View Full Version : I think i'm addicted to punting.
bestofmyworld
28-03-2012, 06:26 PM
In the last 3 weeks the longest I've ever gone without punting is 2 days and only because my wallet was empty.
I've spent over 2k in punting in the last 3 weeks. in terms of income its about 80%, 15% goes towards debts, 5% for spending. i work P/T night-shift but I'm getting hooked up with a daytime FT job. The only thing going through my head was that now i have enough money to punt 7-8+ times a week if i work both these jobs. Currently i punt about 4-5 days a week, but sometimes twice in one day and include doubles.
I've punted everyday since Friday except Sunday. About a month ago I've only had sex with 4 women in my life (all long-term relationships). Yesterday my count hit 21.
So how does a punting addict like myself cut down on the number of punts without resorting to porn?
Travelmate
28-03-2012, 06:30 PM
Do other activities, like sport , fishing, with friends, make more friends in other social environment and hopefully there are many girls start talking and want to start a relationship with you.
stevodog
28-03-2012, 06:51 PM
yes you have a problem and that is too much punting bro-about a month ago i spent $1000 in 1 week which is crazy. Now i have a GF and havent been punting since we met but the urge is still there. So my advice would be to find a GF or you will go broke
splash
28-03-2012, 06:56 PM
Yeah keep yourself occupied, lately (actually for an entire year now) I've gone nuts on my wallet.
I've filtered my list down to like 3 regulars, 2 of whom are now like hardly working and 1 is on Holidays.
Mr bmw
28-03-2012, 07:06 PM
Im an addict also, I punt when im happy, i punt when im depress, and i punt when im bored, the point is i always find a reason to punt, its never enough, and i've been doing this for over 10yrs, while im in a relationship,Yes its an expensive problem, but i rather punt than gamble at the casino or take drugs. on average i punt 3 or 4 times per week also, bestofmyworld bro, i dont think you can stop punting, ever !!!
syd_hunter
28-03-2012, 07:33 PM
I spend $700 each week on 1 girl, she is not a wl, purely become my lover. I enjoy it, money you can earn, but good girl you hard to find in this world. I no longer to brothel
gentlescream
28-03-2012, 09:01 PM
I hear ya bro. I haven't been punting for that long, try to keep some type of schedule...but man...on my way home, if I'm near a spot, especially one I've yet to visit...wallet goes open. Helps a bit (not a lot) to carry just a little amount of cash (of course, that may interfere w/other things in life).
SeniorCitizen
28-03-2012, 09:12 PM
Haha for a minute there I thought I had written the OP and forgotten about it. I was actually considering finding a part time job at one point to fuel the lifestyle. That said though, I only went a bit punt crazy this month because I just earned myself some financial freedom and felt I should celebrate by sleeping with hot chicks. Now that I have managed to blow through most of my income in a few weeks, reality has set back in, and I know I could not maintain such a intensive punting schedule without some sacrifices to other parts of my life. Just went back to my old hobbies and keeping myself occupied with a new project at work.
I also realised that the constant variety of women would probably mess with my head in the long term should I ever decide to get into a serious one woman relationship. I was finding that I was unable to cum reliably for my regulars no matter how good the service they were providing was. But give me a completely new lady and I would cum for her no problem. So now just taking it slow for a few weeks to get my brain reset and dick sensitivity back up.
enigma775
28-03-2012, 09:17 PM
A gf doesn't stop you from wanting to punt :(
Jj999
28-03-2012, 09:28 PM
Haha for a minute there I thought I had written the OP and forgotten about it. I was actually considering finding a part time job at one point to fuel the lifestyle. That said though, I only went a bit punt crazy this month because I just earned myself some financial freedom and felt I should celebrate by sleeping with hot chicks. Now that I have managed to blow through most of my income in a few weeks, reality has set back in, and I know I could not maintain such a intensive punting schedule without some sacrifices to other parts of my life. Just went back to my old hobbies and keeping myself occupied with a new project at work.
I also realised that the constant variety of women would probably mess with my head in the long term should I ever decide to get into a serious one woman relationship. I was finding that I was unable to cum reliably for my regulars no matter how good the service they were providing was. But give me a completely new lady and I would cum for her no problem. So now just taking it slow for a few weeks to get my brain reset and dick sensitivity back up.
Dick sensitivity. Lol.
That's true.
I stopped for 2 weeks, then last weekend I had a session.
It's totally different feeling to when I punt wildly mid January - end of february. 5 times a week.
Master of Fairytales
28-03-2012, 10:27 PM
To bestofmyworld,
You are doing very well indeed, there is no problem to resolve. What better way to spend 80% of your income then in the company of girls that are only concerned for your happiness and genuinely care about your welfare. If anything you might be able to reduce your other expenses to raise your punting budget to 90% of your income - have you ever considered a tap water diet? The only issue that stands out is that you had a day where you missed out on punting so you might have dedication issues to deal with.
Butty
28-03-2012, 11:05 PM
I think spending $1,000 in a week on punting is quite healthy. Now Im spending that just on one of them may be a problem. Intervention anyone?
stevodog
29-03-2012, 12:47 AM
A gf doesn't stop you from wanting to punt :(
yes i agree but it slows you down a bit
Jj999
29-03-2012, 03:30 AM
I think spending $1,000 in a week on punting is quite healthy. Now Im spending that just on one of them may be a problem. Intervention anyone?
Yes, it's healthy, depending on what is your income/budget.
Why not, because if you become regular, every session you have after the previous one, is a better one.
It also depends on your preferences. Some made a rule not to see a lady more than 3 times.
If that's your rule, then it's not healthy for you. And only for you. :smile:
Sergaent Brody
29-03-2012, 07:32 AM
You are not alone, it makes you want to earn more money ...
Littlewonder
29-03-2012, 07:58 AM
Well punting is adictive the more you punt the more you want to best thing to do a few of the wl have told me is to just punt now and then as a treat, mind you I havent taken there advise and its certainly none of my regulars that I see these days that tell me that.
essdub
29-03-2012, 08:48 AM
Brother, it can be a negative in your life.
To some people, punting can be on your mind every waking moment and can stop you from doing all the normal things in life and can disassociate you from your friends, family, job etc and can negatively impact your rent/mortgage, buying groceries etc etc. Having a punting addiction is no different to a gambling or drug addiction in that it can affect the people around you and the quality of your life.
It's OK to have a laugh and no one here means anything malicious towards you, but if in your real world you feel like you shouldn't be punting and it is bringing you down or having a negative impact on your financial and social life, then you should seek to get professional help.
Heroin addicts dont think they have a problem until a massive life changing event happens and then they may seek to get help before it's too late. I dont think punting can be too different as it can lead to financial issues, social issues and these problems can spiral deeper like depression and worse.
It's how you feel and only you know whats going through your mind so if you really feel like you're punting too much and can't control it, i would think you need to get some help. Don't be ashamed. It takes a big person to ask for help.
ilovefs
29-03-2012, 09:00 AM
There are a lot more guys on here for whom it is a problem than we realise. And many of them don't realise it.
