Walking into fellow punters

[Lord_pete]

Hi guys,

Random question, if you walk past a fellow punter in and out the shop or waiting together, is it grounds to have small talk?

Find it a bit awkward and embarrassing myself, choosing the "I'll come back later" option and do a lap around the block until the coast is clear.

Just wanting to gauge what the general consensus is.

Cheers

[OLD SNAKE]

lol you are willing to get nasty with a strange woman that does strange things to multiple men, but can't look another bloke in the face that has done exactly what you are about to do,
i personally just give them a nod and say nothing than go follow the manager to the waiting room,

[CFH]

yes on the rare occasions this has happened i just nod and keep walking.

[Footballpunter]

Don’t need to hide. You and him are there to do the same thing, possibly the same person. Lol. The only time that I’ve actually left, is there’s once at Sakura had about 10 guys waiting. 3 different groups of different guys and then just me. I walked right out of there because that’s like over 2 hrs wait at least.

[personaa]

I usually say, good luck mate or something similar . Once I was at 26 George (Maybe 2-3 years ago) and I had to sit next to a guy and we were having a chat and cracking jokes. It was fun. No threesome though. I think I saw Chinese Mia (Had a banging body) but very mediocre service (So many dont do this and that). Didn't bother to return but man she was a beauty. Not sure If she is still around, shop uses photos from years ago and rosters on their website is never accurate...;
Sorry got carried away with memories.

[Footballpunter]

I usually say, good luck mate or something similar . Once I was at 26 George (Maybe 2-3 years ago) and I had to sit next to a guy and we were having a chat and cracking jokes. It was fun. No threesome though. I think I saw Chinese Mia (Had a banging body) but very mediocre service (So many dont do this and that). Didn't bother to return but man she was a beauty. Not sure If she is still around, shop uses photos from years ago and rosters on their website is never accurate...;
Sorry got carried away with memories.

Is it me or the Chinese ones are not so great?

[Ghost2hauntU]

Nah I always mind my own business and have no room for small talk because by the time I’m walking to the entrance my cock is doing all the thinking and he’s in overdrive craving to fuck pussy. No interest in anything else. After I’ve fucked, it’s a different story. Have exchanged intel with punters on the way out of the shop.

[Footballpunter]

Nah I always mind my own business and have no room for small talk because by the time I’m walking to the entrance my cock is doing all the thinking and he’s in overdrive craving to fuck pussy. No interest in anything else. After I’ve fucked, it’s a different story. Have exchanged intel with punters on the way out of the shop.

True that. I usually talk to the receptionists afterwards. Being friendly with them is the inside track on hot bookings I feel like

[personaa]

Is it me or the Chinese ones are not so great?

I had some good experiences with Chinese girls, but this one had a princess syndrome!

[rooter]

Just ignore them, sit down and look at your phone.
Punters are there to punt, not to chat with other punters. It is not a pub.

[OLD SNAKE]

True that. I usually talk to the receptionists afterwards. Being friendly with them is the inside track on hot bookings I feel like

100% Jenny the manager from lalabells always gives me a hug and is happy to see me, i am always polite and friendly with her and the girls, with me she doesn't watch the clock, i was there for 90minutes paid for 60 minutes, and end up having a cuppa and chat afterwards,

[bleekpit]

I look up at the ceiling the entire time even as I am walking.
But seriously though, the only time I ever see other punters for a longer period than just walking past them in the hallway and ignoring them is at Ginza Club where it is only a shared waiting area. Maybe I just visit at odd hours? Other places I'm led straight to the room and wait for the girls.

[Backdraft69]

Normally just a nod or a quick raise of the eye brows to the other guys.
There have been times when young Chinese guys cover their face when we walk past each other in the hallway, what's up with that?

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[Harika]

Why do you care? They are there to do the same thing as you! just do your business and go

[Sibon]

I was with a Chinese chef in a Burwood parlour who spoke Mandarin with a Sichuan accent.

I was asked to help him online bank transfer by a ML.

I chat with him a bit and he asked whether I could help him with learning English.

Punter is just another human being. I don't go out of my way to avoid them.

I see them when I see them.

[HowTo28891298]

I've only walked past someone else once in a shop and we just nodded at each other. I imagine they wouldn't want to start a convo.

[Sibon]

Maybe we should have a coffee meet among the fellow punters just like the photographers in Sydney Cafe Meets to talk shop.

I suggest a cafe or restaurant at the quiet end of Burwood Road near 14 Burwood.

:)

[HowTo28891298]

Maybe we should have a coffee meet among the fellow punters just like the photographers in Sydney Cafe Meets to talk shop.

I suggest a cafe or restaurant at the quiet end of Burwood Road near 14 Burwood.

:)


The image in my head of this happening give me a giggle I'll be honest xD

[Sibon]

The image in my head of this happening give me a giggle I'll be honest xD

Could end up with a meeting of a bunch of dirty old men. :)

[jesss1987]

nothing wrong with a friendly chat to break the ice up

[Muppet]

Just keep your head down and keep walking haha

[Double_Adapter]

Do what comes naturally, ask them for their WeChat and text them if they wanna meet up after they've finished at the shop.

[GoldfishMan]

I don't chat with other punters. That would be too distracting. I usually sit there and watch some porn on my phone to get my blood boiling, lol!

[Danny007]

nothing wrong with a friendly chat to break the ice up

This all sounds very interesting Haha

[Danny007]

This meet makes me giggle. Would be quite the gathering.

[Lucyfur]

I always say how’s it going to other ones i run into. A bit of harmless fun because we both know how awkward it is.

[cuteguy]

Do what comes naturally, ask them for their WeChat and text them if they wanna meet up after they've finished at the shop.

You can ask them if they want to do MMF session. I'm sure most would reject the offer.

[LBW1959]

A couple of years ago now, I parked underneath a shop at Greenacre and another punter came out the carpark door as I approached. We smiled at each other and I said "how are ya mate?". He said "Better now!" and we both laughed. Curious, I don't remember much about the punt but I clearly remember that interaction!!

[Sibon]

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[abovetherim]

I’m an introvert so naturally I tend to shy away from interactions with others. Every once in a while I’d walk past a fellow punter. I’d give a smile but avoid eye contact. The others tend to reciprocate. I’ve been to a few shops as a group (saw separate girls) when I was fresh in this game but I feel more comfortable going alone these days. But it could be interesting to be able to chat with a fellow punter one day.

[l337dude]

I'm not a social animal so I don't interact with anyone there, just there to fuck and get out :D
I'm not too fussed about walking into fellow punters since we are all there for the same thing...it's like going into a room and finding people with the same hobby as you lol

[F0x]

Maybe we should have a coffee meet among the fellow punters just like the photographers in Sydney Cafe Meets to talk shop.

