WL Tipping Update

[Abracadabra]

Yep, apologies, I know this has been covered previously, but I'm interested in a latest update in relation to WLs tipping.

Personally, up until earlier this year, I was a bit of an indiscriminate WL tipper, through appreciating what the majority of girls do in servicing us motley crew... $50 if I had a good/reasonable time and enjoyed myself to an okay extent, only excluding the duds.

The $50s add up and I changed 5 months ago to a $50 tip only if I felt the WL had some "when can I see you again" drawcard or an out and out wow factor!

Not as many tips these days....some, but not as many and the WLs do notice.

Am I being stingy??
How do you punters approach this?

[jasng90]

Not stingy..$50 imho is perfect.

[birch]

agreed. If we're doing it tough just think how many of the ML's are doing?

[GoldfishMan]

Well, my tipping situation is a bit complicated.

It really depends on the dish. If it's kimchi or sweet n sour pork, I only tip if it was an exceptionally good dish or I got something "extra" added. And for a very long time now, I haven't had any exceptionally good kimchi or sweet n sour pork.

If it was sushi, I only tip to get upgraded to sashimi. Never for any other reason. As yet I have not had any sushi that warranted a tip simply because it was exceptionally good sushi.

[Abracadabra]

Well, my tipping situation is a bit complicated.

It really depends on the dish. If it's kimchi or sweet n sour pork, I only tip if it was an exceptionally good dish or I got something "extra" added. And for a very long time now, I haven't had any exceptionally good kimchi or sweet n sour pork.

If it was sushi, I only tip to get upgraded to sashimi. Never for any other reason. As yet I have not had any sushi that warranted a tip simply because it was exceptionally good sushi.

Esoteric but clear!

[faruk]

Never tip these girls because once you start, they see you as an ATM.

In my experience the sessions are much more genuine if you don't tip. What I mean is repeat business is more than good enough. Repeat business without tipping generates a more girlfriend experience from these girls. They appreciate you visiting them again. But as soon as you tip, the relationship turns into a more direct financial one where they start to think (subconsciously or consciously) that they can hit you up for more cash.

[11Bravo]

My question is: why tip, financially?

On the initial visit:
Case 1: She's a one-n-done. You can say "thank you", but why tip? All parties have agreed and accepted the price. What are you paying extra for? Gratitude? Guilt? She's moved to the history column.
Case 2: You know she'll join your pitching rotation. Let her know. But why tip? MY experience, on subsequent visits, the price you've paid will be the understood price for ALL subsequent visits. On the return, she WILL expect the SAME price, INCLUDING tip. And why not? Paid once, why are you now shortchanging her for a similar service? Has she already diminished in your eyes? She won't say anything but that disappointment will linger and potentially fester. Flip of the coin: on your next visit, does she work harder for a tip, or does she just coast as the effort is not worth it? My attitude is why foster expectations that might not be met unless you are going to tip her EVERY time.
Case 3: She has potential, so you will return for another interview. So why tip? Return and apply Case 1 or Case 2.

I agree with faruk. MY tip is ALWAYS return business. To the smart ones, that's money in the bank.

In the cases I have paid extra (you say tip, I say raise), I consider that a salary raise that will be paid EVERY visit because she's earned the raise with exceptional service. But then I'm not a white knight nor CentreLink.

[faruk]

My question is: why tip, financially?

On the initial visit:
Case 1: She's a one-n-done. You can say "thank you", but why tip? All parties have agreed and accepted the price. What are you paying extra for? Gratitude? Guilt? She's moved to the history column.
Case 2: You know she'll join your pitching rotation. Let her know. But why tip? MY experience, on subsequent visits, the price you've paid will be the understood price for ALL subsequent visits. On the return, she WILL expect the SAME price, INCLUDING tip. And why not? Paid once, why are you now shortchanging her for a similar service? Has she already diminished in your eyes? She won't say anything but that disappointment will linger and potentially fester. Flip of the coin: on your next visit, does she work harder for a tip, or does she just coast as the effort is not worth it? My attitude is why foster expectations that might not be met unless you are going to tip her EVERY time.
Case 3: She has potential, so you will return for another interview. So why tip? Return and apply Case 1 or Case 2.

I agree with faruk. MY tip is ALWAYS return business. To the smart ones, that's money in the bank.

In the cases I have paid extra (you say tip, I say raise), I consider that a salary raise that will be paid EVERY visit because she's earned the raise with exceptional service. But then I'm not a white knight nor CentreLink.

That's a very important point I forgot about. Once you tip them, the expectation is set. If you tip them $50, they will expect that the next visit. If you don't tip they will wonder why and even think you're a cheapskate - for paying what you're only obliged to pay! It's human nature, once you set their expectations you can't go down from there.

But my first point was mainly about how they perceive you. If you keep returning as a regular, they give better service which most likely is gfe. But once you give them cold hard cash, they start to think of ways to manipulate you for more. This is speaking from years and years of punting experience.

Bottom line is do not tip - if you really want to reward them, just return as a regular.

[Johny77]

Pay for the service provided and what you have agreed to. No need to go further. If you start tipping above what was agreed, be prepared to pay that, each and every time. Just remember, it’s business to them. You are just a number. Do you tip your barista for providing you the coffee you ordered?

[GoldfishMan]

Pay for the service provided and what you have agreed to. No need to go further. If you start tipping above what was agreed, be prepared to pay that, each and every time. Just remember, it’s business to them. You are just a number. Do you tip your barista for providing you the coffee you ordered?

Not the barista but I have tipped lots of wait staff at restaurants. Not much, a couple of bucks spare change.

Speaking of that, when you tip wait staff, that's a REAL tip because it is given with nothing expected in return. You might never return to the restaurant, for example.

When punters tip a WG, that to me is not a real tip. They will most likely return and expect better service. Or as I said, some girls give extra "something" during the sesh and the tip is just payment for that.

I don't think there are any punters silly enough to tip a WG and never return to see her again or got something special from her. What's the point?

[JJBlows]

why the fuck you guys tipping for??
you only tip if the girl really does a extra outside of her normal servive for you but just for the basics of going and getting a HE or fuck at a brothel you should not be tipping period.

[Hedonisticfun]

why the fuck you guys tipping for??
you only tip if the girl really does a extra outside of her normal servive for you but just for the basics of going and getting a HE or fuck at a brothel you should not be tipping period.

oh contraire , I have no problem tipping and have generously ! Have usually had outcall escorts but recently gone to R&T and brothels as well . Standard of services naturally vary but once I find a winner I have no problem giving a little extra , especially the incall premises , I can*t believe the service provided for so cheap a price , so I have no problem tipping a $100 -$200 for service provided and still below an outcall . The outcall regulars was tipping but now being regulars , have resorted to small gifts .. the $600 - $1000 fee is sufficient plus being regulars says it all .