Someone

[JohnJones]

A few years ago I met this girl. She gave me one of the best orgasm I've ever experienced. Unfortunately I was only able to spend one night with her, later on she avoided me and disappeared.

My lesson learned isn't about the sex, the orgasm or what ticked the girl off. It was about the bliss that lasted the whole night.

In my recent sexual experiences I was able to finally replicate that bliss. As it was about to drift away and disappear in the morning I held onto that bliss and kept it lasting the whole day without even masturbating, punting or even thinking about sex.

My point is that I am at the stage of no more learning - I have achieved the clear light of bliss.

I have a teacher who taught me how to accomplish that clear light of bliss - through lifetimes of spreading kindness and compassion, purifying negative emotions and challenging our fears of being used by others.

The bliss that envelops me now allows me to live life being less lazy, less sad, less angry and much more kinder. There is a certain someone who I would like to meet again in the future if they allow me, they gave me the opportunity to practice kindness without expecting anything in return. I would like to continue showing kindness towards this person. And no, this person isn't that girl who gave me that one night orgasm years ago.

I told that person I would wait for them until they returned, no matter how long it takes. Because even if I die before they returned, I can remain in heaven and choose to take rebirth in the same life as their next life. Because the clear light of bliss allows me to control my rebirth.

I welcome any spiteful comments that will come immediately after I post this. Mr Sibon, I believe this is also the experience you are seeking out using meditation to abstain from sex. At my current state I can live with or without sex - if a person wants me to satisfy only them and no one else I definitely can do that, otherwise I can stay 'celibate' and punt whenever I feel like I miss the feeling of flesh, like Mahasiddha Virupa.

[frisson]

Beautiful thoughts

You are at peace

On each day, always leave people you meet in a better state than before they met you

Punting is a wonderful hobby but it doesn't have to overtake your life

No need to feel to attached to anything. Practice good will to every living thing

Listen to other people's point of view. Never denigrate people who have a different opinion. Don't call people names. Never make excuses for anyone. Assune 'everyone did their best at that time', even when they cant meet everyone's else's standards

Everything will pass including our brief lives

Everything will pass, including this thread

[Vincent888]

Everything will pass, including this thread

I presume you’re on a high fibre diet?

[Onehunglo]

I presume you’re on a high fibre diet?

From my experience a diet too high in fibre will bind you up so badly your WL/ML won't be able to get her finger up your arse. :surprise:

[Timeis629]

I watched a European sometime ago (in fact I saw it twice) and a white haired old guy reflected on how he had misinterpreted the sexual experience. It was in. Bohemian setting of naked people in a pool area.
Anyway the reflection was that he had all his life misinterpreted sex and had not appreciated that it was the journey of sex not the finishing of it.
This guy was remorseful that he had not achieved the most from the sexual experience as he only considered his own immediate gratification.
The only reason I punt is to savour the flavour of spending time with an ML that delivers the infinity of the sexual experience and not just the happy ending.
When I read ARs on this forum you realise just how many punters miss the mark and blame the lady and perhaps forget they are themselves are largely the problem.

[Vincent888]

From my experience a diet too high in fibre will bind you up so badly your WL/ML won't be able to get her finger up your arse. :surprise:

Maybe not enough fluid?

[Vincent888]

When I read ARs on this forum you realise just how many punters miss the mark and blame the lady and perhaps forget they are themselves are largely the problem.

It’s never the punters fault. How many times I read a bad review and think I’m going to fuck that girl and see for myself. And I do fuck them.

It takes two to tango. Two people.

Sex is a two way street.

[JohnJones]

We are often taught by our environment, whether directly or indirectly, to pity ourselves. To justify the reasons why we hurt others for our own gain. Self-pity can never be satiated - it's like a drug where we get so high the first try, on the tenth try we have to increase the dosage just to get close to the first time feeling.

That girl from many years ago served me a good lesson - that clear light of bliss was inside me all this while. When she left I was very devastated, I couldn't regain that same feeling with others. Turns out that we do experience a brief moment of clear light of bliss in our daily lives - orgasm, sneezing, falling asleep and as soon as we fall into death. The experience doesn't even last a second - hence the reason why we never knew it was there.

With the person I'm currently waiting for, I was able to practice catching that clear light of bliss in it's briefest moment every time we met, but I wasn't skillful enough to sustain the feeling. If I'm able to reunite with that person, I would gladly teach them how to gain the same experience even if it takes several lifetimes.

A Tibetan Tantric master, a monk turned layman, Chogyam Trungpa Rinpoche was a modern day Mahasiddha. He taught many people including strippers and people from sex industry how to start on the practice to experience clear light of bliss. People call his method of having sex with his students as "controversial" but he had not been in trouble for it while he was alive - his merits surpassed any slanders attempted at him.

I wish to only have one student that I can teach it to, hence the reason why I would gladly wait for their return and follow them into their next life if we couldn't reunite again this lifetime.

[Vincent888]

With sex I believe in energy exchange.