I didn't realise it until one day it hit me. You'd think with the amount I punt I'd have a great life, but in fact my life is pretty fucking miserable. Sometimes I wonder why I bother getting up.
AHLUNGOR
29-03-2012, 09:42 AM
Haha, punting is an addiction alright, many years ago, together with heavy gambling, the two evils really stuffed up my life.
Luckily, i think i have successfully defeated the gambling problem - although i still bet on horses and footy but thats just a couple hundreds at a time rather than thousands and i dont go to Star City any more.......haha
Well i dont know once a week massage fix ( budget $100 to $150) can be called an addiction , sometimes i believe i am more addicted to the company of the ML rather than the massage or extras itself. Well thats still big money , easily over $6,000 a year and that could be spent taking the family to Bali or QLD for a nice holiday....lol
But i think if you are actually talking about it you are addressing the issue and thats already one positive step more forward than not.
I think if you cant stop doing it, as it is a physical basic need of man, you may as well try to control it and manage your finance better,
To restrict yourself to one punt or max two punts a week is a good start,
Just my 2 cents
Cheers
essdub
29-03-2012, 09:53 AM
the best way for me to keep my punting under control is that my VELP (any Tim Minchin fans?) can see my cash flow and can see where my dollars are spent. Some may not like this but for me, it keeps me under control. If I could do anything I wanted with my money, it would be gone each week on sex, drugs and grog. SO by being accountable to someone else, it makes it very difficult for me to just go out and make $150 disappear with nothing to show for it. There's ways around it, putting $20 or $50 away every now and again and after 4 or 6 weeks there is $150 added up then i can spoil myself. This keeps me under control.
bestofmyworld
29-03-2012, 05:13 PM
Yesterday i had such an intense craving for punting even after jacking it twice in the morning(not to porn). Luckily my best bro was there for me and distracted me until 2am when all my favorite shop closed. Saved me $150.
I went today though. Initially i was only planning for a 30min session. However i got a hard-on during the intro, and the W/L saw it and rubbed it. She then told me i look clean so she'll let me cum in her mouth and lick my ass, so of cause I have go for at least an hour. I think this is one of the best sex I've ever had, my body went numbed for a minute after i came and she was fairly tight as well and VERY skillful. It's her last day and she finishes at 7pm so don't bother asking me who she is lol.
So now i think the addiction's gone worst. It's so hard to go even one day without punting. Also i don't know if a GF is a good choice because I prefer variety so a FB might not actually a bad idea.
Onthebeach
29-03-2012, 07:36 PM
Bro bestofmyworld, I hope the novelty of it wears off for you soon, before you know it you will have worked for yrs and have nothing to show for it but a punting count. If you have this much energy for rooting, maybe try just putting it on chicks at pubs and clubs, without wasting too much time in the formalities. I know its not the same, there is nothing better than walking into an establishment knowing you are going to get laid and your only concern is which girl you are going to pick. So I suggest, Nah bugger it, you just keep punting and enjoy it while it lasts. How many good punts have you had out of all this activity, and where have you been punting?
whitesea
29-03-2012, 08:08 PM
I think spending $1,000 in a week on punting is quite healthy. Now Im spending that just on one of them may be a problem. Intervention anyone?
I spend $700 for punt today, and wax for balls cost $60 at the Sheraton Hotel. yesterday i had a hair cut for Max impact cost $80 . this week already spend $1540 for punt!!!
enigma775
29-03-2012, 10:23 PM
I spend $700 for punt today, and wax for balls cost $60 at the Sheraton Hotel. yesterday i had a hair cut for Max impact cost $80 . this week already spend $1540 for punt!!!
whitesea
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Travelmate
29-03-2012, 10:24 PM
whitesea
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what is your point of this post?
hobgoblin
29-03-2012, 10:35 PM
I spend $700 each week on 1 girl, she is not a wl, purely become my lover. I enjoy it, money you can earn, but good girl you hard to find in this world. I no longer to brothel
Will she still be your lover when you stop spending $700/week on her?
enigma775
29-03-2012, 11:11 PM
what is your point of this post?
That his location suggests he has the purse to support a more exuberant punting lifestyle.
bestofmyworld
30-03-2012, 05:53 AM
Bro bestofmyworld, I hope the novelty of it wears off for you soon, before you know it you will have worked for yrs and have nothing to show for it but a punting count. If you have this much energy for rooting, maybe try just putting it on chicks at pubs and clubs, without wasting too much time in the formalities. I know its not the same, there is nothing better than walking into an establishment knowing you are going to get laid and your only concern is which girl you are going to pick. So I suggest, Nah bugger it, you just keep punting and enjoy it while it lasts. How many good punts have you had out of all this activity, and where have you been punting?
I enjoy the thrill of the unknown so i rarely go back to the same girl twice, unless maybe to do a double. I like visiting new shops and then go there exclusively for a week or so and then change shops. I've been lucky and have a lot more good punts than bad ones so far. Within the last week I've been "conquering" shops around Fairfield.
Onthebeach
30-03-2012, 06:33 AM
Ahh, good for you mate, ENJOY !
essdub
30-03-2012, 10:47 AM
in my opinion, if 80% of your income is going to hookers, that can only be a bad thing. thats just my thoughts.
whitesea
30-03-2012, 06:19 PM
yes, Im addicted pussy all my life!!! hair cut for Pussy, Sports car for Pussy or wife, Dog and cat for pussy!
I spend money for girls!!! Girls are same as boys!!! WL is Car park, or delivery Pizza!! If you spend money for punt, its gone you have to collect money again for punt!
dannyboy
30-03-2012, 07:53 PM
We are all addicted to some degree, but you need to control yourself...
Mate it can get too much.
I find if im not overly busy atwork i start to wander.
So keep busy
Pick one day a week .. Then stretch to two weeks then three thenonce per month.
Pick one or two girls max!
woraix
03-04-2012, 01:02 AM
In the last 3 weeks the longest I've ever gone without punting is 2 days and only because my wallet was empty.
I've spent over 2k in punting in the last 3 weeks. in terms of income its about 80%, 15% goes towards debts, 5% for spending. i work P/T night-shift but I'm getting hooked up with a daytime FT job. The only thing going through my head was that now i have enough money to punt 7-8+ times a week if i work both these jobs. Currently i punt about 4-5 days a week, but sometimes twice in one day and include doubles.
I've punted everyday since Friday except Sunday. About a month ago I've only had sex with 4 women in my life (all long-term relationships). Yesterday my count hit 21.
So how does a punting addict like myself cut down on the number of punts without resorting to porn?
Try some cheap joints with pork chops if you can't reduce your frequency!
ddkf85
03-04-2012, 01:09 AM
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Littlewonder
04-04-2012, 04:44 AM
Just try a WL that is so gross and disgusting it puts you off punting for a while. Short-term fix.
Is there such a thing? she wouldnt still be working would she?
