Try new girl or old favourite

[River]

Does anyone else have this problem ?

On my budget I can afford to punt maybe once a week. I have a few favourites that my go to rotation that ranges from $150 to 200 per punt. Mainly massage rather than FS.

The dilemma I always have reading all the reviews is the trade-off between trying someone new for novelty vs going back to one of the 5 ladies that I already know have amazing service.

[trampslikeus55]

Does anyone else have this problem ?

On my budget I can afford to punt maybe once a week. I have a few favourites that my go to rotation that ranges from $150 to 200 per punt. Mainly massage rather than FS.

The dilemma I always have reading all the reviews is the trade-off between trying someone new for novelty vs going back to one of the 5 ladies that I already know have amazing service.
I think you justed need to ask yourself if you are happy with your regulars. If your answer is yes then you do not have a problem, you are creating a problem. If the answer is no, then you really don't have regulars, just girls you see. And again, you don't have a problem. Just a punting habit 😎

[BornHoNam]

This is a question for u to decide, if your mind saying something u like to haven't try then i go for the new girl, it is the saying if you haven't tried you will never know, Fear of the Unknown

If u prefer a old time favorite then u know it will be same as usually conversation etc etc but there could be some rewards at the end FOC.

A males mind is full of surprises and curiosity thinking what will happen tomorrow. U could tell yourself you haven't fulfill my ultimate desires and hold a jar full of regrets if u haven't explore the WWW of punting.

This is my thought

Go and conquer the WWW of man desire and enjoy the moment

[hadog]

This is my never ending struggle.

Sometimes its wanting the new shiny, other times I want something I know what I am going to get.

I guess it all comes to personal preference, mix it up. I'd never say stick to the regulars but try what excites you, and if you have a dud you have the regular to fall back on to get the taste out of your mouth.

Its all a numbers game, lady luck will be with you some days, and others will laugh as a 90yo Grannie wanders out. I'm hoping its not that latter.

[JSteel96]

If your happy with the service from your 5 regulars why change? You may not like the service from another girl as much. Stick to regulars.

[GoldfishMan]

Does anyone else have this problem ?

On my budget I can afford to punt maybe once a week. I have a few favourites that my go to rotation that ranges from $150 to 200 per punt. Mainly massage rather than FS.

The dilemma I always have reading all the reviews is the trade-off between trying someone new for novelty vs going back to one of the 5 ladies that I already know have amazing service.

I too have 5 regulars... On my right hand, lol!

But seriously, I hear you bro. Sometimes I regret not trying someone new, sometimes I try someone new and regret not sticking to one of my regulars.
What can you do? Lol...

[11Bravo]

Try new girl or old favourite Mix and match. 1 month: 3x1 or 2x2. Just rotate 1 regular out each month for someone new, then a different regular the next month.

[triedforonce]

I used to stick to my regular, and then she stopped working and i tried different girls and shops... And then realized how i missed a lot of different girls... Different style, nationality, etc. The key is doing your research and stick to reputable shops. If the girl really good, i usually come back after a while, but not more than 3 times so far...

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[gco0307]

I generally find that I will change, even if not simply to find what else is out and around.

I do have a few regulars but will also explore options as sometimes I find myself getting a little bored or not getting the same level of 'experience' the longer I see the same ML.

Sometimes the exploration will turn up something worth repeating, other times I ask myself why did I not go to my regular but that is also part of the fun and you may well find a new regular

[Double_Adapter]

Does anyone else have this problem ?

On my budget I can afford to punt maybe once a week. I have a few favourites that my go to rotation that ranges from $150 to 200 per punt. Mainly massage rather than FS.

The dilemma I always have reading all the reviews is the trade-off between trying someone new for novelty vs going back to one of the 5 ladies that I already know have amazing service.

Early signs of the FOMO disease. Increase your rotation count from 5 to 6-7

[paranoidpunter]

I have old favs I want to see, and new girls I want to try. The problem is not enough time and money.

[frisson]

Mix and match. 1 month: 3x1 or 2x2. Just rotate 1 regular out each month for someone new, then a different regular the next month.
I like this post
Do others also find it gets boring with the same lady if they have no imagination and just go through the same old, same old routine

But this approach sounds like a good idea

[Mitch97]

I will usually try new girls, although I am usually very picky

[todawac]

When you have a regular it is because they either have a set routine that you enjoy coming back for or you just enjoy her body type more than anyone else. I tried mix n match before during the $150/hr days but it starts to get really boring because you'll start liking certain body types than others and you'd wish to keep seeing that one regular.

