How to start actually punting?

[rabola]

How do I actually start punting? I live up on Central Coast. I have social anxiety so I dont know how to initiate this. What do I say? If I go to a local asian massage place, is it assumed that they will do more than just a massage? Sorry if this is posted elsewhere, I couldnt find it. A link to an existing thread would be great.

[spacekid2022]

If its a legit place then no. Otherwise, they expect you to tip for the HJ at least

[keebab]

I'd look for AR's for your area so you have a decent idea your service will be provided first.

Turn up, when they ask whether you've been there before, say you were recommended by a friend. Get naked asap and lie facedown. If there is no reaction to being naked or they're happy to hear that you were recommended I can pretty much guarantee that HE will be on offer. The websites are usually a dead giveaway too if they have a roster and blanked out faces.

If they're trying to cover you up or request you put on clothes, then at least ask about a healthcare rebate!

Honesty mate, I get anxiety too but once you've been to a venue once its easy.

Happy Punting

[OLD SNAKE]

Punting is a disease, once you start it is hard to give up, you will spend all your money doing it, and even if there was a non working girl you like, you wouldn't give her the time of day as you know you can get what you want just by paying for it,
So i would start off with a private service and not a shop service at first, it might be more expensive, but at least it will be more of a relaxing girlfriend experience, where you can take your time, not be rushed and it will be more enjoyable, you can use this site to search for girls in your area, www.escortsandbabes.com.au but make shore you click female in the gender selection,

[chatswood2067]

just go to brothel
says it's your first time here want someone experience to help you out

[curiousgeorge1023]

Im just assuming you have your own place? If you do thats great. Start with looking up for escorts around your area Central Coast and opt for an OUTCALL service. This means the girl goes to your house on a scheduled booking and the Agreed services you first communicated with her. Depending on your budget I would use Scarletblue dot com dot au for a more legit escort. Opt for the ones that have been reviewed here or other sites. From there you can try INCALL where you are the one visiting escort's house. Then a brothel where everyone knows whats your business there. You can also use escort and babes dot com dot au but be warned a lot are scammers or not a good provider hence I was veering you towards scarletblue. The rest is just do it really.

[OLD SNAKE]

Im just assuming you have your own place? If you do thats great. Start with looking up for escorts around your area Central Coast and opt for an OUTCALL service. This means the girl goes to your house on a scheduled booking and the Agreed services you first communicated with her. Depending on your budget I would use Scarletblue dot com dot au for a more legit escort. Opt for the ones that have been reviewed here or other sites. From there you can try INCALL where you are the one visiting escort's house. Then a brothel where everyone knows whats your business there. You can also use escort and babes dot com dot au but be warned a lot are scammers or not a good provider hence I was veering you towards scarletblue. The rest is just do it really.

Never ever bring escorts to your home, firstly your neighbours will know what you are up too, 2nd its more expensive, 3rd you don't know if this girl is a junkie or a thief and robs you while you are in the shower, especially in the central Coast, where they have the highest crime rate in the state

[11Bravo]

How do I actually start punting? I live up on Central Coast. I have social anxiety so I dont know how to initiate this. What do I say? If I go to a local asian massage place, is it assumed that they will do more than just a massage? Sorry if this is posted elsewhere, I couldnt find it. A link to an existing thread would be great.Here's my take on starting... Granted, it's Sydney, but except for the explicit shops, I think the pointers would be valid anywhere.

http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread.php?113079-How-do-massage-places-work&p=2616294&viewfull=1#post2616294

ESPECIALLY read this "How to", something that should be on a STICKY (again, it's for Sydney, but the general ideas, IMHO, will be applicable anywhere:

http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread.php?87640-Sydney-Massage-Shop-Guide&highlight=guide

I don't what prices are where you are, but in Sydney, a $50 bill, pineapple, will get you a NHJ in most any RnT shop, NOT a legit massage shop. What I've seen, if they're offering insurance coverage (whatever you call it here), it PROBABLY isn't an RnT shop, but exceptions do happen. After paying the massage fee (and I'd suggest having exact change), I've found that laying another pineapple on the table indicates YOUR interests. There's also a link in the above that has a link on how to identify interesting shops.