Travelmate
04-04-2012, 08:01 AM
Just try a WL that is so gross and disgusting it puts you off punting for a while. Short-term fix.
who is she? Where can I find her?
essdub
04-04-2012, 09:15 AM
who is she? Where can I find her?
Any of the shops along Queen St at St Mary's. Or any of the places at Penrith. :vomit:
Ollie
12-07-2012, 02:31 PM
All I can say is I live somewhere where you can't punt so saving me lots. Can only punt about 3 times a year but I make the most of it when I can haha
suka02
12-07-2012, 11:34 PM
The trick to this is to wank at home over watching porn. You'll definetely feel tired afterwards and the have the questions coming in mind would say "I just cum, is that what Ian paying for if I went o punt??"wow, I just saved my money for not going punting today"
IExperiment
12-07-2012, 11:44 PM
Any of the shops along Queen St at St Mary's. Or any of the places at Penrith. :vomit:
Well you mention that far for some one who is around the CBD already put me off from the travel :)
mannykay
13-07-2012, 12:32 AM
Save up for a holiday to SE Asia, for super cheap punts. It'll be much more worthwhile and valuable experience. Anything consistant and in excess loses value over time and you'll just feel empty.
Alexlim
13-07-2012, 04:22 AM
In the last 3 weeks the longest I've ever gone without punting is 2 days and only because my wallet was empty. You might be strong bro, How could you do like that! :miao:
Dick sensitivity. Lol. That's true.
I stopped for 2 weeks, then last weekend I had a session.
It's totally different feeling to when I punt wildly mid January - end of february. 5 times a week.
lol Dick sensitivity
lovely bro J took a break, many girl might miss you so much:miao:
Alexlim
13-07-2012, 04:26 AM
Save up for a holiday to SE Asia, for super cheap punts. It'll be much more worthwhile and valuable experience. Anything consistant and in excess loses value over time and you'll just feel empty.
I'll have too bro:miao: Do you have any recommend? :slobber:
Charlie123
13-07-2012, 09:47 AM
Bangkok or pattaya ... $30 = 2 hours bbbj + fs ... $50 = overnight
I'll have too bro:miao: Do you have any recommend? :slobber:
rsalcedo
13-07-2012, 03:35 PM
Haha, punting is an addiction alright, many years ago, together with heavy gambling, the two evils really stuffed up my life.
Luckily, i think i have successfully defeated the gambling problem - although i still bet on horses and footy but thats just a couple hundreds at a time rather than thousands and i dont go to Star City any more.......haha
Well i dont know once a week massage fix ( budget $100 to $150) can be called an addiction , sometimes i believe i am more addicted to the company of the ML rather than the massage or extras itself. Well thats still big money , easily over $6,000 a year and that could be spent taking the family to Bali or QLD for a nice holiday....lol
But i think if you are actually talking about it you are addressing the issue and thats already one positive step more forward than not.
I think if you cant stop doing it, as it is a physical basic need of man, you may as well try to control it and manage your finance better,
To restrict yourself to one punt or max two punts a week is a good start,
Just my 2 cents
Cheers
I'm averaging 2-3 per week so that's an easy 200-250, as i normally do half hour sessions.
Still i'm surprised after picking up the calculator, bloody $13,000AUD!
(I can go holiday to my home country with plenty of pocket money with this amount)
Or i can pay off the car loan, or many other things.
When you're spending little amounts, if fells just ok, but it does add up
This doesn't mean i'll stop though, i'll just reduce it to 1-2 visits per week.
Coz if you think of it, it's still better to punt than spend the money on gambling or drugs
where you go home sad, but here you go home with a smile.!
So have fun brothers! Life is too short.
rsalcedo
13-07-2012, 03:49 PM
who is she? Where can I find her?
Just see Billy, he has all the gross pork chops! lol
mannykay
13-07-2012, 05:31 PM
I'll have too bro:miao: Do you have any recommend? :slobber:
What Charlie said. In Bangkok, check out Patpong, they'll have pimps standing out in the streets and pester you relentlessly about what they have to offer. 1500baht for 1h 30mins of nude body slide & fs.
Saigon 'barbershops' is just fuck'n'go kinda procedure. Go in, shower, fuck, cum, pay, then gtfo. No GFE or PSE.
Blow'n'go joints are good. It's like 10-15bucks depending on how good your barter skills are. Lie on a massage table, BBBJ til CIM, pay, then leave. But very satisfying.
As for the addiction thing, there are worse addictions. At least your not hurting your health. Still not a good thing, as I can tell by your tone there's a huge emotional toll. You need to find another outlet, like instead of spending the $150 on punting, use it on rock climbing or something, take up kick boxing, or fishing as I have recently begun.
Tackle one at a time; first, your need to punt. Second, the financial strain, get a really horny girlfriend ;)
Me, I've set up a accountabilibuddy system to prevent me from going too much. I only go with my mate, and we pretty much made a pact to only go once a month. After a punt, we set up a date and shake hands not to go anytime before that. It's less depressing that way, and make's it fun. The discussion and laughter afterwards in the car afterwards is almost as enjoyable as the punt itself, then we go and grab a kebab or burrito. Doing so makes the experience more guilt-free. When I used to go by myself I felt like a seedy bastard. Now I just feel rejuvenated.
Perhaps that could be a suggestion?
Beancounter
13-07-2012, 06:36 PM
I like the sound of the buddy system. I have a mate I do that with for massages and as u said the conversation afterwards is interesting. Might have to extend that to fs places. Just need to make sure u trust this mate. Lol
android
13-07-2012, 09:29 PM
id say....buy something, like a house or car that puts more pressure on you financially so you have no choice but to stop punting.... I wouldve done that, but i learnt the harder way.
Travelmate.
13-07-2012, 11:13 PM
Once you start u will not stop unless you are sick or become gay.
Max Impact
13-07-2012, 11:24 PM
id say....buy something, like a house or car that puts more pressure on you financially so you have no choice but to stop punting.... I wouldve done that, but i learnt the harder way.
I think punting will be the last thing I give up.
Travelmate.
13-07-2012, 11:28 PM
Money is the last thing i give up. No money no sex
out2play
14-07-2012, 03:58 PM
Been there too :)
I say, Enjoy it while it's still a novelty but put some end dates in. In the end, you will be better off investing the time and money in improving yourself than quick fixes that punting gives you. ie. improving your hunting skills :D
Now days, I prefer to hunt and be straight up with the girl that I'm not looking for a relationship. The great thing is that there is a learning curve and eventually your hit rate gets there hahaha
I save to punt in that unique experience now, that special occasion when I reward myself with a PSE session with the likes of Christine mcqueen et al or these punting euro trips with the boys!
bazaka
14-07-2012, 05:04 PM
woww from what you said, your making a score then i have haha
charliesexy69
15-07-2012, 01:36 AM
for me i stopped punting for 6 months last year and saved 15k.it was difficult but after 3 weeks of no punting i was ok.
it was great to go to the bank every week and put money in my account.
after 6 months of saving i went to hawaii for a month and visited 4 islands.had a blast.came back and i've been punting again.
will stop punting again soon and have another holiday.
a little control is allowing me to punt and holiday but not at the same time.
in the last 5 years i would have been punting over 400 times.
punting is very addictive.
i stopped using dope and amphetamines 8 years ago which i was hooked on for 12 years(full blown addict)
i have found if i want to stop doing something that is hurting me i have to not do it at all.
remember the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again but expecting a different result.
good luck fellow punters and thanks for sharing your experiences.
