Language that turn you off?

[nosferatu523]

Not sure if I'm being an odd ball here.
But being called darling/babe and the sort during a session just weirds me out.

No, I do prefer a more GFE style with lots of kissing and cuddling.
And yes we are doing something that is supposed to intimate.
But we are still complete strangers!

Anyone on the same boat here? or what are some other things that turn you off?

[otokosg]

Not sure if I'm being an odd ball here.
But being called darling/babe and the sort during a session just weirds me out.

No, I do prefer a more GFE style with lots of kissing and cuddling.
And yes we are doing something that is supposed to intimate.
But we are still complete strangers!

Anyone on the same boat here? or what are some other things that turn you off?

Look, I wish I had your problem.
Most of the MLs just call me "you", without ever bothering to ask my name (even if we all know it's just a fake name).

[HotSpicyJohnny]

Not sure if I'm being an odd ball here.
But being called darling/babe and the sort during a session just weirds me out.

No, I do prefer a more GFE style with lots of kissing and cuddling.
And yes we are doing something that is supposed to intimate.
But we are still complete strangers!

Anyone on the same boat here? or what are some other things that turn you off?

Yep...me too...as soon as the girl/lady says darrrling I just turn off.
the ladies at 533 tend to say it :(

[woods23]

most girls just a simple "hi" "you again? " no darling or hun lol :(

Im not sure is me or not but they rarely ask for your name lol . Even with the girl you have banged ....sad :(

I will tell my real name of coz no serect "Tiger"

[ML_Lover]

My current ML spent our entire first session calling me 'daaarlling' in a Thai accent - a big turnoff for me. I didn't beleive her when she said she was from Taiwan at all...

Second session, same girl, no 'darlings' and no Thai accent, much more genuine personality. Weird - did I pass some kind of test?

[woods23]

She already know You had falling for her.....so no more "daaarlling" it's "Hi Baby " now hehe.

[nosferatu523]

Look, I wish I had your problem.
Most of the MLs just call me "you", without ever bothering to ask my name (even if we all know it's just a fake name).

Yeah, they tend not to ask names.

I'm fine going with "you" over a badly accented "darling"

[nosferatu523]

Yep...me too...as soon as the girl/lady says darrrling I just turn off.
the ladies at 533 tend to say it :(

Ohhh, good to know I'm not the only one

[nosferatu523]

My current ML spent our entire first session calling me 'daaarlling' in a Thai accent - a big turnoff for me. I didn't beleive her when she said she was from Taiwan at all...

Second session, same girl, no 'darlings' and no Thai accent, much more genuine personality. Weird - did I pass some kind of test?

Congrats on your level up!

Or maybe she's just running some sort of social experiment on you XD

[stevo_luvo]

When they ask me personal information about my occupation etc

[nosferatu523]

When they ask me personal information about my occupation etc

Hmm, do you mean even asking "What do you do?" is a no go?
Or are you referring to when they dig too deep?

[Littlewonder]

Most of the girls particularly at the $150 shops no very little English so Darling is for them very appropriate its supposed to be friendly and better than saying hi or not addressing you at all.

I find the more mature ladies tend to call you darling while the younger ones just look at you and smile.

I guess at the end of the day does it really matter its how the perform that really counts.

[stevo_luvo]

Hmm, do you mean even asking "What do you do?" is a no go?
Or are you referring to when they dig too deep?

Both, I am very bad a lying to people and kinda comes off as rude when i dont want to reply, often a mood killer...

[cuteguy]

I don't hear them saying "darling" or "honey" that often. It's more "you're so handsome" and "are you married?" that I hear from the girls these days.:smile:

[kingwally]

Instant turn -off language for me is girls from the Philippines. I just cannot stand the fake American accent particularly from girls that have been born and raised in Australia.

[garfield]

Instant turn -off language for me is girls from the Philippines. I just cannot stand the fake American accent particularly from girls that have been born and raised in Australia.

Haha. to me their accent was very cute.

[kingwally]

Haha. to me their accent was very cute.I can fully understand that. Maybe I have worked with too many Filipinnos and been over there too many times to think it is cute anymore.