Those who need variety are usually those who haven't tried them all yet and are curious. I had a Chinese friend who will only go for Chinese or Korean WLs, he wouldn't even go near a Japanese WL. Really strange but maybe it reminds him more of the girls he's used to, plus speaking the same language and having similar cultures is a preference most guys go to when seeing WLs.

[Soton]

Checked out now

[schloong]

I will stick with my regular thanks. We get along really well & seem to enjoy each other's company. Certainly makes a big difference to this litle black duck...

[begov94]

When a regular suddenly stopped working you wonder if you should wait for her or give up.

Long time ago I had a really good regular who suddenly disappeared from roster and reappeared one year later. She did mention travelling around the world before disappearing first time. Didn't mind it as I wasn't attached to her but when she reappear and totally remembers me and what moves I liked after that whole year disappearing, I wonder if she was waiting for me to pop the serious question... Didn't get the chance as she disappeared again and never returned.

Then I had another regular from last year. Gave me BBFS for free since our first session, told me she's going to the US for a month before coming back, saw her again as she came back then suddenly disappeared again. I also wondered if she was waiting for me to pop a serious question.

This year met a really nice girl, we became FWBs and had really great sex each time. Thinking of previous experiences I thought maybe I should pop the question early. She rejected but insisted on maintaining FWB relationship. Now she's disappeared for months without any indication of returning. I'm thinking of giving up looking for her and hopefully she reappears months or a year later.

At the moment not really sure which girl to choose from when punting. Tried a few 2 months ago, every single one of them suggesting that I should see them regularly for some reason. Feels heavy to comply with their suggestions as the sex isn't as great as with my last FWB and I don't really want to recycle experiences of girls going out of their norm showing me good times then suddenly disappearing.

[11Bravo]

...and I don't really want to recycle experiences of girls going out of their norm showing me good times then suddenly disappearing.Oh, so you don't want her to have her own life, independent of you. Gee, here I though Australia did away with kings... No empathy here.

[bummer]

Does anyone else have this problem ?

On my budget I can afford to punt maybe once a week. I have a few favourites that my go to rotation that ranges from $150 to 200 per punt. Mainly massage rather than FS.

The dilemma I always have reading all the reviews is the trade-off between trying someone new for novelty vs going back to one of the 5 ladies that I already know have amazing service.

My question to you is quite simple (though the answer wont be....)

WHY DO YOU PUNT ?

Answer in a few simple sentences and lets move along from there ...

[begov94]

Oh, so you don't want her to have her own life, independent of you. Gee, here I though Australia did away with kings... No empathy here.

Sounds more like somebody's happy I didn't go out looking for another regular. Because according to the last 2 months of interaction, even seeing another WL once warranted a big argument.

Kings? Sounds like someone isn't informed about the sad state of modern day monarchy. Some monarchs are made not just born you know. They have to serve their people unlike politicians who can sit on pedestals for 4 years regardless of whether they fulfill promises or not.

And what happens if I say she can be independent all she wants? Then suddenly she does a 360° and start guilt tripping me for not caring about her. For not being constantly worried about her wellbeing?

If you want to have some free time before getting serious, just say so. If I was like every other men you see at work I wouldn't even have this conversation here for the past 2 months.


P/S: saw you checking out the Regular MLs for 2023 thread. Jealous I was asking about other girls?

[Backdraft69]

I like to try new girls as I love exploring new shops but also I eventually go back to a favourite girl who I know will provide the excellent service I look for.

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[11Bravo]

Sounds more like somebody's happy I didn't go out looking for another regular. Because according to the last 2 months of interaction, even seeing another WL once warranted a big argument.
You talking to me? Believe me, I couldn't care less about what you do. Interaction? With who? Your imaginary gf? That AIN'T me, bucko.


Kings?
Kingly attitude, as in they're the center of the universe. If the girl skates on you, without maintaining contact, that's INTENTIONAL. And with your posts, it's really NOT a mystery.


And what happens if I say she can be independent all she wants? Then suddenly she does a 360° and start guilt tripping me for not caring about her. For not being constantly worried about her wellbeing? Seems to me you have a poor understanding of good marketing and tactics of keeping a fish on the line. And it's just not only you she's "going out of her norm" with.


If you want to have some free time before getting serious, just say so. If I was like every other men you see at work I wouldn't even have this conversation here for the past 2 months.YOU TALKING TO ME? WTF. Is this another incarnation of todawac?


P/S: saw you checking out the Regular MLs for 2023 thread. Jealous I was asking about other girls?Gee, I'm flattered big boy that you're following me, but you obviously have me confused with someone else. My advice, seriously, go out and find a REAL gf, not a ML, not a WG, but a civilian gf and find out what a real relationship is. Because with P4P, it's BUSINESS.