I suggest a cafe or restaurant at the quiet end of Burwood Road near 14 Burwood.

:)

*Sips coffee*

So.

Face planted much gash today?

[cuteguy]

Looking at the demeanour of most punters it's as though they're walking the path of shame. Keeping their heads and eyes down so no one sees their face, make no contact and rush out as quickly as possible. For these guys, it's certainly not a place to chat with other guys.

[Sibon]

Looking at the demeanour of most punters it's as though they're walking the path of shame. Keeping their heads and eyes down so no one sees their face, make no contact and rush out as quickly as possible. For these guys, it's certainly not a place to chat with other guys.

They should hold their heads high, displaying their masculinity and courage, and stride into the parlour with legs kicking high like a German soldier.

There is nothing wrong sowing their wild seeds. Their mothers would be proud of them.

[Themysterypi]

Just keep on walking, not interested in seeing and talking to fellow punters. Haven't had much awkward encounters.

[rooter]

It's the unwritten punter code.
No chatting between punters in the waiting room.
Nobody likes a chatterbox.

[ReginaldBubbles]

Looking at the demeanour of most punters it's as though they're walking the path of shame. Keeping their heads and eyes down so no one sees their face, make no contact and rush out as quickly as possible. For these guys, it's certainly not a place to chat with other guys.

You should write a book with a different insight on each page. Cuteguy States the Bleeding Obvious (Punting Edition)

[paranoidpunter]

On my second ever punt I was exiting down the stairs when another punter in his 50s was coming up. He hid his face with his hand when coming up. I'm a pretty shy person but even I wasn't doing that.

I keep to myself, but wouldn't mind getting to know another punter, preferably someone similar to me. It's a bit of a lonely sport. But maybe it would trigger some male instinct which is why we all keep to ourselves.

[rubit moore]

In a blowjob bar in Sukhumvit I was about to be led upstairs for some ball-emptying activity but had to wait for two people walking down the stairs. A fit young chick who’s got an old English guy in tow, must’ve been clocking at least 80yrs old… was quite frail. As he approached the bar near me his phone rang and answering it, said “Hello dear…. Yes, just leaving the tennis club now…”

I was staring at him bemused thinking, fuck that’s gonna be me in a few decades time and he looked at me with a glint in his eye and a knowing smile. What a Legend!

[Lucyfur]

In a blowjob bar in Sukhumvit I was about to be led upstairs for some ball-emptying activity but had to wait for two people walking down the stairs. A fit young chick who’s got an old English guy in tow, must’ve been clocking at least 80yrs old… was quite frail. As he approached the bar near me his phone rang and answering it, said “Hello dear…. Yes, just leaving the tennis club now…”

I was staring at him bemused thinking, fuck that’s gonna be me in a few decades time and he looked at me with a glint in his eye and a knowing smile. What a Legend!

😂😂😂 legend qudos to him that the little man downstairs is still operating

[Mickeydrippen]

Leaving the back entrance at 227 NS I noticed a screen blocking the door and as I started to move it I upset some poor guy who was hiding sheepishly behind it. Another time at Sydney Baby Massage, my first visit, I ran into a well known musician coming out the door. He knew I knew who he was.

[Footballpunter]

Leaving the back entrance at 227 NS I noticed a screen blocking the door and as I started to move it I upset some poor guy who was hiding sheepishly behind it. Another time at Sydney Baby Massage, my first visit, I ran into a well known musician coming out the door. He knew I knew who he was.

So does that bring up the prestige of Sydney Baby Massage or does it bring down the well known musician? Lol

[rooter]

Leaving the back entrance at 227 NS I noticed a screen blocking the door and as I started to move it I upset some poor guy who was hiding sheepishly behind it. Another time at Sydney Baby Massage, my first visit, I ran into a well known musician coming out the door. He knew I knew who he was.

"Elvis has left the building"
I knew Elvis was still alive and hiding out in Sydney.

[ColesBag]

Meh, I don't give a fuck, I'll give a quick nod if I'm passing someone.

[Ghost2hauntU]

Meh, I don't give a fuck, I'll give a quick nod if I'm passing someone.

After I fucked @271 Marrickville on my way out I’ve ran into punters asking me ‘how it was’ and ‘did she enjoy it”. I’m thinking, dude WTF. I think I just muttered something like ‘yeah it was allright’ and kept walking. I always have my hood on in and out of venues cos I really don’t need people to recognise me.

[RodgHerMoore]

If there is anyone out front it turns me off a punt. If I see a dude walk in before me i also get turned off. I just want to think about the pussy in my session, not wondering about some dude i saw on my way in. Complete turn off for me.

[allstarbro]

It feels strange in Ginza's waiting room, all bros sitting together playing their phone, waiting to be called

[Ghost2hauntU]

It feels strange in Ginza's waiting room, all bros sitting together playing their phone, waiting to be called

Lol that sounds like @32 Berry lol.

[Sibon]

....I always have my hood on in and out of venues cos I really don’t need people to recognise me.

If you don't want anyone to recognize you don't go anywhere near a massage parlour.

After you receive your Order of Australia the next day there'll be Mamasan, WLs and fellow punters telling the world that they have served or seen you. :)

[l337dude]

I always have my hood on in and out of venues cos I really don’t need people to recognise me.

Hood + mask for me lol, especially when entering or exiting the place, once inside I sometimes take them off, I scared a mamasan once she probably thought I was there to rob the place lmao, gotta tame those gangster walk :shout:

[GoldfishMan]

It feels strange in Ginza's waiting room, all bros sitting together playing their phone, waiting to be called
Bro, couldn't agree more. The other option at GC, to wait in the courtyard area in front of the reception, is also terrible because that's where other punters come in to the shop.

Worst thing for me in that waiting room is sometimes I could be nursing a very visible, 100% quality erection as I watch porn on my phone, and that erection would be pointing straight at the other punter sitting opposite me in the room. Sometimes I need to adjust my dick position for comfort, so I'm reaching down and grabbing my crotch, all facing that poor punter.

I reckon shops ought to position the furniture in their general waiting rooms in such a way that punters do not sit facing each other. Like in the case of GC, they can put the couches back to back, all of them facing the walls, maybe get rid of the coffee table if they have to.

[priapus1966]

I don't think in Oz that I have ever offered much more than a brief nod of the head to another punter, but in my time in Japan it was very different. It seemed odd at first in a country where folk are normally reserved and reticent, that guys quite routinely go punting in pairs or small groups. In the early days, with poor language skills, I doubt that I would have got into many places without a punting 'local' getting me through the door. The blow job bars in particular were a challenge with perhaps half a dozen guys getting serviced simultaneously in the same, albeit darkened room.