Travelmate
15-07-2012, 01:46 PM
Money is the last thing i give up. No money no sex
Brother Travelmate.
This time I agree with you!
Charlie123
15-07-2012, 02:02 PM
Brother charlie i agree with you too!
Prior to 5 months ago i punted maybe once or twice a year, max. Recently i have given up a range of other vices and have replaced them punting - now i punt 3 times a week or more. I think one day i will need to kick this habit too and replace with healthier behaviour, like exercise or study. Agree that its good to have a goal to work toward - like a holiday. Im currently planning a holiday in bangkok/pattaya... For more punting ... So probably doesnt count
for me i stopped punting for 6 months last year and saved 15k.it was difficult but after 3 weeks of no punting i was ok.
it was great to go to the bank every week and put money in my account.
after 6 months of saving i went to hawaii for a month and visited 4 islands.had a blast.came back and i've been punting again.
will stop punting again soon and have another holiday.
a little control is allowing me to punt and holiday but not at the same time.
in the last 5 years i would have been punting over 400 times.
punting is very addictive.
i stopped using dope and amphetamines 8 years ago which i was hooked on for 12 years(full blown addict)
i have found if i want to stop doing something that is hurting me i have to not do it at all.
remember the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again but expecting a different result.
good luck fellow punters and thanks for sharing your experiences.
AHLUNGOR
16-07-2012, 06:34 PM
Brother charlie i agree with you too!
Prior to 5 months ago i punted maybe once or twice a year, max. Recently i have given up a range of other vices and have replaced them punting - now i punt 3 times a week or more. I think one day i will need to kick this habit too and replace with healthier behaviour, like exercise or study. Agree that its good to have a goal to work toward - like a holiday. Im currently planning a holiday in bangkok/pattaya... For more punting ... So probably doesnt count
Haha, brother Charlie to brother Charlie,
123 to 69.......lol
A trip to Thailand is hard works man, and you need a real holiday after that.......haha
Cheers
Alexlim
16-07-2012, 07:33 PM
If you meet poor WL or ML and bad service many times, you might bore or stop punt?
For me, I'm not strong enough to punt many times per week. 3 yrs ago when I used to punt at AT 3-4 times per week (too many young and pretty girl)I thought I addict! Then I tried to go somewhere on Parramatta road, many milfs could stop my horny!!!
Now, after I went to 5*, I've stuck there. However I will save my money as much as I can and I will have a good trip as a rich guy in SEA, Vietnam, Loas, Cambodia, Thailand and Malaysia (3 weeks trip)... If I get good memories, I'll share to this forum lol:miao:
puntinforlife
16-07-2012, 11:46 PM
Hello fellow brothers, I am definently addicted to punting, i have punted on x-mas day, new years eve and day and also on birthdays, if i want to celebrate something i go punting, if i am upset about something i go punting, if am bored i go punting, i just love it and cant stop, am i addicted, probably but i enjoy it, i have spent over $2000 punting in a week, once i spent $630 in a night on 4 different girls (i did regret that for the few days after). Mind you to top it off i have a missus but i still cant help it and i dont think i would want to change it.
I have gone through some small phases were i have not punted for a couple of weeks at the most but always returned
In my opinion there is no sex like paid for sex!!
mannykay
17-07-2012, 06:13 PM
I said it once, and I'll say it again: there are worse addictions.
Alexlim
01-08-2012, 06:14 AM
I think I am addicted. I feel I couldn't control my hormone, might be the side effect from a lot of medicine that I took after my problem period.
I want to meet my favour many times in 3 weeks when she came back, after period off and every 2-3 days Wed,Fri,Sun,Wed,Sun. If it just like that I think it's normal.
But I got perfect session already, and I am so excited to taste another wild. It was like yesterday I had to hang around in city til tml - I had another journey: Ginza, I feel like Sydney swans is looking for 2nd home ground, it's good enough, Happy. Then I felt too bored to hang in city and decided to go back to very old cave Oasis, I surprised that I could cum there ( may be all medicine are too good) and tml I will get remedial massage to fix my body and might go to see fox's girl to get relax..
In my life, I haven't been 2 place in 1 day, too tried as punt crawls (not pub crawls) it's too much for me. I couldn't reload but I did yesterday.
I might stop some medicine, it make me heat up. Or I might arrange my life schdule, It might has too many free time gaps.
AHLUNGOR
01-08-2012, 09:30 AM
I think if you have the money, and the free time (from work, WAG) and the physical health to handle it, then why not??
My biggest problem is financial
Cheers
chandra_man1
01-08-2012, 09:39 AM
What medications u on that might be causing it? U might want to call the drug company & let them know of your adverse affect, maybe they will compensate u
Alexlim
01-08-2012, 10:37 AM
I think I could afford to pay but I should control myself, I don't wanna be sex addicted man. If I will be, I couldn't think about my small business for sure.
I tried to find out any reason to support my regular punt, I go to punt when I hornny or I feel too stress from my job and need to relax, that's why I'd stuck with the girl, she could make me happy and feel better every times I see her. I always spend time on the session 50-60% to talk to her. She always say to me don't think too much everything will be alright (different another in my real life, it's a problem why you don't blah blah blah...) May be I will be an old man who need the young cute girl beside and talk.
But I couldn't find any reasons to support my punt crawls!, It's shouldn't happen relate to my health problem. I think I my medicines are crushing in my body, physical side and healthy side. I will go to see my GP today, and ask him what side I should stop, actually there are important for my body.
And the last one that I must control is my mind. I should set up my rule to limit punting and spend my brain capacity on my business. Just spoil myself 2 main dishes and 1 or 2 dessert menu should be enough.
belial
01-08-2012, 10:56 AM
I think I could afford to pay but I should control myself, I don't wanna be sex addicted man. If I will be, I couldn't think about my small business for sure.
Spend it if you got it IMO. One day harsh economic realities will transcend generally accepted logic and our little Australian Oasis in the global economic wilderness will be gone. Europe is a tinderbox.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FJt7gNi3Nr4
That could be us in a few years. If so you would think back to the days of easy money and cheap legal punting and wish they would return, and that you had punted more when you had the chance.
