅋ

[targajajouka]

None of those.. I am independent single woman ㅋㅋㅋ

http://i3.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/facebook/000/545/747/a60.jpg

???

[targajajouka]

To answer the question, no real pain but I feel my testicles are 'full' and if I've been sitting a long time they sometimes start to ache.

The annoying thing is the wet dreams - having to wake up in the middle of the night to clean myself up, or even right before the alarm goes off. The really annoying thing is if I'm 'saving' myself for a punt later on the week and I explode in my pants two days out like last night. :(

[aussiegaigin]

Im surprised noone has mentioned the official terminology for this condition yet (blue balls)

Blue balls are more a result of being aroused and not being able to unload, rather than from just sitting around doing nothing.

YMMV, I haven't had any physical discomfort from abstinence, but the mental anguish can be excruciating after a while.

[Painterdan]

One of my friend told me that It's really painful(or uncomfy) down there unless guys ejaculate for a while, He could not explain that specific feeling, though, it would be similar as... holding pee for 3 hours He said... HAHA
and I was like "OH!"

if so,.. I now can see how bad it is... is it true??? or just mental thing :T

Once I haven't had sex for a while.. I guess it's like 3month no sex, and I was about to be a nun. I had wet dream every ducking day but I couldn't feel any pain or uncomfy ㅋㅋㅋ
We women never know!

It's achy balls. The expression blue balls comes from this.

[wachumba]

It's all BS to try to get you to give him some action

[CunningLinguist]

Im surprised noone has mentioned the official terminology for this condition yet (blue balls)

Epididymal Hypertension
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/article/epididymal-hypertension-blue-balls

[eltran]

Well there's the two types.

First is getting hard and stuff without getting off. Can be very painful, once you get a release it can still be a different kind of painful.

The second type is long-term, like weeks & months without it. I did it once as an experiment, went about a month without porn, sex, jerking off anything. It doesn't feel right at all, it gets physical painful, anytime your dick moves around or gets stimulated and it goes away (ie type one) it just makes it worse.

[Guvnor]

Health benefits of frequent ejaculation:

1. Reduces your chances of prostate cancer
According to a 2003 Australian study, men who ejaculated more than 5 times a week were less likely to develop prostate cancer. The logic behind this is that ejaculation helps clear semen from your system thus preventing the buildup of cancerous cells.
2. Releases stress
Both sex and masturbation are accompanied with the release of dopamine and oxytocin in your brain which makes you feel good. If you are stressed about something, then ejaculating will definitely help release that stress. Read more tips on managing stress in your daily life.
3. Helps you sleep
Ejaculation is accompanied with the release of several chemicals in your brain, and one of these chemicals is called prolactin. This hormone gives a feeling of relaxation that makes men feel sleepy. However, you should note that ejaculating after intercourse releases four times more prolactin than ejaculating after masturbation.
4. Enhances your sense of smell
Believe it or not, ejaculation can help improve your sense of smell. Prolactin, the same hormone that is responsible for making you sleep, helps in the formation of new neurons in the olfactory region of your brain.
5. Boosts your self esteem
Oxytocin, a chemical released after ejaculation (through sex or masturbation) has been found to stimulate positive thoughts and increase self esteem.
6. Fights depression
Depression is definitely more common than we think it is, and many people don’t speak about it. Ejaculation releases mood-enhancing hormones like serotonin and dopamine making it a natural and healthy way to fight depression.

Don't hold it in guys!

[Christmas]

Interesting ㅋㅋㅋ lucky i was born with pussy :(
And another funny thing just came up in my head this morning was

Guys think about "sex" as much as girls think about "food"

Aww... that's.. a lot... like pretty much whole your life span...