[syxxx]

I was at Stanmore recently, hit the buzzer and they asked to come back in 5 mons.
Came back and just as I going to hit the buzzer the door opens. I thought they were waiting for me but a legit 80 year old guy walks out.
Then the trashest Nick Kyrios looking lanky guy dressed in adidas was hounding Ada for the name of the masseuse he saw, I think it was Ally. The guy had a red face like a 14 year old after his first drink. It was embarrassing.
I sat down and got the phone out while he was pacing around and calling for his mate.
I really like Stanmore but I feel the shop would do so much better if they moved to a location off Parra Rd and separated the rooms a bit. Turned me off going back for awhile.

[GoldfishMan]

Addies? I thought the shoe of choice for any eshay worth his salt was Nike Air Max.

[Sibon]

I was at Stanmore recently, hit the buzzer and they asked to come back in 5 mons.
Came back and just as I going to hit the buzzer the door opens. I thought they were waiting for me but a legit 80 year old guy walks out.
Then the trashest Nick Kyrios looking lanky guy dressed in adidas was hounding Ada for the name of the masseuse he saw, I think it was Ally. The guy had a red face like a 14 year old after his first drink. It was embarrassing.
I sat down and got the phone out while he was pacing around and calling for his mate.
I really like Stanmore but I feel the shop would do so much better if they moved to a location off Parra Rd and separated the rooms a bit. Turned me off going back for awhile.

The reception area of a small shop is always an open area.

Some punters like to hang around there chatting up Ada. I don't know what they are hoping for as almost all of us know Ada has a long-term Malaysian boyfriend.

I'll be in the coffee shop somewhere at the corner sitting out. I will be phoning the shop when my time is up and walk straight into the room and into warm arms of the Thai ML without having to wait.

[helkinn]

Bout 18 months ago, I rolled up to 429City for the very first time. It was about midnight on a school night. at the entrance I passed a well built white bloke in his 30s. I said "hey who's good?" He said, "honestly, they're all Asian boilers except for Indian Zara"...I took his advice, asked for Zara, and had a fucking amazing 60mins. The natural scent of her body was absolutely electrifying to me.. never had a thing for body oder (pheromones) before, now I do. I've been searching for Zara or someone similar ever since. So yeah, a little chitchat could go a long way.

[Raybo]

Plenty of popular establishments where you will be in a waiting room with other punters. It's like waiting anywhere else I reckon. If someone wants to have a chat, have a chat. Don't be shy. I have gone I to other rooms with other punters I didn't know.

[Themysterypi]

We would rather interact online on this forum than head nod or even say hi to a fellow punter in real life.

[Pussyeater13]

Walking out once and I walked past a guy who, while masked, looked vaguely familiar. We both also turned back for a second glance lol.

[RodgHerMoore]

We would rather interact online on this forum than head nod or even say hi to a fellow punter in real life.

Hahaha! Hi five. Same here... But I'm fked up that way. Would rather walk in and see a girl I've read about here than ask a punter on the way out about the same girl. Talk about inconsistent and screwed up thinking!

[rooter]

Walking out once and I walked past a guy who, while masked, looked vaguely familiar. We both also turned back for a second glance lol.

Was it Bruce Wayne or Peter Parker?

[Mitch97]

I think a head nod will suffice lol

[Pussyeater13]

Was it Bruce Wayne or Peter Parker?

Possible since I've never seen them unmasked myself

[F0x]

We would rather interact online on this forum than head nod or even say hi to a fellow punter in real life.

What really gets me cackling internally is the possibility two punters actually know each in other IRL but have opposite relationships on the forums.

I.e your best friend is actually on this forum as you some guy you hate. Or vice versa

😂🤣😂

[Joe4you2]

Polite nod doesn't hurt anybody, just like if you were passing someone on the street.

[ditchtheboss]

This reminds me, I was at Ginza Empire in the middle of the week, mid afternoon so it wasn’t so busy. I was at reception paying the money and a guy I know stood next to me asking for a certain girl.

We immediately recognised each other, he was incredibly embarrassed, my approach is I don’t mind because I don’t have anything to hide or reasons not to be there. I respected his privacy and didn’t say anything. He made some excuse and dashed out. I wouldn’t mind a chat with him, who knows maybe he is rooter or someone else prolific here.

[FreyaFan]

I always give a knowing smile and nod of the head to any exiting punter I pass on my way in, but some guys just don't want to know about it, they look anywhere to avoid eye contact and pick up the pace. We're both there for the same reason, I never understood the shame.

[F0x]

This reminds me, I was at Ginza Empire in the middle of the week, mid afternoon so it wasn’t so busy. I was at reception paying the money and a guy I know stood next to me asking for a certain girl.

We immediately recognised each other, he was incredibly embarrassed, my approach is I don’t mind because I don’t have anything to hide or reasons not to be there. I respected his privacy and didn’t say anything. He made some excuse and dashed out. I wouldn’t mind a chat with him, who knows maybe he is rooter or someone else prolific here.

Dun dun duuuuuuuunnnnnnnn

Wasn't me never been to Ginza yet 🤣

[Ghost2hauntU]

Fuck was 65 Carlton full to the brim last Saturday after midnight. Punters in every waiting room some in the double. And just 2 girls available. Never seen it like that before even pre Covid. Wtf is going on?

[kamo]

I always give a knowing smile and nod of the head to any exiting punter I pass on my way in, but some guys just don't want to know about it, they look anywhere to avoid eye contact and pick up the pace. We're both there for the same reason, I never understood the shame.

Maybe he was married or thought you might have given the game away for him? In theory I agree, we all know why we’re there, but in practice some people may feel like they’re taking a huge risk having that side of them known.

I know if I (being married) was seen by a single or unattached mate I’d be very wary of the future!!

[Donte]

I've only had this in Ginza when it's chockers between 5-7. Most never say anything, though it gets a bit awkward when someone tries to force conversation

[PKING2]

Just smile back to them. They all now what we doing there. Even mechanics near 42g and n5m always grinning when I passes them lol

[JamilAz]

100% Jenny the manager from lalabells always gives me a hug and is happy to see me, i am always polite and friendly with her and the girls, with me she doesn't watch the clock, i was there for 90minutes paid for 60 minutes, and end up having a cuppa and chat afterwards,

Jenny at Lalabells is the best she's always welcoming I always have a good time going to Lalabells she is very accommodating she always walks me out and gives me a hug and a bottle of water for the trip home she's a cool Madam!

[rooter]

Everybody hates a sociable chatty matey cunt!
Fuck! We all wish these guys would shut the fuck up!

[asiafever]

Maybe he was married or thought you might have given the game away for him? In theory I agree, we all know why we’re there, but in practice some people may feel like they’re taking a huge risk having that side of them known.

I know if I (being married) was seen by a single or unattached mate I’d be very wary of the future!!