[Skippy tasman]

My turn off is FOUL language
Had a glamour desi girl once everything about her was perfect.
As soon as we started screwing so start yelling out YES THATS IT
FUCK MY CUNT OH YES FUCK
MY CUNT!!!!!! Instant turn off!!!

P.s. Sorry for the swear words

[tiko89]

When they ask me personal information about my occupation etc

Just use a standard reply and enjoy the session. ML may just wanto to break the ice.

[kingqxxx]

darling & honey is definitely a turn off for me. Sounds so ungenuine

[Babycat]

My colleagues call clients as darling or honey, but I don't. Too personally. One used to call like that and that guy coldly replied that he was not her darling! Bjt again, it's about personality. Someone like and some don't. Girls are not mind-readers, so please take it easy. I don't remember and actually don't care about name as I assume that guys don't want to reveal themselves so I should not ask somethings in person such as their names or where they live. If they like, they will introduce themselves. Anyway, I'm busy watching American horror story atm so I don't have much time writing detailed comment. Happy Halloween.

[God Member]

My turn off is FOUL language
Had a glamour desi girl once everything about her was perfect.
As soon as we started screwing so start yelling out YES THATS IT
F**K MY ***T OH YES F**K
MY ***T!!!!!! Instant turn off!!!

P.s. Sorry for the swear words

How about that for an editing:miao: suggestion?

[CunningLinguist]

My turn off is FOUL language
Had a glamour desi girl once everything about her was perfect.
As soon as we started screwing so start yelling out YES THATS IT
FUCK MY CUNT OH YES FUCK
MY CUNT!!!!!! Instant turn off!!!

P.s. Sorry for the swear words

I don't mind some dirty talk, had a WL start talking like this once and then she asked me to smack her and started barking like a dog ...

[Skippy tasman]

I don't mind some dirty talk, had a WL start talking like this once and then she asked me to smack her and started barking like a dog ...

That's funny,I knew a fellow that made his girl put on a woolly sheep skin and made her baa baa baa! roll play,at is worst!
We are a weird mob!

[kingqxxx]

That's funny,I knew a fellow that made his girl put on a woolly sheep skin and made her baa baa baa! roll play,at is worst!
We are a weird mob!

Haha, that funny. Is he from NZ?

[HotSpicyJohnny]

My colleagues call clients as darling or honey, but I don't. Too personally. One used to call like that and that guy coldly replied that he was not her darling! Bjt again, it's about personality. Someone like and some don't. Girls are not mind-readers, so please take it easy. I don't remember and actually don't care about name as I assume that guys don't want to reveal themselves so I should not ask somethings in person such as their names or where they live. If they like, they will introduce themselves. Anyway, I'm busy watching American horror story atm so I don't have much time writing detailed comment. Happy Halloween.

Thanks for the take from the other side of the fence :)
Happy Halloween too :)

[kingqxxx]

My colleagues call clients as darling or honey, but I don't. Too personally. One used to call like that and that guy coldly replied that he was not her darling! Bjt again, it's about personality. Someone like and some don't. Girls are not mind-readers, so please take it easy. I don't remember and actually don't care about name as I assume that guys don't want to reveal themselves so I should not ask somethings in person such as their names or where they live. If they like, they will introduce themselves. Anyway, I'm busy watching American horror story atm so I don't have much time writing detailed comment. Happy Halloween.

Funny you said that. I use my real name if the girl asks, and I don't mind at all that they do. But you are right, everyone is different :smile:

[tpol]

What about matey?

I like when Asian girls says no worries without the Aussie accent

What's better, use your real name or aus99 login?

I too use my real name

[gammera]

Never worried me . What is the lady suppose to call you instead Sir or Mr ?

[kingqxxx]

Never worried me . What is the lady suppose to call you instead Sir or Mr ?

What about bro? lol

[nosferatu523]

My colleagues call clients as darling or honey, but I don't. Too personally. One used to call like that and that guy coldly replied that he was not her darling! Bjt again, it's about personality. Someone like and some don't. Girls are not mind-readers, so please take it easy. I don't remember and actually don't care about name as I assume that guys don't want to reveal themselves so I should not ask somethings in person such as their names or where they live. If they like, they will introduce themselves. Anyway, I'm busy watching American horror story atm so I don't have much time writing detailed comment. Happy Halloween.