Alexlim
01-08-2012, 11:20 AM
TQ bro, I will enjoy my life as I can before the earth will be gone in this year hahaha
I hope I won't be a guy in this picture hahaha
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Lancelot
01-08-2012, 12:44 PM
Alex, this is the second time you've posted a picture of me, are you stalking me? It took my GP 2 hours to remove all the metal shards from my scrotum with a high powered magnet. The rust stains are nearly impossible to rub out, but itll be fun to ask one of my regulars to try :)
Lancelot
01-08-2012, 12:46 PM
In terms of addiction, I went thru similar phase but without as much money couldn't match bestofmyworld. BOMW, it's been a few months since you first posted this thread, has the urge abated?
Alexlim
01-08-2012, 01:36 PM
Lancy,
I'm not available right now hahaha
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mannykay
01-08-2012, 01:52 PM
I would contend that you're not addicted to the concept of punting per se, but rather the liberty and choice of fucking a different young girl at your choice whenever you feel like it.
I'd call that human biology.
Lancelot
01-08-2012, 01:52 PM
Lol, I think we are brothers from different mothers, dad must have been a punter. But seriously, love you photo gallery, I think it really adds value to the forum. Keep it up, and I don't just mean little Alex!
Lancelot
01-08-2012, 01:56 PM
I think mannykay has a good point, wasn't there one statistic about male lions being able to fuck X number of times a day with a whole bunch of different lionesses? Something about diversifying the gene pool to maximize species propagation and survival. All I can say is my SO knew how much I was fucking around, my "species" would be immediately become extinct!
mannykay
01-08-2012, 03:13 PM
Yeah I read about the experiment where male rat was put in a cage with a female rat for a prolonged amount of time (let's just call this.. oh I don't know...marriage). Initially the sex was flourishing, but suffered from a steady decline due to the male rat's sex drive waning. They then took out that female, and put in a new one. The male rat is once again ravenous, and fucks the shit out of her. They found that the sex drive of the male will remain consistently high as long as he has a constant new stock of females to breed with (promiscuity).
This happens with humans (ask married men and why they have no trouble punting with new young girls but lack the motivation to do their wives). Nesting with the same woman goes against our biological imperatives.
I'll put you in a scenario. If I put you in the Playboy Mansion, and you could fuck whoever and whenever as you please and you're satisfied, I would say that you're simply addicted to sex. If you still have an urge to pay these women, then you're addicted to punting.
It just so happens that going to brothels are the only means of you fulfilling your sex drive. But I think at your frequency and your reasoning there's probably a deeper psychological issue at bay here. Maybe you could be more specific as to which element of punting you're addicted to most? Maybe you yearn the human connection and attention WL's give you from the lack of it in your outside life.
I reckon if I was loaded with a bucket full of cash I would be addicted too. My life is in the shits at the moment. lol. But my financial situation does not allow me to frequent the brothels. It's a good deterrent.
If lack of money is the only thing that will stop you from punting, then that's the first thing you need to address.
Neorafter
02-08-2012, 11:37 AM
Buy an xbox 360. That helped me curb my punting. Now i only go max once a week. Though its probably easier for me since I live in the Hills district with fewer options than most.
Alexlim
03-08-2012, 02:12 AM
Now I got the reason for support my punt crawl. One of the medicines that I took when I had erection problem is boost up my hormone too much. My GP told me I could stop it now if I don't have problem currently.
Hehe. At least I know I am a normal horny guy... No "punt crawl" anymore. It's make me fucking tried.
For anyone who have problem like me, please check with your GP, it is better than take a lot of medicines and vitamin, they might crush in your body and make your hormone not balance.
AHLUNGOR
03-08-2012, 10:37 AM
Buy an xbox 360. That helped me curb my punting. Now i only go max once a week. Though its probably easier for me since I live in the Hills district with fewer options than most.
Haha, Hills District, no worry, for RnT, first stop Seven Hills i think there are at least three good shop!!
For FS, Blavktown 8 & 40 should be both very handy, you have plenty of options mate!!
We all go through phases. But it seems punting a few days a week is a bit much. I went through a stage to try new shops and new girls then it slowed down and saw the girls I liked then they would move on then I would move on. After a while the novelty wears off well in my case it did. I still like to punt and can not give it up. I can go for a while without it but still need my fix.
Try to find something to keep you busy. Sometimes going out with a mate for dinner and drinks can keep you out of trouble. Buy a new car on loan and repay it back. You get to have something to use and of value.
If its serious then you can get help.
Travelmate
03-08-2012, 11:44 AM
If its serious then you can get help.
Getting help from who??
wilisno
03-08-2012, 11:46 AM
Getting help from who??
From loan shark ?!?
Andyboy
03-08-2012, 01:45 PM
Or gambling tips from the guy who owns the MONA in tassie.
dannyboy
03-08-2012, 01:55 PM
Aren't we all addicted to punting, this is a forum dedicated to punting.. lol
Doctors should be able to refer you to some help thing or phychiatrist or whoever those people are to help your problems.
Punting is fun but no need to waste all your money on it. But hey we are all adults in this matter.
babelx
07-08-2012, 01:29 AM
you need to break the habit. Main thing is make it hard to get cash out. Get rid of cash card. IE you need to goto bank to get money!! Hopefully you don't use credit cards at brothels.
TheTiger
08-08-2012, 11:43 AM
Yuh .... I'm still deciding if I'm addicted.
bleachy
08-08-2012, 11:31 PM
i start to think i have this addictive issue too, last time was once/twice a month, and now to once/twice a week, need to reduce this, maybe spend my money on new gadgets would be better off...
bleachy
08-08-2012, 11:32 PM
one thing to do is stop visiting this forum and those website so you will not realize the new gals showing up in shops, it is tempting reading ARs...
jordan69
12-01-2019, 12:07 PM
In the last 3 weeks the longest I've ever gone without punting is 2 days and only because my wallet was empty.
I've spent over 2k in punting in the last 3 weeks. in terms of income its about 80%, 15% goes towards debts, 5% for spending. i work P/T night-shift but I'm getting hooked up with a daytime FT job. The only thing going through my head was that now i have enough money to punt 7-8+ times a week if i work both these jobs. Currently i punt about 4-5 days a week, but sometimes twice in one day and include doubles.
I've punted everyday since Friday except Sunday. About a month ago I've only had sex with 4 women in my life (all long-term relationships). Yesterday my count hit 21.
So how does a punting addict like myself cut down on the number of punts without resorting to porn?
Not sure whether it's a right time to bring this up again since the last posted was 2012. As this forum is quite healthy and some good advises from the brothers and some sisters, still hard to decide how many times weekly or monthly, I should punt? As I am increasing the quantity of punting recently.
Brothelcreeper
12-01-2019, 08:35 PM
Hands up.......I am addicted to punting.
Guilty as charged
rooter
13-01-2019, 01:58 PM
Punting should just be a hobby, a little vice, something you do for fun. Just like drinking, gambling, a line of coke etc
And that's all it is for most punters. But for some punters it goes beyond that ... it becomes an addiction.
If you are regularly punting more than 3 times a week, week after week, month after month, then you probably have some serious issues you need to deal with.
You are probably trying to compensate for something missing in your life, or have low self esteem, or have mental health problems etc.