I would suggest you need to evaluate your mates. Not a single bloke I call a mate would tell, married or otherwise, they may have an opinion on it, bit no chance they would utter a word to incriminate another. If there's someone in your mates circle who you reckon you can't trust, distance yourself, you don't need that negativity in your life.

[kamo]

I would suggest you need to evaluate your mates. Not a single bloke I call a mate would tell, married or otherwise, they may have an opinion on it, bit no chance they would utter a word to incriminate another. If there's someone in your mates circle who you reckon you can't trust, distance yourself, you don't need that negativity in your life.

I’ve given them all a questionnaire, am just waiting on the results.

Will let you know how it goes!

[asiafever]

I’ve given them all a questionnaire, am just waiting on the results.

Will let you know how it goes!

"Question 1. In the book "A Dog Act" the narrator tells the story of how his single friend, Tommy, came across him in the waiting room of a bordello, and later divulged this information, resulting in the narrator's wife finding out. In 1500 words, explain why you feel this does/does not qualify as the aforementioned "dog act", and explain what actions you would take if you found yourself in the same situation as Tommy."

[ParramattaRiver]

I’ve seen a few other punters, but it’s nearly always heads down, no eye contact. They don’t want to be recognised as much as me.

[Oldguy61]

I’ve seen a few other punters, but it’s nearly always heads down, no eye contact. They don’t want to be recognised as much as me.

I am one of those guys that keep their head down. I don't want a conversation.

[Daffy]

"Question 1. In the book "A Dog Act" the narrator tells the story of how his single friend, Tommy, came across him in the waiting room of a bordello, and later divulged this information, resulting in the narrator's wife finding out. In 1500 words, explain why you feel this does/does not qualify as the aforementioned "dog act", and explain what actions you would take if you found yourself in the same situation as Tommy."

I guess it decides what you classify as the dog act. Tommy isn’t the one lying here so I’d say the dog act is all on the narrator here. Did Tommy bring it up with the boys to embarrass the married narrator and then it got back through the grapevine?

If he went running to the blokes wife to dob him in that’s a bit dickish but could still be forgiven.

So for what I would do in Tommy’s position, I’d absolutely give it to you at every opportunity. I definitely wouldn’t go running to tell but I also make it very plain to my friends don’t ever put me in a position to lie for you.

[asiafever]

I guess it decides what you classify as the dog act. Tommy isn’t the one lying here so I’d say the dog act is all on the narrator here. Did Tommy bring it up with the boys to embarrass the married narrator and then it got back through the grapevine?

If he went running to the blokes wife to dob him in that’s a bit dickish but could still be forgiven.

So for what I would do in Tommy’s position, I’d absolutely give it to you at every opportunity. I definitely wouldn’t go running to tell but I also make it very plain to my friends don’t ever put me in a position to lie for you.

A bit dickish? No, it's far worse than that.
Never get in the middle of a married couple.

Couples stay together in totally loveless relationships for the kids, husband still has sexual needs and so steals some time for himself with a wl. Is he having an extra-marital affair while the wife believes she's in a loving marriage? No. He's taking some time for himself before he goes home to yet another shitfight. Just one scenario, but one from real life.
Point is, you never know what's going on in the background, so best to stay out of it and keep it to yourself. Maybe the wife knows and is fine with it, maybe he is just a dog who can't help himself, none of it concerns you.

That's why the people I call friends wouldn't utter a word, we have a mutual respect, sure we rip shit out of each other but what is said between us stays between us. Not so much honour amongst thieves, but just basic decency.

[PKING2]

Not so much honour amongst thieves, but just basic decency.

Honour amongst punters :cool2:

[Sibon]

Not so much honour amongst thieves, but just basic decency.

You are First Among Equals in punting game.

[Daffy]

A bit dickish? No, it's far worse than that.
Never get in the middle of a married couple.

Absolutely agree here. I’ve seen a women being absolutely bashed by her boyfriend then jump on the back of the bloke who stepped in to stop it and start clawing at him


Couples stay together in totally loveless relationships for the kids, husband still has sexual needs and so steals some time for himself with a wl. Is he having an extra-marital affair while the wife believes she's in a loving marriage? No. He's taking some time for himself before he goes home to yet another shitfight. Just one scenario, but one from real life.
Point is, you never know what's going on in the background, so best to stay out of it and keep it to yourself. Maybe the wife knows and is fine with it, maybe he is just a dog who can't help himself, none of it concerns you.

And again I agree here in general. But if the wife directly asked me I’m not going to lie to her (mostly because I’m absolutely shit at it). More likely I’ll walk off before someone can ask me about something like that.


That's why the people I call friends wouldn't utter a word, we have a mutual respect, sure we rip shit out of each other but what is said between us stays between us. Not so much honour amongst thieves, but just basic decency.
I guess we hold each other to different standards here. While I wouldn’t go running my mouth off I’d also never expect anyone to lie for me. I’m not comfortable putting anyone in the position to feel like they have to lie for me

[Double_Adapter]

@Asiafever - I've asked generative AI for an answer on the the dog act question, and for what's it's worth here it is:

Consideration of the Friend's Well-being:
First and foremost, I would consider the potential impact of my actions on my friend's well-being. If their safety or mental health were at risk, I might choose to disclose the information to ensure their best interests are protected. However, it is essential to carefully assess the situation before making any decisions, weighing the potential benefits against the potential harm caused by betrayal.

Communication and Consent:
I believe open communication and respect for personal boundaries are fundamental in any relationship. If I felt compelled to share sensitive information about a friend, I would make an effort to discuss it with them first, seeking their consent to disclose the information. Honest and respectful dialogue can often lead to a better understanding of the situation and help establish a mutually agreed-upon course of action.

Honesty and Integrity:
While honesty is important, it is crucial to evaluate the potential consequences of revealing certain information. Sometimes, withholding information may be the most compassionate course of action, especially if it is unlikely to cause significant harm and disclosure might only serve to create unnecessary tension or damage relationships.

Empathy and Support:
Regardless of the actions taken, it is important to approach the situation with empathy and provide support to the friend involved. Recognizing the complexities and emotions tied to such situations, offering a non-judgmental ear and support can help maintain a sense of friendship and trust despite any initial disagreements.

[Daffy]

@Asiafever - It really does all come down to circumstances. Would you react differently if it was your brother in law you ran into and your sister is the one at home being cheated on?

[asiafever]

@Asiafever - It really does all come down to circumstances. Would you react differently if it was your brother in law you ran into and your sister is the one at home being cheated on?

Not my position to come between them. I would talk to him, find out what's going on etc, but what you risk is that you sister believes you're trying to sabotage her relationship and so on. No good comes from it. Other people's business is other people's business. I say this knowing full well my BIL has had Escorts previously and my sister had a relationship on the side for a short while. They're adults, it's their business not mine. Neither has ever asked me, and to be honest I'm pretty sure both know anyway.

