Do I need to specify no BBBJ?

[Sendmetheacti]

Looking at some of these reports it seems that BBBJ is almost 'standard' now. I'm still worried about STDs, and so want to stick to just covered stuff, no DATY, no DFK. Just super safe, covered stuff.

But I'm worried that a girl that doesn't speak much English and is just going through the motions will just go ahead and do a BBJ. is that a thing or is it normally something you need to request?

anyone have any experience of a girl just going ahead and doing something they're not 100% comfortable with?

It's odd because I'm a bit of a sub guy so, a fantasy of mine is to kind of have a girl 'force' it on me, but I really don't want it when thinking with my head top-head.

[Johny77]

Hi mate,

As they are approaching your little man and you are not yet dommed up, just ask for the condom. Or bring your own and put it in before the bj, so that the girl is aware. Otherwise, if it’s the sort of place that offers it as standard, she will go for it without asking.

[woodland]

A few times I did this, the Japanese girl got offended

[11Bravo]

Go buy some flavored condoms and tell her these are special for her.

[yellow_sub]

A few times I did this, the Japanese girl got offended

Offended? Because cbj costs less?

[11Bravo]

Offended? Because cbj costs less?

Or maybe she thought the punter was thinking she was "unclean".

[woodland]

Or maybe she thought the punter was thinking she was "unclean".

this. and then its hard to explain given the language barrier

[GoldfishMan]

I always think, if you're gonna go to a brothel and do completely covered service including CBJ, why don't you just put on a Dom and jerk yourself off to some porn? If you also crave the body heat of another human being, just chuck in a hot water bottle somewhere in your routine.

Why waste the money?

I mean, if you can actually cum from this type of experience, that must mean that you really like the feeling of having your dick in a condom, or it at least does something to get you going.

Maybe you can try doing this and see if it helps you save some money?

No shame in it if you can save money and still get your kicks, bro.

[Sendmetheacti]

I always think, if you're gonna go to a brothel and do completely covered service including CBJ, why don't you just put on a Dom and jerk yourself off to some porn? If you also crave the body heat of another human being, just chuck in a hot water bottle somewhere in your routine.

Why waste the money?

I mean, if you can actually cum from this type of experience, that must mean that you really like the feeling of having your dick in a condom, or it at least does something to get you going.

Maybe you can try doing this and see if it helps you save some money?

No shame in it if you can save money and still get your kicks, bro.

Mostly its not wanting to bring anything back home.
That said, dead bedroom at home so it's possible nothing will transfer either way.

[GoldfishMan]

Mostly its not wanting to bring anything back home.
That said, dead bedroom at home so it's possible nothing will transfer either way.

Fair enough, but I hope you realise that you need to have an erect dick before you put the condom on, otherwise you're exposing yourself to risks associated with misuse of the condom.

If the CBJ starts with a fully limp package, the only person being protected completely is her. You're on the bad end of the stick because there would be an imperfect seal at the base. That means all her saliva and spit can go under the condom and onto your bare skin.