And if in addition to non stop punting you are boasting and bragging non stop to strangers on a forum about paying for sex then your problems are even more serious.
Get some perspective and balance in your life.
Talk to your friends and family if you have them, or to your GP, or get on to one of these web sites.
Beyond Blue
https://www.beyondblue.org.au/
Men's Shed
https://mensshed.org/
Life Line
https://www.lifeline.org.au/
Mens Line
https://mensline.org.au/
Reach Out
https://au.reachout.com/
Life is a rich kaleidoscope of feelings, thoughts, emotions, friendships, relationships, adventures, and experiences ... and boring daily chores too.
Keep it varied and don't fixate on one thing (no matter how good it seems to feel at the time) and partake of the rich tapestry of life out there ... and in there ... Enjoy!
xboyx
13-01-2019, 11:26 PM
Punting should just be a hobby, a little vice, something you do for fun. Just like drinking, gambling, a line of coke etc
And that's all it is for most punters. But for some punters it goes beyond that ... it becomes an addiction.
If you are regularly punting more than 3 times a week, week after week, month after month, then you probably have some serious issues you need to deal with.
You are probably trying to compensate for something missing in your life, or have low self esteem, or have mental health problems etc.
And if in addition to non stop punting you are boasting and bragging non stop to strangers on a forum about paying for sex then your problems are even more serious.
Get some perspective and balance in your life.
Talk to your friends and family if you have them, or to your GP, or get on to one of these web sites.
Beyond Blue
https://www.beyondblue.org.au/
Men's Shed
https://mensshed.org/
Life Line
https://www.lifeline.org.au/
Mens Line
https://mensline.org.au/
Reach Out
https://au.reachout.com/
Life is a rich kaleidoscope of feelings, thoughts, emotions, friendships, relationships, adventures, and experiences ... and boring daily chores too.
Keep it varied and don't fixate on one thing (no matter how good it seems to feel at the time) and partake of the rich tapestry of life out there ... and in there ... Enjoy!
Are you not addicted to punting to a certain extent rooter? I think I am or at least I have a habit of going punting since I'm going 2-3 times every week. I just like the feeling of being with different beautiful girls, enjoying their companion and sex of course. But I am sure I can control it as I haven't got an urge for punting that I can't put off yet. It could get hard not to go punting sometimes I admit. It's not too difficult for me to reduce my punting if I need to cuz I can get myself busy with other things like work.
In another way, I do think that if I don't punt now, I will regret in 20 years time cuz at that time I'll be old and ugly and no beautiful girls want to fuck me so I'd rather do it now.
Climax598
14-01-2019, 12:02 AM
Are you not addicted to punting to a certain extent rooter? I think I am or at least I have a habit of going punting since I'm going 2-3 times every week. I just like the feeling of being with different beautiful girls, enjoying their companion and sex of course. But I am sure I can control it as I haven't got an urge for punting that I can't put off yet. It could get hard not to go punting sometimes I admit. It's not too difficult for me to reduce my punting if I need to cuz I can get myself busy with other things like work.
In another way, I do think that if I don't punt now, I will regret in 20 years time cuz at that time I'll be old and ugly and no beautiful girls want to fuck me so I'd rather do it now.
Beautiful girls will fuck you anytime even if you are 60, 70, 80+ if you have this $$$$$$$$$. So don't worry that no girls will fuck you, worry more if your manhood can holdup.
Brothelcreeper
14-01-2019, 08:11 AM
Beautiful girls will fuck you anytime even if you are 60, 70, 80+ if you have this $$$$$$$$$. So don't worry that no girls will fuck you, worry more if your manhood can holdup.
There is Viagra for a that
xboyx
14-01-2019, 05:52 PM
Beautiful girls will fuck you anytime even if you are 60, 70, 80+ if you have this $$$$$$$$$. So don't worry that no girls will fuck you, worry more if your manhood can holdup.
sure they'd fuck me regardless but there will be no connection between us as she wouldn't enjoy it as much as fucking me now
guerillacon
15-01-2019, 01:11 AM
I felt addicted at first but over time realised just jerking to porn was 90% as good when you take into account dud punts here and there which are a complete waste of time/money, and also having to use doms.
Raybo
15-01-2019, 02:58 PM
I felt addicted at first but over time realised just jerking to porn was 90% as good when you take into account dud punts here and there which are a complete waste of time/money, and also having to use doms.
i refrain from 'jerking to porn' these days but i still reckon my worst root was better than my best wank!! 😁😁😁
Pussyhands
15-01-2019, 03:18 PM
Wow yeah prob see a doctor to get a referral for addiction
After I have a decent punt, I don’t want to do the intimate stuff for a few days like 4 day or so.
From day 4-7 my urge builds a bit. I can go a month without punting but the last few weeks is messed up lols
I did 3-4 punts in 5 days and man the last 1-2 punts I just can’t be fuked lol
Porn only helps after a good punt. After a week without intimacy, porn does nothing :@
Dunno how you manage that much bro
Jactivate
16-01-2019, 08:18 PM
Don't worry OP, I feel your pain. I'm a once a day punter and it doesn't help that I live so close (30 second walk) to a well established shop.
I think my addiction has got to a point that I haven't watched porn in like over 2-3 years, just scroll on wechat... haha!
I'd personally don't see anything wrong with going often, just save up!
penisuheddo
16-01-2019, 10:50 PM
Arigato
I think so yes you are an addict
Some shops I think indeed attract more addicts
These shops where people know boss well and see every new girl
I know one friend who gets wechat announcement with new girls wechat from shop
And he has the photo also at this time
He is big regular and he spends his days planning the next sessions to this one shop
He is an addict and there are many like he at this shop
Drugs also but sex releases your own natural drugs inside your brain
I think so you much regulate your fun
I think also you should budget your finance and plan your visits
Plan specific days and not vary them
Plan specific budget and not vary the dollars
Also plan maximum time for each session and not stay overtime
This hobby can take over your life if addict just like drug
Yes
Assandlegs
17-01-2019, 10:06 AM
Don't worry OP, I feel your pain. I'm a once a day punter and it doesn't help that I live so close (30 second walk) to a well established shop.
I think my addiction has got to a point that I haven't watched porn in like over 2-3 years, just scroll on wechat... haha!
I'd personally don't see anything wrong with going often, just save up!Ha... I can relate to this.....
But I reckon if I lived as close to the shop as you do, it would probably be more than once a day... lol..
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exsing
17-01-2019, 11:57 AM
Punting is an expensive habit. I know. Spent a shit load of cash during a 2 year period and I kind of regret it. That money could have done a lot for me!
winboy
17-01-2019, 06:24 PM
I think the line is when it starts to affect your life away from punting, e.g., less time with family, friends, ...
DoMoSan
17-01-2019, 07:24 PM
Just like gambling...not a good addiction to have. It’s very financially draining.
Someone once said it’s not an addiction if you can afford it.
Back to the topic. It is all about control. Replace the urge with sometime else. Keep your mind pre occupied with perhaps some chores, movies or even exercise.