When I first started, I was a bit hesitant about directly asking for extras. In most cases, BUT NOT ALL cases, she eventually brought it up. Now, if she's interesting, I'll ask as I'm laying down on the table, as in what other extras do you offer. In the case of shops where I do know the game's ON with other providers, I'll ask a new one directly, and get a price quote. You both want to be on the same page. The worst she can say is NO (well, I guess the worst that could happen is if she runs out of the room screaming for help, but that's not going to happen, as long as you are polite and friendly).

I agree about not bringing an escort home. I don't punt in the neighborhood where I live, even though there are 2 shops literally each a block away. Yes, if you go to her shop, she has the home field advantage, but it's not all that important. At your home, you have a lot more to loose.

BUT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO REMEMBER, IT'S NOT love. It's P4P: pay for play, it's business. it's a business transaction for sex. My advice to members like you, don't. In most societies, paying for sex is a line that a lot of society frowns on (even here, the desire for rear entrances, and I'm NOT talking anal). Thing is, ONCE you cross that line, you can't go back, and it becomes easier and easier. Nothing wrong with that, but AND NO DISRESPECT MEANT, less mature men can get confused between sex and love. She's NOT your girl friend, she's someone you pay to have sex with. Not saying you can't become friends, I have a number. But it's not love, because love is a WHOLE different thing. As someone once said, you're not paying her for sex, you're paying her to leave. You don't have to put up with her moods, provide emotional support, etc.

If you chose to, enjoy, but keep it in perspective. It all sounds like a fantastic adventure, but, bottom line, it's just sex.

[Vader]

How do I actually start punting? I live up on Central Coast. I have social anxiety so I dont know how to initiate this. What do I say? If I go to a local asian massage place, is it assumed that they will do more than just a massage? Sorry if this is posted elsewhere, I couldnt find it. A link to an existing thread would be great.

Just go and get yourself a girlfriend.

[paranoidpunter]

Do your research reading this forum, take your time, the girls will always be there.

Would be best to try somewhere/someone with good reviews instead of 'punting' on the unknown at first.

When the time comes, literally take the punt. It will be nerve wracking making the booking, and also going in for the session. You've done all the research and preparation you can, but nothing will prepare you for the real deal. You will have to dive in and experience it. If it goes well then great. If it doesn't then learn from it and next time will be better. You're doing something not many people do, so be proud of that.

Following from that, the first experiences may be awkward, so expect to go a few times to get into the rhythm. Even go slowly at first to dip your toes in. Do the most basic things first to get the hang of it. Go to the same shop (if it's good) so you can build on your experiences.

You're only losing money if you have a bad experience. You also learn from it.

[Yougottabe]

The best way to start is don't punt in your area. The worst thing that could happen is you get sprung by a relative, work colleague or friend especially with your social anxiety. Going by the lack of intel I doubt much action is on the Central Coast anyway. Don't use Escort & Babes it is very unlikely the girl will match the description or photo. Best bet is to catch the train down to Sydney & go to a massage parlour like 227 Broadway or Sydney Baby etc. The massage scene is aplenty in Sydney. The girls at 227 Broadway are especially lovely & it's a great place to start.

[ColesBag]

Never ever bring escorts to your home, firstly your neighbours will know what you are up too, 2nd its more expensive, 3rd you don't know if this girl is a junkie or a thief and robs you while you are in the shower, especially in the central Coast, where they have the highest crime rate in the state

I reckon. This is insane advice for a first timer.

[HitNMiss]

Like one of the other comments here, it can get quite addictive. It’s easy sometimes to get feelings for someone you find attractive and get along with , it’s natural we’re human. Be smart with you money and don’t let your cock do all the thinking like I’ve done for to long lol.

[OLD SNAKE]

I reckon. This is insane advice for a first timer.