Tried a few 2 months ago, every single one of them suggesting that I should see them regularly for some reason.Here's THE reason: It's a steady income. Duh!

[begov94]

11Bravo,

You're either a real life idiot that just logged onto this account and posted the comment at 10.11pm or you're pretending to be a real life idiot.

You obviously know something about me and used the "Gee, here I though Australia did away with kings..." phrase to have a diss at me.

I'm no king, never was. But I'm using your own words against you, and see how you reacted? Like a kid who's too short to go on a rollercoaster ride.

You talk about "civilian GF". Do you even know what that is? You don't even know what the word "civil" means in the first place. Look at all your posts - nothing but personal attacks and sarcasm. Like someone who's supposed to be in prison for being a dick.

Even a waiter and a builder is doing their job for steady income, but it doesn't mean they can't have a beer with their clients or even start a relationship with them if they're keen on each other. You're nothing but an immature idiot if you have to talk like that, and you have no right to tell others how they should behave if your mouth is filled with nothing but dogshit.

If you were to actually land yourself in jail for whatever reason, the inmates will have a good time exploring your arse the same way you purportedly explored WLs as if they're just a flesh toy because of your foul mouth. Don't drop the bloody soap now.

[ScotPassingThrough]

11Bravo,

You're either a real life idiot that just logged onto this account and posted the comment at 10.11pm or you're pretending to be a real life idiot.

You obviously know something about me and used the "Gee, here I though Australia did away with kings..." phrase to have a diss at me.

I'm no king, never was. But I'm using your own words against you, and see how you reacted? Like a kid who's too short to go on a rollercoaster ride.

You talk about "civilian GF". Do you even know what that is? You don't even know what the word "civil" means in the first place. Look at all your posts - nothing but personal attacks and sarcasm. Like someone who's supposed to be in prison for being a dick.

Even a waiter and a builder is doing their job for steady income, but it doesn't mean they can't have a beer with their clients or even start a relationship with them if they're keen on each other. You're nothing but an immature idiot if you have to talk like that, and you have no right to tell others how they should behave if your mouth is filled with nothing but dogshit.

If you were to actually land yourself in jail for whatever reason, the inmates will have a good time exploring your arse the same way you purportedly explored WLs as if they're just a flesh toy because of your foul mouth. Don't drop the bloody soap now.

Oh look, it’s JJ having a continuing mental breakdown

Take your meds

[11Bravo]

You talk about "civilian GF". Do you even know what that is? Yes.


Look at all your posts - nothing but personal attacks and sarcasm. Well, yes, I do take pride in being known as the Professor Kingsfield of SEVERAL forums. And I keep my reports for the Big Boys thread, not for the JV's.


Like someone who's supposed to be in prison for being a dick. ...because of your foul mouth
You obviously DON'T understand what a forum is, free speech and all that. Here, you don't get a medal for showing up. And if your self-esteem is that fragile that you need approbation rather than criticism, you've come to the wrong place. Foul mouth? You have obviously never been in a flame war, which this is NOT.


If you want to have some free time before getting serious, just say so. If I was like every other men you see at work I wouldn't even have this conversation here for the past 2 months. I'm being very civil, you're the one saying I was sending secret messages. You should improve your understanding of the correct use of pronouns (you vs she). Better refold that tinfoil hat and add a few more layers...


I can keep creating new accounts every time I get banned and change IPs. But this time I'm in no mood for chasing - I'll just sit back, relax and enjoy minimal banter.I'd say tanquam ex ungue leonem but you are no lion, just a little kitty... but, unfortunately, oh so recognizable. BTW, how's your Karma?

https://despair.com/products/persistence

[begov94]

11Bravo,

Trying to show you know some sort of Latin and having "pride" over your stupidity doesn't make you smart you know.

Like I said, you're a kid that's just too short for the rollercoaster ride. Instead of accepting the fact you need to wait another year to grow taller, you try becoming a "professor Kingsfield" or whatever that's supposed to mean to explain to the organiser why you should be allowed to ride the rollercoaster at your height.

So... Who's the little kitty now? The person copy-pasting big boy words conjured from the internet? It took you literally an hour to come up with such comeback.

I know that exact same tactic used by people who tries "proving a point", only to hope that someone will understand the opposite meaning of it.

If you want a banter, make sure you don't chicken out first and suddenly decide to hit the "ban" button. You said it yourself in another post, you see these arguments as banter.

By the way, my karma is getting better in the financial side. More money coming in as I purified my finance related karma. Relationship wise it's getting there. I've been given visions to stop punting and reflect on the people I may have hurt in the past whether intentionally or unintentionally. The rise of regret also helps to purify these karmas greatly.

