Am i Undateable now ?

[cuttlefish]

I told a mate I am thinking of dating a milf who has moved into my
apartment block. Song thread mentions. But my confidence has
taken a huge hit. I have been single so long a decade & when
single I have always wanted sex & enjoyed the experience. But
this makes wonder actually am I undateable now. I know
plenty of women who will turned off by my activities. Many
will be suspicious if I haven't had a GF in 10 yrs. Do u
think they will flee about my past or just keep a secret but I
would hate to lie if we enter a relationship. Or what excuse
come up for 10yr no relationship. Or do u think a life long
punter can change or is the old saying
" Leopard can't change its spots" ring true. I know I am
asking many questions but once again opinion would be
appreciated.

[YI88]

Take it slowly, behave like you just want to be friends. If the topic comes up tell her how you were really interested in your work, or perhaps your extended family, and that time just slipped away. Then accept any offer she makes. She won't mind where or how you learned to perform so well.

[aussiegaigin]

You don't have to tell her you haven't dated in 10 years; just that you haven't found anyone suited to a long term relationship. Most girls don't want the gory details of your past.

[w8nbleed5]

ask yourself what it is you want in a woman.
if its just sex then its sex, if its more than that then you'll be fine.
take a while to think about those things.
tbh ive never dated a female in my life either and im 27.
confidence is something im trying to work on myself.

[Midnight_Prowl]

Over thinking urself. Go and ask if she say yes think about wot u wanna do. If she says no than come back ask urself this question

[Pussyhands]

ask yourself what it is you want in a woman.
if its just sex then its sex, if its more than that then you'll be fine.
take a while to think about those things.
tbh ive never dated a female in my life either and im 27.
confidence is something im trying to work on myself.

Once you have a chance at it, you may have a different perspective ;) go and enjoy it

[CunningLinguist]

I'm afraid the answer is yes, after reading all your posts ...
Eg.: http://forum.aus99.com/showthread.php?61561-My-epic-failure-as-a-virgin-which-led-me-to-life-of-vice

[cuttlefish]

I'm afraid the answer is yes, after reading all your posts ...
Eg.: http://forum.aus99.com/showthread.php?61561-My-epic-failure-as-a-virgin-which-led-me-to-life-of-vice

But she hasn't read my posts LOL . It would be a clean slate.
I'm inclined not to ask her as one the main reasons I never
approach girls I don't like rejection I mean who does. However
one of the males in my unit block told me she was asking about
me. I have a fish tank & pot plants maybe she is interested in
my aquarium & my tropical fern but not me. !!

[simplelife]

I'm afraid the answer is yes, after reading all your posts ...
Eg.: http://forum.aus99.com/showthread.php?61561-My-epic-failure-as-a-virgin-which-led-me-to-life-of-vice

I jumped the conclusion thinking brother cunning was being quite rude, then i was like i'll give them the benefit of the doubt and read the post he quoted.

I am glad I gave brother cunning the benefit of the doubt because to simply put it, all I have to say is exactly what cunning said...


I'm afraid the answer is yes, after reading all your posts...

[cuttlefish]

Over thinking urself. Go and ask if she say yes think about wot u wanna do. If she says no than come back ask urself this question
I have lot to ponder about. Are all women charlatans ?
The motto " If u think a girl is going to be honest about
cocks counts u are going to be so wrong " has served
mates well in the past so that may be the answer.