[Christmas]

Health benefits of frequent ejaculation:

1. Reduces your chances of prostate cancer
According to a 2003 Australian study, men who ejaculated more than 5 times a week were less likely to develop prostate cancer. The logic behind this is that ejaculation helps clear semen from your system thus preventing the buildup of cancerous cells.
2. Releases stress
Both sex and masturbation are accompanied with the release of dopamine and oxytocin in your brain which makes you feel good. If you are stressed about something, then ejaculating will definitely help release that stress. Read more tips on managing stress in your daily life.
3. Helps you sleep
Ejaculation is accompanied with the release of several chemicals in your brain, and one of these chemicals is called prolactin. This hormone gives a feeling of relaxation that makes men feel sleepy. However, you should note that ejaculating after intercourse releases four times more prolactin than ejaculating after masturbation.
4. Enhances your sense of smell
Believe it or not, ejaculation can help improve your sense of smell. Prolactin, the same hormone that is responsible for making you sleep, helps in the formation of new neurons in the olfactory region of your brain.
5. Boosts your self esteem
Oxytocin, a chemical released after ejaculation (through sex or masturbation) has been found to stimulate positive thoughts and increase self esteem.
6. Fights depression
Depression is definitely more common than we think it is, and many people don’t speak about it. Ejaculation releases mood-enhancing hormones like serotonin and dopamine making it a natural and healthy way to fight depression.

Don't hold it in guys!

Haha good one..
i guess not enough sex or ejaculation definitely make guys so depressed or cranky

[SushiKing]

Haha good one..
i guess not enough sex or ejaculation definitely make guys so depressed or cranky

+ you start to find a lot more pretty girls on the street somehow.

[123brainer]

Haha good one..
i guess not enough sex or ejaculation definitely make guys so depressed or cranky

Hell ya. Before I discovered punting. I was very grumpy guy. Not really depressed but was definitely not pleasant to be around.

Now, happiest guy ever 😆

[wetwipes1]

Interesting ㅋㅋㅋ lucky i was born with pussy :(
And another funny thing just came up in my head this morning was

Guys think about "sex" as much as girls think about "food"

Aww... that's.. a lot... like pretty much whole your life span...
Yeah, I think that's one of the biggest "weaknesses" of guys - we need sex just as much as we need food. Somehow I find it very sexy for a hot girl to take advantage of this male weakness as a business idea. All the best, Christmas!

[solowang]

A wank a day keeps the doctor away

[wetwipes1]

Yeah, I think that's one of the biggest "weaknesses" of guys - we need sex just as much as we need food. Somehow I find it very sexy for a hot girl to take advantage of this male weakness as a business idea. All the best, Christmas!
Actually, one second thoughts, this is actually quite scary how much a man's happiness depends on sex.

Ok, I'm going to get a little philosophical here - in the old days (before civilisation), the "role" of the man was the protector (e.g. collecting food and protecting the woman and children from animals etc). When the economy first started developing and there was no more physical danger, the "role" of the man switched to being the breadwinner (e.g. earning enough money for wife and children). Now, in this day and age, there is no physical danger and there are also no restrictions on woman's earning potential. In fact, some women out there (probably including Christmas) earn even more than a lot of men out there. So in this day and age, the "role" of the man is not clear at all. The male-female dynamic has totally changed. Scary to think what might happen to men in the next 20 years.

[Hornyguy69]

My balls get hot and start pulsating and the need to just ram my dick into something grows exponentially every hour I haven't unloaded. Prescribed myself 3 faps a day to keep the doctor away.

[wilisno]

Interesting ㅋㅋㅋ lucky i was born with pussy :(
And another funny thing just came up in my head this morning was

Guys think about "sex" as much as girls think about "food"

Aww... that's.. a lot... like pretty much whole your life span...
I read it somewhere that a normal healthy guy thinks about sex 7000 times a day ! ;) ;) ;)

[Christmas]

Actually, one second thoughts, this is actually quite scary how much a man's happiness depends on sex.

Ok, I'm going to get a little philosophical here - in the old days (before civilisation), the "role" of the man was the protector (e.g. collecting food and protecting the woman and children from animals etc). When the economy first started developing and there was no more physical danger, the "role" of the man switched to being the breadwinner (e.g. earning enough money for wife and children). Now, in this day and age, there is no physical danger and there are also no restrictions on woman's earning potential. In fact, some women out there (probably including Christmas) earn even more than a lot of men out there. So in this day and age, the "role" of the man is not clear at all. The male-female dynamic has totally changed. Scary to think what might happen to men in the next 20 years.