[11Bravo]

Trying to show you know some sort of Latin ... Learned that story in University and I will admit Google helped with the Latin, but I'm actually quite good in forming search queries. (I've written "how to search" both here and over on the international side. BTW, make sure you put on your big boy pants before you venture over there.) And yes, I do take pride in THOSE contributions. What contributions can you point to? Whining doesn't count nor does trying to coax the girls (plural, that does hurt) that dumped you back.


"Professor Kingsfield" Please, the capital P is so appropriate. Google is your friend when confronted with unfamiliar references. "Here's a dime..."


It took you literally an hour to come up with such comeback... used by people who tries... I am impressed, you can tell time AND do subtraction. On the other hand, I have other things to do than just sit glued to the forum.. That's the drawback of living in the REAL world, with REAL people. And I do proofread (a dying art for sure) my posts before posting. BTW: "people" is considered plural and so requires the correct form of the verb, the s is singular. English, my mother tongue, I love it.


If you want a banter, make sure you don't chicken out first and suddenly decide to hit the "ban" button. You said it yourself in another post, you see these arguments as banter.The trouble with the ban button is that posts still show up when quoted by another ("the horror, the horror"), but it's my bedtime because I do need my sleep, booking tomorrow, and it's not with "Mother Thumb and her 4 daughters". It's with a real live woman; hey, maybe one of your "missing"...

[begov94]

I wonder if you actually giggle while typing all this like someone I know... The person I'm "missing" as you pointed out.

University... The place millions of people go to so that they become dumber rather than smarter.

The capital letter only applies to people who deserve respect from showing civility. In fact, in exception to Thailand and several Asian countries you can use small letters to denominate a monarch and no one will get offended. Demanding to be denominated using capital letters is like a Chihuahua trying to pass itself as a Rottweiler.

What's with the all capitals for the word REAL? It's like you're trying to tell me that you're not living in a real world with real people. Kinda sad, unlike you I do empathize with you.

Goodnight. Someone's mother thumb and four daughters would've helped get you off, there's no shame in admitting that you often get yourself off when alone at home. I caught a flatmate once jerking off, he forgot to lock his doors and I can see him covered in his quilt shaking like an earthworm trying to wriggle out of the ground. His face turned red when myself and a friend talked about it.

[River]

Great suggestion. Thanks


Mix and match. 1 month: 3x1 or 2x2. Just rotate 1 regular out each month for someone new, then a different regular the next month.

[11Bravo]

Great suggestion. Thanks

You see, I practice what I preach. This week game schedule (3/3 split):

Sunday: Regular
Monday: New
Tuesday: New
Wednesday: New (was going to see a regular, but needed a more relaxing day, so went new). Regular is on for next Wednesday.
Thursday: Regular
Friday: Regular (well, she was a regular last time I was BOTG, haven't seen her since this time's BOTG, so she's scheduled)
Saturday: holiday

Obviously some heavy lifting, but the holidays do curtail excursions so busy THIS week. With regulars, I know what they provide; for the new, it's just the fun of exploration. Also, due to the upcoming holidays, wanted to get in some auditions while I could as there seems to be some flux with the ladies. One I was looking forward to seeing last week, had to cancel, and now she has disappeared from that shop's roster (temporarily or permanently, time will tell). So lesson re-learned: you snooze you loose. One new is trying out new shops, and the other seems to also be in flux. But once you have the contact info, no problem, you can find out where she is working these days, and book direct (PERSONAL experience).

Sunday: holiday
Monday: holiday
Tuesday: holiday
Wednesday: Last BOTG's Regular to be booked
Thursday: TBD
Friday: Last BOTG's Regular to be booked
Saturday: holiday

Yes, still trying to catch up with my last BOTG's regulars and the two above will complete the circuit. You do have to pay your respects. Plus a few more to audition for the pitching rotation.

And a bit of a heads-up; another reason for the cram sessions. Chinese New Year is coming up. Some Chinese MIGHT be going home for the holiday. Perhaps not as many as last year's easing of Covid travel restrictions, but, still... (again, personal experience: one I messaged to book said great, but first I'd need a plane ticket to China). But as I've said MANY times, IF you have her contact info, easy peasy.

[Bigleaf]

For me it is the thrill of meeting someone new. I enjoy the chat, the emotions, and the thrill of it. I'll only see a girl again if we form a really good connection the first time round.

[gundamsux]

When I have time I like to explore new girls, the excitement from the unknown keeps my heart racing. But when I’m tired and don’t have the energy, I see my regulars who know just exactly what I want and they go to town. The things my regulars allow me do to blow off steam, I would never expect them from new ML I meet. Took a lot time (and money ofc) to build trust.

[CarpetJam]

There is just something nice about a regular