I’m glad to say that I have been away from gambling or punting since December of last year. So anything.. so keep your mind strong.
Also read that PSA that’s on the forum.. you will be glad you have kept away...
canscars
17-01-2019, 11:50 PM
The day I stop punt or sex is the day I die, haha.
GoodFella
18-01-2019, 05:16 PM
Most I've done is 5 punts a week and yeah, gets expensive real quick. Luckily its under control now
J3ffrey
29-01-2019, 07:39 PM
1. Do not go into debt (inc credit card)
2. Play within your means
3. Dont do it every day as it will loose its appeal and get very blazé about it
4. Do not get attached. Remember you are not their friend, even if you get some special treatment. You are a client and only ever will be.
5. Do not lie to go during work time
6. Stay healthy
Nice points to keep in mind, but like all addiction. Need to have self control.
Byron2001
03-02-2019, 11:29 PM
I started punting 10 years ago when I was 35 years of age in Thailand. I use to go punting for 1 week only per year. Then in mid 2017 I discovered this site and went crazy catching up on all those lost years where I've been missing out on beautiful Japanese, Korean, Vietnamese and Chinese girls and the odd Caucasian girl. Many of my sexual dreams have been fulfilled and I feel like I've had a complete life life now. Its a wonderful thing to touch a beautiful young woman...Lucky I can afford it and I'm just on the cusp of still being young.
Brothelcreeper
05-02-2019, 10:12 PM
I am addicted.....love the thrill of the chase. Seeing willing and beautiful girls in a line up, choosing my favourite one, kissing and fucking and orgasming with a beautiful sexy girl.......yep.....guilty as charged.
Brothelcreeper
05-02-2019, 10:15 PM
My scores below
1. Do not go into debt (inc credit card) - no debts
2. Play within your means - yep
3. Dont do it every day as it will loose its appeal and get very blazé about it - I like it everyday
4. Do not get attached. Remember you are not their friend, even if you get some special treatment. You are a client and only ever will be. - I like the attachment of a regular, fuck buddy, friend
5. Do not lie to go during work time - guilty as charged. "Just off to a meeting in the City" really means " just off to fuck a Chinese prostitute"
6. Stay healthy - Yes - one hour exercise every morning at 6am
A punt a day keeps the doctor away
guerillacon
06-02-2019, 12:40 AM
Housing affordability is down the shitter. Might have to give up not only avocados but also FS.
michaele
06-02-2019, 09:44 AM
Go to Thailand it’s cheaper.....
Fair dinkum
06-02-2019, 05:23 PM
Most I've done is 5 punts a week and yeah, gets expensive real quick. Luckily its under control now
Hi Goodfella, could you share your concepts of under control? Please pm me if inconvenience.
scanboy
06-03-2019, 03:34 PM
I try and not think about how much money I spent over the years
But sure I would have been able to buy something really expensive
Pussyhands
06-03-2019, 03:55 PM
Look up maslows hierarchy of need
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow%27s_hierarchy_of_needs#/media/File:Maslow%27s_hierarchy_of_needs.svg
At the most basic level sex is amongst food water shelter
scanboy
06-03-2019, 04:50 PM
I feel better now
The most I've done was 4 times in a week but that was in part due to having more free time than normal, the novelty of visiting a place for the 1st time, and having a bit of extra play money.
These days i try to only go once a month and normally with someone from my ever growing to-do list.
..otherwise i could see me blowing a lot of cash very quickly and having to live off 2min noodles lol
Raybo
06-03-2019, 05:59 PM
There are 20 questions in the 12 step programs that they often ask new member to determine if they are Alcoholics, drug addicts and or Compuslive Gamblers....the 20 questions from GA probably apply the most because the others have a physical side of the addiction.
1. Did you ever lose time from work or school due to punting?
2. Has punting ever made your home life unhappy?
3. Did punting affect your reputation?
4. Have you ever felt remorse after punting?
5. N/A
6. Did punting cause a decrease in your ambition or efficiency?
7. After an average or bad punt did you feel you must return as soon as possible to make up for it?
8. After a winfall did you have a strong urge to go punting?
9. Did you punt until your last available money was gone?
10. Did you ever borrow to finance your punting?
11. Have you ever sold anything to finance punting?
12. Were you reluctant to use "punting money" for normal expenditures?
13. Did punting make you careless of the welfare of yourself or your family?
14. Did you ever punt longer than you had planned?
15. Have you ever punt to escape worry, trouble, boredom, loneliness, grief or loss?
16. Have you ever committed, or considered committing, an illegal act to finance punting?
17. Did punting cause you to have difficulty in sleeping?
18. Do arguments, disappointments or frustrations create within you an urge to punt?
19. Did you ever have an urge to celebrate any good fortune by having a punt?
20. Have you ever considered self-destruction or suicide as a result of your punting?
Some of those questions seem harsh but if can say yes to 4 of them or more, chances are you are in the grip of a punting problem or dare i say an addiction. i easily answered yes to more than 4 and i am not what you would call a 'heavy' punter.
CunningLinguist
06-03-2019, 06:51 PM
9/20 for me, no wonder I'm on a punting forum ;)
waynekerr
06-03-2019, 07:31 PM
OK, I will have a crack at answering these honestly.
1. Did you ever lose time from work or school due to punting? Yes.
2. Has punting ever made your home life unhappy? Yes, but not for decades.
3. Did punting affect your reputation? No.
4. Have you ever felt remorse after punting? Not really, maybe a little in the beginning.
5. N/A
6. Did punting cause a decrease in your ambition or efficiency? No.
7. After an average or bad punt did you feel you must return as soon as possible to make up for it? No.
8. After a winfall did you have a strong urge to go punting? No.
9. Did you punt until your last available money was gone? No.
10. Did you ever borrow to finance your punting? No.
11. Have you ever sold anything to finance punting? No.
12. Were you reluctant to use "punting money" for normal expenditures? No.
13. Did punting make you careless of the welfare of yourself or your family? No.
14. Did you ever punt longer than you had planned? Yes, often.
15. Have you ever punt to escape worry, trouble, boredom, loneliness, grief or loss? No, except for my first punt - that's how my punting started.
16. Have you ever committed, or considered committing, an illegal act to finance punting? No.
17. Did punting cause you to have difficulty in sleeping? No. Sometimes the opposite in fact.
18. Do arguments, disappointments or frustrations create within you an urge to punt? No.
19. Did you ever have an urge to celebrate any good fortune by having a punt? No
20. Have you ever considered self-destruction or suicide as a result of your punting? No, certainly not.
I started punting before most of you guys were born I would venture to say. I do so because I love the variety.
For massage I love trying new shops, always looking for +++ service. For FS shops, I tend to stick to the few
that I know well although I am open to change.
So am I addicted? I don't think so but I am no psychologist.
WayneK.
woods23
06-03-2019, 07:40 PM
No.17 yes- I can't stopped thinking of her when I meet a very pretty girl nd we connected!