HAHA! How about Fraternal Polyandry... how would it feel to be queen bee

[Christmas]

I read it somewhere that a normal healthy guy thinks about sex 7000 times a day ! ;) ;) ;)

WTH... one day is 24hours.. 1hour is 60mins...
7000times a day is like 5times a minute? Please don't make fun of me if I'm wrong.. i am math retard...ㅋㅋㅋ but anyway that's A LOT! Hahah ha no wonder everyone thinks that own a brothel is like becoming millionaire

[Guvnor]

WTH... one day is 24hours.. 1hour is 60mins...
7000times a day is like 5times a minute? Please don't make fun of me if I'm wrong.. i am math retard...ㅋㅋㅋ but anyway that's A LOT! Hahah ha no wonder everyone thinks that own a brothel is like becoming millionaire

Hey Christmas, that calculation is close enough! Don't be so hard on yourself. 5 times a minute = 300 times an hour.
300 x 24 hours = 7,200 times per day. If anyone wants to be pedantic, it's closer to 292 times an hour, but anyway I can't believe that statistic in the first place. Who thinks about sex that often?

[wetwipes1]

WTH... one day is 24hours.. 1hour is 60mins...
7000times a day is like 5times a minute? Please don't make fun of me if I'm wrong.. i am math retard...ㅋㅋㅋ but anyway that's A LOT! Hahah ha no wonder everyone thinks that own a brothel is like becoming millionaire
To be honest, I think the earning potential for brothels is going to grow alot more in the future. If what I said above was true (with increasing woman rights and the blurred "role" of men), then it's possible for things to change - in the old days, women were "sexual objects" and men chose who they wanted to f*ck, in the future, it could well be that MEN become "sexual objects" and women have the power to choose who they wanted to f*ck. I think men messed up the day they gave women the right to vote - it's more "equal" now but it totally messes up the male-female dynamic and it won't take long for it to tip the other way and women begin to have more rights than men and women will start ruling the world! I'm getting goosebumps on my balls writing this.

[bigeasy]

Wow....no DIY ???
Think about it

[Sam88]

it is very frustrating lol.. blue balls indeed.

the only time when i dont think about sex is when i fuck 3-4 times a day continuous for 4 days... at the end of it, I didnt have much thoughts lol felt like my lust was drained out hahah:shout:

[Christmas]

it could well be that MEN become "sexual objects"

It's been already happening.!!! you see for instance wechat, Like all brothels and private agencies do advertise there, There's Male escort advertisement as well.. shame I didn't screenshot of it. but yeah still majority of purchasing prostitution is from men because women don't have that much sex drive anyway? I guess?

[shootermcgavin]

but yeah still majority of purchasing prostitution is from men because women don't have that much sex drive anyway? I guess?

Vast majority of women don't need prostitution anyways. For example, ive never seen you, I don't know you, but if you're a woman and are currently alive then there's a 90% chance I would sleep with you. Women would rarely need to pay. Men on the other hand have entire forums devoted to the pursuit of sex....

Ultimately, women hold all the cards and know all the chess moves. Meanwhile men are over in the corner trying to play Connect 4 with some rocks and a box of matches.

[wetwipes1]

It's been already happening.!!! you see for instance wechat, Like all brothels and private agencies do advertise there, There's Male escort advertisement as well.. shame I didn't screenshot of it. but yeah still majority of purchasing prostitution is from men because women don't have that much sex drive anyway? I guess?
I have a feeling we're going to be living in a really f*cked up world very soon. The world is already pretty messed up now but it will probably get a lot crazier.

20 years from now, the world will probably be hyper-sexualised. Sex will be the next currency. Money will no longer be used to control people (like it is right now), instead sex will. Everything will revolve around sex. With such rapid advancements of technology , almost everyone has everything they need and more. We will soon reach a time when most people have comfortable place to live, have plenty of choice of food and money will no longer matter (from the point of view of survival). Humans are naturally competitive (particularly males), its biological. Over the years, humans competed by who hunts the food, to who is able to afford a comfortable house, to who earns the most money to afford luxury items. Once all these needs (hunger/shelter/luxury) are met, what else is left? Sex. People will start craving sex and sex only. The people in power will no longer be the billionaires, it will be the super attractive ladies. Prepare for the paradigm shift. It's coming.

[CunningLinguist]

Time to wake up and grab a wet wipe ... :)

[Painterdan]

Time to wake up and grab a wet wipe ... :)

Way too deep...

[Christmas]

Good to read 300 words essay. though...

[cleetusvandamme]

We will soon reach a time when most people have comfortable place to live, have plenty of choice of food and money will no longer matter (from the point of view of survival).