On the subject of lying for someone, nobody has asked anyone to lie for them, the chances of a wife confronting someone and asking "does my husband visit prostitutes" is close to zero, especially if my earlier point is observed. If she is even close to asking that, she knows in her heart anyway and wouldn't bother.

[Daffy]

That was kind of the point I was aiming at and I’m glad you answered the way you did. It’s what I hope I would do in that situation. I tend to veer towards the absolute honesty in relationships and am pretty open about being open.

I think the second part would be even worse and no matter what you answer they will already have made up their mind. Never underestimate the power of self delusion in relationships

[asiafever]

That was kind of the point I was aiming at and I’m glad you answered the way you did. It’s what I hope I would do in that situation. I tend to veer towards the absolute honesty in relationships and am pretty open about being open.

I think the second part would be even worse and no matter what you answer they will already have made up their mind. Never underestimate the power of self delusion in relationships

Very true, when dealing with the delusional you are best staying right out of it.

[GoldfishMan]

While I'm firmly in the "do not intervene" camp, I must admit this has come back to bite me on one occassion.

More than 20 years ago, I met a very attractive HK girl at a place I was working at. I got to know that she was engaged to the man of her dreams and she was very happy and looking forward to a beautiful life with him. I was married myself, so I just went along and treated it as a friendship. I figured no harm in having beautiful friends around you. Besides, she also had a Vietnamese friend colleague who was also hot that I got along well with.

Anyway, a short time after this my wife went for her citizenship ceremony and when she came home, she told me that some guy at the ceremony was hitting on her and even gave her his business card. She showed it to me and I almost fell off my seat. It was my HK friend's fiance!

There I was all torn up about dobbing the guy in, so I turned to the Vietnamese girl for advise over drinks one weekend. She told me to not intervene, so I took the advise.

Fast forward a few more years, I went into a spiral of self-destruction that saw me divorce from my wife after cheating with a girl. I was so sick of hiding my true self that I went around telling people how I unflinchingly destroyed my own marriage just to be "free", including telling this HK girl. She didn't say much at the time. She'd married that dream guy and was really happy.

After that, maybe 8 years went by without any contact with the HK girl, then one day I got a message from her out of the blue. She seemed distressed and said she wanted to ask me something.

Over many many chat messages, she told me what happened to her life over the last few years. She told me that she'd found out that her dream guy had always been cheating on her for many years. The last thing he did was he'd left her for another girl right when she was pregnant with their first child and even worse, he'd conned her family out of her family home in Killara. He'd persuaded her dad into remortgaging the house to lend him capital for a business and ran off with the money!

As she told me the story, I couldn't help but wonder... Maybe I should've dobbed in that arsehole all those years ago!

[wolfman88]

While I'm firmly in the "do not intervene" camp, I must admit this has come back to bite me on one occassion.

More than 20 years ago, I met a very attractive HK girl at a place I was working at. I got to know that she was engaged to the man of her dreams and she was very happy and looking forward to a beautiful life with him. I was married myself, so I just went along and treated it as a friendship. I figured no harm in having beautiful friends around you. Besides, she also had a Vietnamese friend colleague who was also hot that I got along well with.

Anyway, a short time after this my wife went for her citizenship ceremony and when she came home, she told me that some guy at the ceremony was hitting on her and even gave her his business card. She showed it to me and I almost fell off my seat. It was my HK friend's fiance!

There I was all torn up about dobbing the guy in, so I turned to the Vietnamese girl for advise over drinks one weekend. She told me to not intervene, so I took the advise.

Fast forward a few more years, I went into a spiral of self-destruction that saw me divorce from my wife after cheating with a girl. I was so sick of hiding my true self that I went around telling people how I unflinchingly destroyed my own marriage just to be "free", including telling this HK girl. She didn't say much at the time. She'd married that dream guy and was really happy.

After that, maybe 8 years went by without any contact with the HK girl, then one day I got a message from her out of the blue. She seemed distressed and said she wanted to ask me something.

Over many many chat messages, she told me what happened to her life over the last few years. She told me that she'd found out that her dream guy had always been cheating on her for many years. The last thing he did was he'd left her for another girl right when she was pregnant with their first child and even worse, he'd conned her family out of her family home in Killara. He'd persuaded her dad into remortgaging the house to lend him capital for a business and ran off with the money!

As she told me the story, I couldn't help but wonder... Maybe I should've dobbed in that arsehole all those years ago!

That's deep

Personally, I would of called the number on the business card and had a couple of words with him. Nothing threatening. But just letting him know you have something over him and that's probably as far as I would go. If he had another punt at ya Mrs then free game. Either have a tilt at his, or just let her know what's happened... Something that I have learnt over time - never get involved in someone else's relationship

[GoldfishMan]

That's deep

Personally, I would of called the number on the business card and had a couple of words with him. Nothing threatening. But just letting him know you have something over him and that's probably as far as I would go. If he had another punt at ya Mrs then free game. Either have a tilt at his, or just let her know what's happened... Something that I have learnt over time - never get involved in someone else's relationship

Never thought of doing that. Might have worked or maybe not. Back then, this girl was so over the moon with the bloke that she just about accepted everything he told her as gospel. He had her under his spell.

She would tell her Vietnamese friend and I about how he would go out on Friday nights with his "platonic" girl friends and she would be banned from going with him on those nights. We asked her what he does those nights and she confidently told us "playing mahjong and maybe karaoke". V girl and I were left speechless, couldn't say a thing to point out red flags. It's incredible how someone's mind can be manipulated so much by another person, now that I think back about it.

I also left out an important point about the story. You see, the reason she'd contacted me and told me this story was because I had apparently left a mark on her when I told her all about how I destroyed my own marriage.

When she finished her story to me, she said to me "The only person I know who had done something as bad as what he did to me is you. Can you explain to me how someone could be this evil?".

I'll have to point out that I am nowhere near as evil as this monumental dickhead. I went far above and beyond what I had to do to make sure my ex-wife had a good life after I left. To the point of leaving myself in deep trouble while doing that. Proof of this is even to this day, my ex-wife confides in me for advise on major life decisions.

Anyway, you can imagine what a terrible situation HK girl had put me in. On one hand she's clearly stating how lowly she thinks of me. On the other hand, I actually knew that the guy was an arsehole from the beginning and didn't do anything about it! Wtf....

[wolfman88]

Never thought of doing that. Might have worked or maybe not. Back then, this girl was so over the moon with the bloke that she just about accepted everything he told her as gospel. He had her under his spell.