[JohnJones]

I watched a European sometime ago (in fact I saw it twice) and a white haired old guy reflected on how he had misinterpreted the sexual experience. It was in. Bohemian setting of naked people in a pool area.
Anyway the reflection was that he had all his life misinterpreted sex and had not appreciated that it was the journey of sex not the finishing of it.
This guy was remorseful that he had not achieved the most from the sexual experience as he only considered his own immediate gratification.
The only reason I punt is to savour the flavour of spending time with an ML that delivers the infinity of the sexual experience and not just the happy ending.
When I read ARs on this forum you realise just how many punters miss the mark and blame the lady and perhaps forget they are themselves are largely the problem.

That immediate gratification is what makes sex very mundane. Minutes after orgasm and the blood leaving the penis, we are normally back into our typical selves - aiming wanderless until the sexual urge returns with a vengeance.

For those able to sustain the clear light of bliss, the usual sexual urges can be suppressed or enhanced depending on the need. At this moment I find it unwise to get into a sexual act with someone new - I no longer have the desire to try different nationalities, ages or body shapes. I just want to connect with people of the same wavelength.

If we meditate on the experience of sex and how our thousands of nerves are being stimulated at the same time we will realise the existence of two things - temporary bliss and mundaneness. It's like looking at a mirror to admire ourselves - the first ten seconds we think we look like a movie star, and gradually as we continue staring down our reflections we start to see the flaws of our shape, and sometimes we start to blame our parents for passing bad genes down to us. But if we stare into that same reflection long enough on a daily basis we might be able to finally accept our flaws and treat our reflections as something we can both do with or without.

Using the same example of the reflection of a mirror, my views on sexual gratification is the same. I can get off either through masturbation alone, doing just one position until completion, experiencing several positions until completion or just simply ignore the urge and delay gratification for another day. I simply accept what is available. This doesn't put me on a high pedestal but I can say that I am finally in control.

[JohnJones]

With sex I believe in energy exchange.

Unfortunately energy exchange doesn't really happen unless both sexual partners are at the same wavelength.

For example, seeing multiple SWs and having great sex that involves multiple positions and possibly multiple orgasms doesn't equal energy exchange. The SWs may not feel the same about you being a great person and is only giving you sexual gratification as a way to turn you into a returning customer. When they hold back on their emotions around you so that they don't drive you away, they're basically holding back mental energy so nothing gets exchanged.

Those ones that open up to you and trusts you with their actual life stories, emotions and desires are the only ones you'll have an actual energy exchange with once you have sex with them. And that's why I only have one person in mind at the moment, because throughout my journey of gaining the skills to maintain clear light of bliss we exchanged a good amount of energy. There was also a point where I was able to remember our past lives together.

Excuse me for speaking gibberish 😂

[Vincent888]

There is energy exchange and energy drain. I’ve only ever had two women drain my energy. They were akin to being vampires.

That was a long time ago.

[JohnJones]

There is energy exchange and energy drain. I’ve only ever had two women drain my energy. They were akin to being vampires.

That was a long time ago.

Draining other people's energies can be dangerous because in the end of the day that person will end up getting drained.

I have seen people gone crazy after draining so many people by changing relationships like clothes. Devotion to one person is better - in the end of the day if it didn't work out you'll eventually end up with someone better. Karma gets exhausted eventually by living through it rather than to avoid it.

If the person I'm waiting for doesn't return at all in this lifetime, yes it will be devastating. But I can still reapproach them in the next life. And go over and over different lifetimes until they finally accept - but without stalking.

I have a feeling that the person I'm waiting for is throwing all they can think of at me to see if I would give up on them. How can I give up on someone I promised to reunite with from previous life, even if they keep forgetting those promises lifetimes after lifetimes?

[JohnJones]

It took me decades to finally achieve clear light of bliss and remember my past life. I will spend the rest of my remaining life looking for that person. We've seen each other on and off for years, I don't think it's worth it for me to simply give up.

Be it as it may, that person knows how to get in contact with me so I'm hoping they can contact me and we can reunite again. I wish to tell this person what I remembered about our wholesome past life together.

[Vincent888]

There was a song written:

Living Next Door to ALICE.

Have you heard of it?

[JohnJones]

There was a song written:

Living Next Door to ALICE.

Have you heard of it?

Nope, and it sounds like a really old song from back in the 80s.

Many songs from that era all wrote lyrics about heartbreak. To me it's self-pity, which hinders many people's journey into achieving clear light of bliss.

I'd like to expand on a popular Bob Marley song - "No woman no cry". If we look at the phrase that makes the song title and chorus at the same time, it sounds as if Bob was saying "don't cry just because you don't have a woman in your life". But if you add commas in "No, woman, no cry", it implies that Bob wrote the song for woman to be strong and not cry. That is the most selfless way to interpret such lyrics.

The clear light of bliss awakens our non-dual perception of the world. That is why I am waiting for that person to be my eternal private student.

[JohnJones]

No, woman, no cry;
No, woman, no cry.
'Ere, little darlin', don't shed no tears:
No, woman, no cry.

The third line is clearly referring to women to be strong and she'd no tears. However, it's been distorted by many to think that men shouldn't be sad for being single. Men should be sad for not being able to have a woman in their life that they can empower. One cannot live without the other - it is only fair to have an equal relationship where the strong masculine men empowers the woman of his life.