This seems very optimistic.

[wetwipes1]

This seems very optimistic.
No, not optimistic at all - in fact we're almost there. We're talking developed countries here, like Australia, where its now possible to survive by having no job for life, be dependent on welfare payments and when you get old, live off the pension. It's ridiculous how generous the welfare system is. 20 years go, no this was not possible. Now, definitely possible, just have to be frugal. But the point is, you can literally do nothing and survive now. How ridiculous is that? We've come a long way over the past 20 years and change is only going to speed up. It's easy to take all this for granted but our lives were so different even 6-7 years, when smartphones weren't popular yet and now everyone's got one. And in the next 2-3 years, driverless cars are already scheduled to hit the road.

[cleetusvandamme]

No, not optimistic at all - in fact we're almost there. We're talking developed countries here, like Australia, where its now possible to survive by having no job for life, be dependent on welfare payments and when you get old, live off the pension. It's ridiculous how generous the welfare system is. 20 years go, no this was not possible. Now, definitely possible, just have to be frugal. But the point is, you can literally do nothing and survive now. How ridiculous is that? We've come a long way over the past 20 years and change is only going to speed up. It's easy to take all this for granted but our lives were so different even 6-7 years, when smartphones weren't popular yet and now everyone's got one. And in the next 2-3 years, driverless cars are already scheduled to hit the road.

Well now you're venturing into crackpot territory. So when you say "We will soon reach a time when most people have comfortable place to live, have plenty of choice of food and money will no longer matter (from the point of view of survival)." you mean everyone will be on welfare? Not sure how that's gonna work.
Speaking as someone who was on the dole for a bit after leaving school 20 years ago, it's much harder to stay on it long term now and I can't see how anyone could be on it until the pension kicks in.

[wetwipes1]

Well now you're venturing into crackpot territory. So when you say "We will soon reach a time when most people have comfortable place to live, have plenty of choice of food and money will no longer matter (from the point of view of survival)." you mean everyone will be on welfare? Not sure how that's gonna work.
Speaking as someone who was on the dole for a bit after leaving school 20 years ago, it's much harder to stay on it long term now and I can't see how anyone could be on it until the pension kicks in.
All I'm suggesting is technology and quality of life are improving very quickly and will continue to do so. Once our needs are met, we begin to turn to wants. The 1980's film A Brave New World comes to mind, but not quite. Anyway, I realise I've gone completely off topic so won't venture further into "crackpot territory".

[Christmas]

Can I scrap this thread to my blog? Thanks in advance😚

[Littlewonder]

I don't know about other guys but I can agree that if I don't get to have an orgasm for some time it gets quite painful for me.

[cleetusvandamme]

For me my libido is more like a fire. Keep stoking it and it gets hotter and hotter but leave it alone and it starts to diminish.
So if I don't have sex for a while I don't have any pain or discomfort, I actually think about sex less.
I used to think blue balls was a myth created by guys to get into a girl's pants until I experienced it myself. A few times after getting aroused through foreplay and then sex doesn't happen for some reason, I've had intense pain in my balls and have had to quickly bust one out myself to relieve it. It was almost as bad as getting kicked in the nuts but just built more gradually rather than a sudden pain.

[Punterman]

I have a feeling we're going to be living in a really f*cked up world very soon. The world is already pretty messed up now but it will probably get a lot crazier.

20 years from now, the world will probably be hyper-sexualised. Sex will be the next currency. Money will no longer be used to control people (like it is right now), instead sex will. Everything will revolve around sex. With such rapid advancements of technology , almost everyone has everything they need and more. We will soon reach a time when most people have comfortable place to live, have plenty of choice of food and money will no longer matter (from the point of view of survival). Humans are naturally competitive (particularly males), its biological. Over the years, humans competed by who hunts the food, to who is able to afford a comfortable house, to who earns the most money to afford luxury items. Once all these needs (hunger/shelter/luxury) are met, what else is left? Sex. People will start craving sex and sex only. The people in power will no longer be the billionaires, it will be the super attractive ladies. Prepare for the paradigm shift. It's coming.

Hey hey I will die with the most toys if he who has the most sex wins

[uglyphil]

Something to help settle the argument.

http://www.snopes.com/are-blue-balls-a-real-thing/