She would tell her Vietnamese friend and I about how he would go out on Friday nights with his "platonic" girl friends and she would be banned from going with him on those nights. We asked her what he does those nights and she confidently told us "playing mahjong and maybe karaoke". V girl and I were left speechless, couldn't say a thing to point out red flags. It's incredible how someone's mind can be manipulated so much by another person, now that I think back about it.

I also left out an important point about the story. You see, the reason she'd contacted me and told me this story was because I had apparently left a mark on her when I told her all about how I destroyed my own marriage.

When she finished her story to me, she said to me "The only person I know who had done something as bad as what he did to me is you. Can you explain to me how someone could be this evil?".

I'll have to point out that I am nowhere near as evil as this monumental dickhead. I went far above and beyond what I had to do to make sure my ex-wife had a good life after I left. To the point of leaving myself in deep trouble while doing that. Proof of this is even to this day, my ex-wife confides in me for advise on major life decisions.

Anyway, you can imagine what a terrible situation HK girl had put me in. On one hand she's clearly stating how lowly she thinks of me. On the other hand, I actually knew that the guy was an arsehole from the beginning and didn't do anything about it! Wtf....

its a weird game we play hey
i dont know whats a better way to explain it - life on the edge, or double life?
what makes it funny is that we talk openly about it on the internet under alias's, but never with (or only a few) close friends

[dryrun]

A smile and nod is all that's required.

[Aphantom]

While I'm firmly in the "do not intervene" camp, I must admit this has come back to bite me on one occassion.

More than 20 years ago, I met a very attractive HK girl at a place I was working at. I got to know that she was engaged to the man of her dreams and she was very happy and looking forward to a beautiful life with him. I was married myself, so I just went along and treated it as a friendship. I figured no harm in having beautiful friends around you. Besides, she also had a Vietnamese friend colleague who was also hot that I got along well with.

Anyway, a short time after this my wife went for her citizenship ceremony and when she came home, she told me that some guy at the ceremony was hitting on her and even gave her his business card. She showed it to me and I almost fell off my seat. It was my HK friend's fiance!

There I was all torn up about dobbing the guy in, so I turned to the Vietnamese girl for advise over drinks one weekend. She told me to not intervene, so I took the advise.

Fast forward a few more years, I went into a spiral of self-destruction that saw me divorce from my wife after cheating with a girl. I was so sick of hiding my true self that I went around telling people how I unflinchingly destroyed my own marriage just to be "free", including telling this HK girl. She didn't say much at the time. She'd married that dream guy and was really happy.

After that, maybe 8 years went by without any contact with the HK girl, then one day I got a message from her out of the blue. She seemed distressed and said she wanted to ask me something.

Over many many chat messages, she told me what happened to her life over the last few years. She told me that she'd found out that her dream guy had always been cheating on her for many years. The last thing he did was he'd left her for another girl right when she was pregnant with their first child and even worse, he'd conned her family out of her family home in Killara. He'd persuaded her dad into remortgaging the house to lend him capital for a business and ran off with the money!

As she told me the story, I couldn't help but wonder... Maybe I should've dobbed in that arsehole all those years ago!

Thanks for sharing this story Gold. People are not what they seem. I doubt HK girl would have believed anything that you said when you first found out. Maybe V girlfriend and you could have subtly hinted but she was probably too smitten. I’ve met many manipulative people in my time. They spin really convoluted outrageous stories which people get sucked into. They eventually (usually) unravel whilst leaving a trail of destruction in their wake.

[GoldfishMan]

Thanks for sharing this story Gold. People are not what they seem. I doubt HK girl would have believed anything that you said when you first found out. Maybe V girlfriend and you could have subtly hinted but she was probably too smitten. I’ve met many manipulative people in my time. They spin really convoluted outrageous stories which people get sucked into. They eventually (usually) unravel whilst leaving a trail of destruction in their wake.

Trail of destruction indeed, bro. I really couldn't believe how badly it all turned out for her. I thought the worst that could happen was she got a divorce or something, but the story got worse and worse as she told it.

I never had any contact with her since then, but she's etched forever in my mind now because of this incredible guilt I had to go through when it all happened within the span of 30 minutes or so when she told me her story.

[CursedCoomer]

I was walking down the hallway of a massage joint and the door to my right suddenly opened, then out walked the fattest bastard I've ever seen buck naked. Our eyes met and he was like a deer in the headlights. It took every ounce of self control not to do the up down look on him and keep walking.

[RodgHerMoore]

The 2 recent threads on cops reminded me of an incident many years ago at the original D'Privilege. I had a great midday session on the top floor. Really pretty and sexy ML. After i was done i walked down stairs.

There was some commotion in vietnamese. My ML was ahead of me and walked back upstairs and grabs my hand. I see a copper from the local command that was 1 block away walking up!!! In full uniform!! He was still wearing his hat so he didnt see me.

ML lead me into 2nd floor and closed the door. The way she held my hand was like GFE fingers entwined. She left the room.

Enters back 2 mins later and gives me the all clear to leave.

No way was i going to swap notes with the local constabulary!! LOL!!!

Goes to show they know what's going on...arguably it's a local council issue giving part 2? :P. What do state cops care about local bylaws LOL!!

They're human and have needs too :D

Maybe some are active forum members! Lol

[Ghost2hauntU]

Yep, last week once again I sat opposite two other punters in the waiting room. But everyone kept on their phones and didn’t give a toss about one another. Which is how I prefer it.

WL came in and into to all 3 of us at same time. Aussie guy went with her.
Indian guy walked out without making selection after next girl came..

And I was left all alone to po see my decisions. In hindsight I would have bailed also but ended up with an average fuck for the night.

Was it better than jerking off? - of course.
Was it worth the money? - absolutely not.

[1inchguy]

Never understood the shame when punters walk into a shop, I guess they're concerned of being recognised? Then again I'm single, don't have to worry about being seen nor care if anyone see me walk into a shop. However my advice would be punt far away from where you live...
Anyway If I see another punter in a waiting room and he speaks to me first I'm cool with that. However I won't make the first interaction since I understand he want to be left alone.
There was a time the shop was so busy, the punter and I were in a small room in silence. Then a girl came out from her room and offered us a BBBJ and go.
I declined while the other punter agreed so I left the waiting room and moved to corridor where theres traffic of girls coming and going into rooms. Long story short another punter walks has finished his session and going out he goes passed the waiting room and see the guy getting bbbj. He yells out "wtf!", The girl that was leading him out also saw them and yelled out "wtf!"

[F0x]

Yep, last week once again I sat opposite two other punters in the waiting room. But everyone kept on their phones and didn’t give a toss about one another. Which is how I prefer it.

WL came in and into to all 3 of us at same time. Aussie guy went with her.
Indian guy walked out without making selection after next girl came..

And I was left all alone to po see my decisions. In hindsight I would have bailed also but ended up with an average fuck for the night.

Was it better than jerking off? - of course.
Was it worth the money? - absolutely not.