Wow, that guy was pretty rough.

But yeah, I can tell they're coming with good intent, so I'm not offended, but just that it doesn't quite work out.

[tiko89]

Better than the silence treatment that i got from not 1 but 2 ml today. it has been a shiity day

[cmk76]

Northern mandarin is a turn off for me...

[caff3ry]

Northern mandarin is a turn off for me...
Hahahaha I'm not familiar of the geography with China but is it that really heavy thick mandarin accent? You know what's a dream listening to Taiwanese girls speak mandarin so eloquent and melodic

[AHLUNGOR]

Hahahaha I'm not familiar of the geography with China but is it that really heavy thick mandarin accent? You know what's a dream listening to Taiwanese girls speak mandarin so eloquent and melodic

Yeah, some Taiwanese girls do sound very sexy when they speak , soft and smooth and they have an unique accent too, the more sexy one is near poetic. Mena is one of them that I won't get tired of listening to.

Back to the OP, many of the well know mls would have a general degree of English deficiency . So they call all their customers darling or honey, nothing wrong with that , just being friendly .

[Babycat]

Have you ever thought that MLs have suffered from language abuse? I have, and somehow I've lost my confidence in communication.
And some particular accent make me feel cranky and annoyed. Tried hard to be a nice one, but... I'm just human.

[w8nbleed5]

yea sometimes it wierds me out also, i usually introduce myself prior

[unodamlite]

Strong Thai accent... i just can't.

[kingqxxx]

Strong Thai accent... i just can't.

Dont know why but i am the same

[kingqxxx]

Strong Thai accent... i just can't.


Yeah, some Taiwanese girls do sound very sexy when they speak , soft and smooth and they have an unique accent too, the more sexy one is near poetic. Mena is one of them that I won't get tired of listening to.

Back to the OP, many of the well know mls would have a general degree of English deficiency . So they call all their customers darling or honey, nothing wrong with that , just being friendly .

Yea. Tw girl have thay soft and weak tone to the voice which can be a turn on

[kingqxxx]

Northern mandarin is a turn off for me...

Haha. I am the opposite. I dont mind the northern accent at all.

[paulgallen]

Have you ever thought that MLs have suffered from language abuse? I have, and somehow I've lost my confidence in communication.
.

Language abuse ? 😄😄😄 thats a funny way of saying it. Yes I know what you are trying to say.
Note I am not abusing your poor use of language as mine ain't that great at the best of time.

[A44]

Guys,
This is not strictly Language that turns you off, but it is a bit related, because it turns me off.
On a few occasions, I have been having great sessions with beautiful, sweet looking ladies.
Sometimes after BBBJ, etc. they go to clear their throats. WOW. !!!!
It's too hard to describe how disgusting it sounds.
Like wild pigs fighting. Yuk.
I like to see them refresh their mouths with mouthwash before We get back to DFK.

You can take the Lady out of China, but, You can't take China out of the Lady.

[AHLUNGOR]

Guys,
This is not strictly Language that turns you off, but it is a bit related, because it turns me off.
On a few occasions, I have been having great sessions with beautiful, sweet looking ladies.
Sometimes after BBBJ, etc. they go to clear their throats. WOW. !!!!
It's too hard to describe how disgusting it sounds.
Like wild pigs fighting. Yuk.
I like to see them refresh their mouths with mouthwash before We get back to DFK.

You can take the Lady out of China, but, You can't take China out of the Lady.

Perhaps a minty BBBJ inside the shower with a mouth full of listerine is your thing buddy !

You can also have the fire/ice effect plays too !!

[cmk76]

Guys,
This is not strictly Language that turns you off, but it is a bit related, because it turns me off.
On a few occasions, I have been having great sessions with beautiful, sweet looking ladies.
Sometimes after BBBJ, etc. they go to clear their throats. WOW. !!!!
It's too hard to describe how disgusting it sounds.
Like wild pigs fighting. Yuk.
I like to see them refresh their mouths with mouthwash before We get back to DFK.