[tezzaman18]

I can related to some of this . I too met someone like that. They may not be the best orgasms but they were special for me and for her too . May not be the best sex I've had but certainly was at that time. What made this girl so special was that I was quite often in a Bliss when I was with her and I knew she felt the same too. Thanks for sharing.


A few years ago I met this girl. She gave me one of the best orgasm I've ever experienced. Unfortunately I was only able to spend one night with her, later on she avoided me and disappeared.

My lesson learned isn't about the sex, the orgasm or what ticked the girl off. It was about the bliss that lasted the whole night.

In my recent sexual experiences I was able to finally replicate that bliss. As it was about to drift away and disappear in the morning I held onto that bliss and kept it lasting the whole day without even masturbating, punting or even thinking about sex.

My point is that I am at the stage of no more learning - I have achieved the clear light of bliss.

I have a teacher who taught me how to accomplish that clear light of bliss - through lifetimes of spreading kindness and compassion, purifying negative emotions and challenging our fears of being used by others.

The bliss that envelops me now allows me to live life being less lazy, less sad, less angry and much more kinder. There is a certain someone who I would like to meet again in the future if they allow me, they gave me the opportunity to practice kindness without expecting anything in return. I would like to continue showing kindness towards this person. And no, this person isn't that girl who gave me that one night orgasm years ago.

I told that person I would wait for them until they returned, no matter how long it takes. Because even if I die before they returned, I can remain in heaven and choose to take rebirth in the same life as their next life. Because the clear light of bliss allows me to control my rebirth.

I welcome any spiteful comments that will come immediately after I post this. Mr Sibon, I believe this is also the experience you are seeking out using meditation to abstain from sex. At my current state I can live with or without sex - if a person wants me to satisfy only them and no one else I definitely can do that, otherwise I can stay 'celibate' and punt whenever I feel like I miss the feeling of flesh, like Mahasiddha Virupa.

[Sibon]

I welcome any spiteful comments that will come immediately after I post this. Mr Sibon, I believe this is also the experience you are seeking out using meditation to abstain from sex. At my current state I can live with or without sex - if a person wants me to satisfy only them and no one else I definitely can do that, otherwise I can stay 'celibate' and punt whenever I feel like I miss the feeling of flesh, like Mahasiddha Virupa.

Thank you sir for believing in purity, truth, good thoughts and being in the moment.

May you punt a thousand times more and happiness always be with you.

[JohnJones]

If I give up on her, it is akin to me giving up on my practice towards enlightenment. I am already in the path of no-reverting: once you become a Bodhisattva and progress towards becoming a Mahasiddha, you can never revert back into becoming an ordinary human being. This is why a monk can stay a monk for decades holding their vows - those caught in scandals breaking their vows are not even close to becoming a Bodhisattva, rather they are charlatans.

A Bodhisattva isn't afraid of being used, the same goes to a Mahasiddha. The only difference is that when a person tries to hurt a Mahasiddha, the karma is a hundredfold and the Mahasiddha loses nothing as his heart is steadfast towards his vows.

It's okay for a potential student to test their future teacher, to make sure the teacher is always there for them and will never abandon them in time of grief. This realm is the so-called desire realm, the realm of suffering. People need saviours in hard times.

I just want that person to contact me out of the blue, so that I can assure them my feelings are the same as when we first met few years ago.

[JohnJones]

I am not a monk, just a ngakpa in this lifetime. But as ngakpas, I hold less vows than a monk but I still have to hold those vows. No matter how hard I get rejected and being labelled crazy, I will never waver.

Recently I have decided to punt less. I'm saving money to help people needing rent and bill assistance. Through karma purification practice I have successfully suppressed my punting desires. If people are interested in meditation, Buddhism and suppressing their desires, please look up "Vajrasattva purification".

[ColesBag]

I am not a monk, just a ngakpa in this lifetime. But as ngakpas, I hold less vows than a monk but I still have to hold those vows. No matter how hard I get rejected and being labelled crazy, I will never waver.

Recently I have decided to punt less. I'm saving money to help people needing rent and bill assistance. Through karma purification practice I have successfully suppressed my punting desires. If people are interested in meditation, Buddhism and suppressing their desires, please look up "Vajrasattva purification".

You must be one conflicted individual or a troll to be on this forum.

Btw I know that in Buddhism that whores are a class of women permitted for monks to fuck.

[jedibear]

Lol talking about Buddhist enlightenment in a whoring forum...nice!

On that topic...anyone ever heard of nikah mut'ah (pleasure/temporary marriage) before [emoji6]?

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[Vincent888]

I’m asking about Lobsang Rampa, you know him?

[jedibear]

I’m asking about Lobsang Rampa, you know him?Lol I heard of a Sogyal Rinpoche...if u know of him?

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[Vincent888]

Of course I know about Rinpoche.

I’m not a follower of anything but pussy though.

[jedibear]

Aye, nothing makes me happier than warm wet punani...after ive given it a good stuffing

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[Shoryureppa]

I love sex cause I love pussy