I actually thought this was going to be a joke and was waiting for the punchline.

I.e the Aussie guy does this. The Indian guy does this.

But the IRISH GUY.....

[Spicks]

A solid nod or thumbs up says it all tbh

[Ghost2hauntU]

If you're so worried about bumping into other punters then find a shop where there are separate waiting rooms or better off don't punt at all. Simple.

Nah man, doesn’t always go down like that. Last Sunday the boss bundles us all in the same waiting room at 271 Marrickville. The one at the back. The front one with the cashier was all lights out. Was after midnight.

Anyway, it wasn’t exactly executive treatment. Seems like these cunts couldn’t care less. Got plenty of business.

I recall still back in early 2020 I’d walk in and sit in that big leather lounge and 8-10 girls would cum one by one to introduce themselves. No punters in sight, I was the only one. It’d be week after week like that. Would rarely miss there.

[wolfman88]

haha i thought of this thread the other day ... was walking into a rear entry for a shop in five dock the other day and there was a punter coming out as i was walking in. the rear entry is sort of like this extremely skinny alley way / walk way. anyway i seen this punter walk out all happy with a slight spring in his step coming out of the shop and then he seen me and went all white. i could tell he was nervous. i just asked him if it was any good and anyone he could recommend. the bloke couldnt walk away fast enough lol

sorry to that bloke if you are on here

[Ghost2hauntU]

haha i thought of this thread the other day ... was walking into a rear entry for a shop in five dock the other day and there was a punter coming out as i was walking in. the rear entry is sort of like this extremely skinny alley way / walk way. anyway i seen this punter walk out all happy with a slight spring in his step coming out of the shop and then he seen me and went all white. i could tell he was nervous. i just asked him if it was any good and anyone he could recommend. the bloke couldnt walk away fast enough lol

sorry to that bloke if you are on here

Lol, maybe you should be walking in the front, instead doing the ‘rear entry’.

Fuck it, couple of weeks ago I was at 7 Cowper and the friendly Mamasan let me wait in the curtained cubicle. Then I hear come footsteps and my cock begins to harden in anticipation only to have the curtain pulled back and there’s two bearded Indians staring at me. NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!

[Footballpunter]

Fuck it, couple of weeks ago I was at 7 Cowper and the friendly Mamasan let me wait in the curtained cubicle. Then I hear come footsteps and my cock begins to harden in anticipation only to have the curtain pulled back and there’s two bearded Indians staring at me. NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!

hahahahahahaha did you lose your boner instantly?


Actually, I think about this thread every time I see another punter. haha

[Ghost2hauntU]

hahahahahahaha did you lose your boner instantly?


Actually, I think about this thread every time I see another punter. haha

Instant boner killer. And the WLs weren’t much better. Walked the fuck out.

[wolfman88]

Lol, maybe you should be walking in the front, instead doing the ‘rear entry’.

Fuck it, couple of weeks ago I was at 7 Cowper and the friendly Mamasan let me wait in the curtained cubicle. Then I hear come footsteps and my cock begins to harden in anticipation only to have the curtain pulled back and there’s two bearded Indians staring at me. NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!

if a shop has parking at the rear then im doing rear entry that way i dont have to pay attention to any of the curb side parking signs

[Abracadabra]

Was in Ginza C waiting room a few months back (the one with the faux ornate chairs) with 1 other punter, judiciously concentrating on our phones on important stuff when in walked a 3rd punter.
He sparked the attention of the 2 of us as he sat as he had a cardboard tray containing a selection of cakes, pastries etc resting on his knee, obviously for the lady he was seeing.

[ditchtheboss]

Was in Ginza C waiting room a few months back (the one with the faux ornate chairs) with 1 other punter, judiciously concentrating on our phones on important stuff when in walked a 3rd punter.
He sparked the attention of the 2 of us as he sat as he had a cardboard tray containing a selection of cakes, pastries etc resting on his knee, obviously for the lady he was seeing.

Oh dear, a selection of cakes and pastries. It’s not a freaking restaurant, such a simp. Each to your own.

I once ran into an old work colleague at Gc’s reception. I don’t mind because I have nothing to hide but being married he was embarrassed, I know his wife. he kinda hid his face with his hands but we both know we saw each other.

[Footballpunter]

Oh dear, a selection of cakes and pastries. It’s not a freaking restaurant, such a simp. Each to your own.

I once ran into an old work colleague at Gc’s reception. I don’t mind because I have nothing to hide but being married he was embarrassed, I know his wife. he kinda hid his face with his hands but we both know we saw each other.

OMG, hiding his face is even more obvious. i would be like hey, i know you, just to fuck with him lol

[bung72]

I'm usually a early-mid afternoon mid-week punter, so it is usually very quiet (how I like it!).... so hardly ever see anybody. This week I was waiting in a bar area to the side of the other waiting areas (the girl was running late), another dude came in and started waiting in a 'private' booth.... it was sort of cool as I could check out the girl he was meeting (intel for later!) - then 5 minutes later the poor bugger was marched back out, apparently failing the health check.... I didn't know where to look, I did hear all about the woes of the penis though!

[Steve88]

Doesn’t bother me at all. We are both there for the same reason and we are not doing anything illegal.

[gedinsyd]

I am generally a late morning/early arvo punter and mostly go to RnTs so rarely see other punters, however, the one and only time I went to a FS place (429 Pitt), there were 3 other guys sitting next to me in the waiting area - did feel a bit uncomfy because I was purely focused on meeting one of the girls there. Noone spoke to each other, which was fine. When the lineup happened, I immediately saw a girl I liked and thankfully was ushered to the room pretty quickly after that.

[tezzaman18]

If you're so worried about bumping into other punters then find a shop where there are separate waiting rooms or better off don't punt at all. Simple.

If you are on the northern side 104 Roseville Rose & 60 Whiting Artarmon have waiting rooms or unused bedrooms where you can wait before your appointment or for you to inspect the WLs.

[Ghost2hauntU]

If you are on the northern side 104 Roseville Rose & 60 Whiting Artarmon have waiting rooms or unused bedrooms where you can wait before your appointment or for you to inspect the WLs.

Most places I’ve been to have this and the staff always point me to a private room or waiting area. They k ow punters prefer not to sit with one another dicks in hand waiting for girls to show.

Probably the worst place I ever went to where everyone was bundled into the one waiting room was 32 Berry. The WLs would come in and introduce themselves to everyone at once. I walked out fast cos they didn’t have Asians. But wondered what would happen if 2 punters want the same WL. Then what?

[Footballpunter]

Most places I’ve been to have this and the staff always point me to a private room or waiting area. They k ow punters prefer not to sit with one another dicks in hand waiting for girls to show.