You can take the Lady out of China, but, You can't take China out of the Lady.

Depending on which village they're from, the hacking of phlegm gives away the region...:miao:

[Pleasedonot]

The overly fake moaning... i rather they be quiet...

[dcsss]

The language that turns me off is when they ask for tips for bbbj etc !!

good point....:shout::shout::shout:

[CunningLinguist]

A big turn off is going to a budget brothel and getting a shitty root and then when it is time to say goodbye the girl suddenly becomes friendly and nice and says bye and please come back.

[A44]

The Ladies that I talked about, must have travelled around China.
They cleared their Phlegm in many Dialects. Ha Ha.

[rooter]

I like to have just normal conversations with the girls even if their English is not so good, and my Thai, Japanese, and Korean even worse.
We just say normal, everyday, stupid stuff, and have a few laughs.
I'm not into that fake stuff the MILF WLs throw at you "ooh darling, you so strong, you so handsome, you so big"
But it's not a turn off; I can see where the girls are coming from, they are trying their best, and it's kind of funny, and cute, and sometimes even sexy.
And sometimes you don't even have to talk much to communicate.
The other day I had a session with a young Chinese girl who spoke almost no English and I speak almost no Chinese.
But we still communicated wonderfully ... a word here and there, lots of gestures and body language, lots of kisses and cuddles ... and we fucked, licked, sucked, and came like crazy.
It's all good unwholesome fun ;)

[cici1233]

Not sure if I'm being an odd ball here.
But being called darling/babe and the sort during a session just weirds me out.

No, I do prefer a more GFE style with lots of kissing and cuddling.
And yes we are doing something that is supposed to intimate.
But we are still complete strangers!

Anyone on the same boat here? or what are some other things that turn you off?

I have a thailand accent and my customers don't usually like it..

[cmk76]

I have a thailand accent and my customers don't usually like it..

Which shop are you from?

[Raybo]

A couple of times i have had the lady i am with say 'i want your dick'. I say back, 'no, you want my cock'. 'No, i want your dick'. Some ladies don't get dirty talk or aren't comfortable with it.

[AHLUNGOR]

A couple of times i have had the lady i am with say 'i want your dick'. I say back, 'no, you want my cock'. 'No, i want your dick'. Some ladies don't get dirty talk or aren't comfortable with it.

Wait until you hear some girl says: may I have your male genital organ please !!

[Raybo]

Wait until you hear some girl says: may I have your male genital organ please !!

Haha - that would crack me up! I would say something like 'yes, but please let me caress those mammary glands of yours!

[AHLUNGOR]

Haha - that would crack me up! I would say something like 'yes, but please let me caress those mammary glands of yours!

Haha, brother Raybo, surely you can do better than that:

She would have also said : if you want me to perform fellatio on you, you have to give me cunnilingus first but please, absolutely No anilingus !!

[CunningLinguist]

A couple of times i have had the lady i am with say 'i want your dick'. I say back, 'no, you want my cock'. 'No, i want your dick'. Some ladies don't get dirty talk or aren't comfortable with it.

Did you tell her your name was Dick ...

[Raybo]

Did you tell her your name was Dick ...

I tell them all my name is CunningLinguist, which is probably why they all want my dick! 😆

[CunningLinguist]

I tell them all my name is CunningLinguist, which is probably why they all want my dick! ��

An imposter!
As highlander would say: "There can be only one!" :)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sqcLjcSloXs

[mj00]

Yep, I don't really like the "darling" either, or the "you're so big" - I know perfectly well that I'm quite average in that respect, I don't like an obvious lie.

[AHLUNGOR]

Yep, I don't really like the "darling" either, or the "you're so big" - I know perfectly well that I'm quite average in that respect, I don't like an obvious lie.

I do ! And it also depending on who is saying it !

When I saw my long time favourite Mia @368 Pennant Hills Rd last Friday, every thing she said about my rock hard cock was so erotic !!

As I haven't heard her saying those things to me for more than two years - in Cantonese too !!