Usually lasted strongly for few days then after the second nd third times then it faded away slowly till I meet new girls again nd it starrt all over agsin :smile:
That's how I keep on punting it's a good feeling but it can also stress u out as well.
Brothelcreeper
06-03-2019, 09:49 PM
OK so Punterman will take the test.
1. Did you ever lose time from work or school due to punting? yes plenty
2. Has punting ever made your home life unhappy? Never
3. Did punting affect your reputation ? Not really sure what that means but I would say no
4. Have you ever felt remorse after punting? Not very often. Only about the money, not the punting
5. N/A
6. Did punting cause a decrease in your ambition or efficiency? No
7. After an average or bad punt did you feel you must return as soon as possible to make up for it? Yes
8. After a winfall did you have a strong urge to go punting? Yes
9. Did you punt until your last available money was gone? no
10. Did you ever borrow to finance your punting? no
11. Have you ever sold anything to finance punting? no
12. Were you reluctant to use "punting money" for normal expenditures? Yes
13. Did punting make you careless of the welfare of yourself or your family ? Yes to a degree as you are cheating on them
14. Did you ever punt longer than you had planned? yes
15. Have you ever punt to escape worry, trouble, boredom, loneliness, grief or loss? yes
16. Have you ever committed, or considered committing, an illegal act to finance punting? no
17. Did punting cause you to have difficulty in sleeping? no
18. Do arguments, disappointments or frustrations create within you an urge to punt? No
19. Did you ever have an urge to celebrate any good fortune by having a punt? not really
20. Have you ever considered self-destruction or suicide as a result of your punting? No
Some of those questions seem harsh but if can say yes to 4 of them or more, chances are you are in the grip of a punting problem or dare i say an addiction. i easily answered yes to more than 4 and i am not what you would call a 'heavy' punter.[/QUOTE]
Raybo
07-03-2019, 09:21 AM
Those questions are just a guide and i re-worded them to relate to punting. Ultimately it is the punter that has to make the decision that punting and to a greater extent 'sex' is creating problems in their lives.
i would guess the vast majority of punters are okay, even those punting a lot. By no means am I saying it is bad or people shouldn't punt, just don't let it control our lives. So many good girls and times to be had and life is short! There are also lots of other truly wonderful things we can do, even in our everyday lives!
Perhaps making some slight adjustments if you feel it is getting out of hand like taking up other hobbies and stick to your punting plan/budget. perhaps some can spend their $150 or $240 on a therapist or counsellor next time instead of a punt, just to be able to talk with a professional about it. Apart from here, most punters don't have any outlet to talk about punting at a truly peraonal level.
penisuheddo
07-03-2019, 04:15 PM
Arigato
Addiction is easy to know
If it interrupt your daily life
If it interrupt your other habit
It it is priority planning your life around your addiction
Then needing help before the disaster
Can you stop for one day
Can you stop for one week
An you stop for one month
If no then Yes
Addiction
scanboy
07-03-2019, 04:18 PM
I’m in trouble lol
scanboy
07-03-2019, 04:19 PM
Is there are group called punters anonymous
Raybo
07-03-2019, 05:13 PM
nah but there is Sex Addicts Anonymous. i dare suspect you would find punters there. They have these 12 questions to help you determine if you are a 'sex addict'.
http://www.saa-sydney.org/am-i-a-sex-addict
scanboy
07-03-2019, 05:17 PM
Thanks Raybo
Interesting read
nah but there is Sex Addicts Anonymous. i dare suspect you would find punters there. They have these 12 questions to help you determine if you are a 'sex addict'.
http://www.saa-sydney.org/am-i-a-sex-addict
Raybo
07-03-2019, 05:39 PM
Thanks Raybo
Interesting read
questions 1, 3, 4, 5, 8, 10 and 11 really make me think........but answering yes to one apparently makes me a potential candidate.
scanboy
07-03-2019, 06:40 PM
questions 1, 3, 4, 5, 8, 10 and 11 really make me think........but answering yes to one apparently makes me a potential candidate.
Apparently the first part of recovery is admitting your are a addict
I’m not ready to that
Having to much fun
Climax598
07-03-2019, 06:40 PM
If you follow the test every dick and harry will be having sex addiction. We are all human being man and woman think of sex. If we don't think of sex we won't get married and have children. Is just how much sex you need each day or week that determines if you are a sex addicts. If you don't have self control than you might be a sex addicts.
dotcumdotinyou
07-03-2019, 10:23 PM
Most of the questions would be a yes from me but I don't think I'm addicted.
I would punt less than a golfing tragic would ruin a good walk.
And waynekerr unless you started punting before 77 you wouldn't pre date me...ahhh the memories of being milked for the check prior to BBFS with creampie...now that's the good ol days you young whipper snapper (now I need a swig of me rheumatis medicine).
the_boss_king
08-03-2019, 12:40 AM
Get a gf and a side chcik hahahahaha
waynekerr
08-03-2019, 04:00 PM
And waynekerr unless you started punting before 77 you wouldn't pre date me...ahhh the memories of being milked for the check prior to BBFS with creampie...now that's the good ol days you young whipper snapper (now I need a swig of me rheumatis medicine).
Sadly I pre-date you by a good few years (sob). By 1977 I was a well seasoned punter and yes they certainly
were good days.
I mentioned being a long time punter in my post to show that despite this I still feel that punting for me is not
an addiction but more of a pastime. Hope we are both still punting for a long while yet.
WayneK.
Oppaiaddict
09-03-2019, 09:04 AM
You're not alone man...
I'm punting 1-2 times a week
Because my income is not a big money
The problem is when im stress or happy
I'm always going to brothel
Some like ginza, or sometime going to cheap brothel where i have good relationship with my regular
But its better than gambling, i spent more than 6k only in 3-4 months, when my income is 1k a week (before pay my Bill)
Niceguy11
10-03-2019, 12:15 PM
Im an addict also, I punt when im happy, i punt when im depress, and i punt when im bored, the point is i always find a reason to punt, its never enough, and i've been doing this for over 10yrs, while im in a relationship,Yes its an expensive problem, but i rather punt than gamble at the casino or take drugs. on average i punt 3 or 4 times per week also, bestofmyworld bro, i dont think you can stop punting, ever !!!
I am in the exact same boat as you. I'm not seeing new girls as I like to see my regulars but still, I'm going around 3 - 4 times per week. I'm not saying I'm rich or anything, just that I can punt when I want. But yeah, punting is bloody addictive.
cuteguy
10-03-2019, 03:10 PM
I am in the exact same boat as you. I'm not seeing new girls as I like to see my regulars but still, I'm going around 3 - 4 times per week. I'm not saying I'm rich or anything, just that I can punt when I want. But yeah, punting is bloody addictive.
You're seeing the same girls but is it because you're physically attracted to them or their personalised service? Sometimes girls will give their contact details to draw you in. In most cases, there is a financial motive. It's not because they like you but they want to keep you as a regular customer so beware. Hopefully, you will see the benefits of seeing other girls.
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