Probably the worst place I ever went to where everyone was bundled into the one waiting room was 32 Berry. The WLs would come in and introduce themselves to everyone at once. I walked out fast cos they didn’t have Asians. But wondered what would happen if 2 punters want the same WL. Then what?

About 8 years ago, I went to quite a large shop in China, illegal of course. They had about 40-50 girls on stage with numbers on them and below the stage, almost just as many punters are calling out numbers like an auction. So it that case, first guy who calls out the number will get the girl. If you snooze you lose. I lost, lol

[CountryPunter]

Was walking down Parramatta Road at Stanmore today. There’s 4 massage shops within about 100m of each other.
I was chatting to a punter mate on WeChat at the time. Told him there was a guy coming up the road in the opposite direction and I picked him as a punter.

The guy was trying to look relaxed but was looking around nervously. Then looking at his feet as he passed me.

I pulled up and watched as he headed up the street. Sure enough he ducked into 200 Stanmore.

Said to my mate it’s getting bad when I can pick a punter on the street.

[GoldfishMan]

Oh dear, a selection of cakes and pastries. It’s not a freaking restaurant, such a simp. Each to your own.

I once ran into an old work colleague at Gc’s reception. I don’t mind because I have nothing to hide but being married he was embarrassed, I know his wife. he kinda hid his face with his hands but we both know we saw each other.

He's probably got a fetish for food play. Like in that 9 and 1/2 weeks movie.

[ColesBag]

Was walking down Parramatta Road at Stanmore today. There’s 4 massage shops within about 100m of each other.
I was chatting to a punter mate on WeChat at the time. Told him there was a guy coming up the road in the opposite direction and I picked him as a punter.

The guy was trying to look relaxed but was looking around nervously. Then looking at his feet as he passed me.

I pulled up and watched as he headed up the street. Sure enough he ducked into 200 Stanmore.

Said to my mate it’s getting bad when I can pick a punter on the street.


It's pretty fucking obvious in that stretch of shops what anyone is in the area there for. Heehee.

[GoldfishMan]

It's pretty fucking obvious in that stretch of shops what anyone is in the area there for. Heehee.

Is that why you carry around a Coles bag to make it look like you're going grocery shopping? Lol...

[dryrun]

I usually try to keep as discreet as possible.

[ColesBag]

Is that why you carry around a Coles bag to make it look like you're going grocery shopping? Lol...

Shudda seen me during covid. My cock didn't care about lockdowns so like some horny secret agent my disguise was a cap, sunnies, mask & of course the world famous ColesBag skulking suburbia miles and miles out of the bullshit 5km thing, I felt like a soldier behind enemy lines. lol. It's actually a good punting cover, it looks you're on your way to & from somewhere and makes you look like a local rather than some furtive looking punter.

I highly recommend the shopping bag no matter where you go to punt.

[bung72]

Shudda seen me during covid. My cock didn't care about lockdowns so like some horny secret agent my disguise was a cap, sunnies, mask & of course the world famous ColesBag skulking suburbia miles and miles out of the bullshit 5km thing, I felt like a soldier behind enemy lines. lol. It's actually a good punting cover, it looks you're on your way to & from somewhere and makes you look like a local rather than some furtive looking punter.

I highly recommend the shopping bag no matter where you go to punt.

Love it! The facemask while punting was the only good thing Covid brought! Just as the shops were reopening I had my best punt - I met the girl wearing a mask.... didn't see her face until we were in the room - I wasn't disappointed though....

[Footballpunter]

Shudda seen me during covid. My cock didn't care about lockdowns so like some horny secret agent my disguise was a cap, sunnies, mask & of course the world famous ColesBag skulking suburbia miles and miles out of the bullshit 5km thing, I felt like a soldier behind enemy lines. lol. It's actually a good punting cover, it looks you're on your way to & from somewhere and makes you look like a local rather than some furtive looking punter.

I highly recommend the shopping bag no matter where you go to punt.

Do the WLs ever ask you if you are going grocery shopping? I feel like it's a legit question lol

[GoldfishMan]

Shudda seen me during covid.

Punting during COVID was great, in hindsight. I will never forget the experiences I had. The lockdown made it feel a lot more like an adventure. I remember walking down Clarendon St in the city to get to a motel under the bridge for my secret punt. It was a rainy day, the streets were completely deserted. There I was, going to get my rocks off in the middle of an apocalypse, lol...

[Mike_23]

About 8 years ago, I went to quite a large shop in China, illegal of course. They had about 40-50 girls on stage with numbers on them and below the stage, almost just as many punters are calling out numbers like an auction. So it that case, first guy who calls out the number will get the girl. If you snooze you lose. I lost, lol


was this in macau?

where there was the buffet of food prior, and the 3 girls on you in seated massage also?

[Footballpunter]

was this in macau?

where there was the buffet of food prior, and the 3 girls on you in seated massage also?

Lol no it’s not rush hour lol

[bananahammer]

Find it a bit awkward and embarrassing myself, choosing the "I'll come back later" option and do a lap around the block until the coast is clear.

I walked into another punter at GC who did this. We were walking to the back entrance from different directions but I suppose he must have walked around in a circle to avoid following me into the shop. Unfortunately for him I was early for my booking so I still ran into him as I was walking to the room and he was walking into the shop :miao:

[bung72]

I have no hassle with seeing other people inside, or bumping into someone as they are leaving.... we are both clearly there for the same reason, and would be a low act to blow your cover, I'd never do that - what happens on deployment, stays on deployment.... :)
I am always concerned about being spotted on the way in or out by someone I know.... hat/sunglasses guys, head down, look at your phone like everyone else. My first punt here was on a rainy evening - I couldn't believe my luck - umbrellas are awesome! Set the scene for a pretty good punt too. I remember I was petrified I'd know the receptionist or girl somehow!

[fireball]

I still walk in with a mask and never punt anywhere near me so no sneaky lunch time punts. Chances are lower I bump into anyone I know and usually go late at night

[RelaxingTime247]

Agree with fireball. Dont punt close to home and then there is little chance of seeing someone you know. If you travel with work etc it helps

[bung72]

I must be a risk taker then, one shop I go to is only 5 minutes from home.....

[RodgHerMoore]

If there is anyone out front it turns me off a punt. If I see a dude walk in before me i also get turned off. I just want to think about the pussy in my session, not wondering about some dude i saw on my way in. Complete turn off for me.

Just enjoyed my first punt at Ginza Empire. Ok this place is so spacious and luxurious it's the exception than the rule. Punters can sit so far from each other and usually play on their phones, nobody makes eye contact. In this comfortable environment doesn't matter who's in the room with me when the line up walks in.

What an amazing venue.

[gamer2]

I extend a hand and firmly shake the other punters penis with confidence. Gets them ready like I am. Either that or I just avoid eye contact