Actually its the right advice, the central coast is like Karen central everyone knows your personal business up there, Colesbag you are probably best friends with Jason Voorhees from Friday the 13th and have beers with him every friday arvo

[OLD SNAKE]

The best way to start is don't punt in your area. The worst thing that could happen is you get sprung by a relative, work colleague or friend especially with your social anxiety. Going by the lack of intel I doubt much action is on the Central Coast anyway. Don't use Escort & Babes it is very unlikely the girl will match the description or photo. Best bet is to catch the train down to Sydney & go to a massage parlour like 227 Broadway or Sydney Baby etc. The massage scene is aplenty in Sydney. The girls at 227 Broadway are especially lovely & it's a great place to start.

imagine trying to get back to the central coast after blowing your load in Sydney, you be too tired to drive all the way back and if you catch the train you might over sleep and end up in Newcastle so it will be better to book a hotel in Sydney for the night if he does this,
the central coast covers a wide area and there are plenty of girls advertising on escorts and babes, even in sydney they click bait and swap the girls too, but thats a risk you take until you actually meet them,

[curiousgeorge1023]

Never ever bring escorts to your home, firstly your neighbours will know what you are up too, 2nd its more expensive, 3rd you don't know if this girl is a junkie or a thief and robs you while you are in the shower, especially in the central Coast, where they have the highest crime rate in the state

Hence I suggested Scarletblue and a well reviewed private escort. Cant go wrong with that. The Outcall recommendation was for the social anxiety he mentioned, Im guessing it'll be easier if he is within his comfort zone ie. Home.

[Dantaclaus]

The best way to start is don't punt in your area. The worst thing that could happen is you get sprung by a relative, work colleague or friend especially with your social anxiety. Going by the lack of intel I doubt much action is on the Central Coast anyway. Don't use Escort & Babes it is very unlikely the girl will match the description or photo. Best bet is to catch the train down to Sydney & go to a massage parlour like 227 Broadway or Sydney Baby etc. The massage scene is aplenty in Sydney. The girls at 227 Broadway are especially lovely & it's a great place to start.

Agreed 227 Broadway is great and it's only a 15 minute walk from Central.

[mrdamage]

Having a cock and balls is an easy way to start

[Ausinsin]

Agree with most of the comments. Also recommend starting with one of the places where part 2 is included in the prices, like 227 Broadway, 200 stanmore or sbm to avoid needing the starting negotiation if you're not comfortable with it yet

[BobGeorge]

You’re fortunate to have forum like this for guidance. No such thing existed when I first started punting. There has been some good advice. If I was you, I’d make a special weekend of it. Book yourself a hotel in the city or Surry Hills then book one or many fine bordellos. Ginza’s for Asian and Tiffany’s for Caucasian. Enjoy!

[Sibon]

imagine trying to get back to the central coast after blowing your load in Sydney, you be too tired to drive all the way back and if you catch the train you might over sleep and end up in Newcastle so it will be better to book a hotel in Sydney for the night if he does this,
the central coast covers a wide area and there are plenty of girls advertising on escorts and babes, even in sydney they click bait and swap the girls too, but thats a risk you take until you actually meet them,

Be friendly with one of the WLs. Perhaps she may bring you home to stay for a night in her place.

If you want to play with her in the night you could continue in her bedroom.

Graduate this to a boyfriend status you'll have a second home in Sydney and be spending every weekends here. :)

[Sibon]

How do I actually start punting? I live up on Central Coast. I have social anxiety so I dont know how to initiate this. What do I say? If I go to a local asian massage place, is it assumed that they will do more than just a massage? Sorry if this is posted elsewhere, I couldnt find it. A link to an existing thread would be great.

My advice is if you haven't started it.

Don't.

Go to read the Bible for enlightenment.

Especially the chapter on "Thou Shalt not Punt".

"Blessed is he who, in the name of virtue and good character, resists the weakness of paid sex........"

[hornedbeast]

Get on the train to Central then head to Ginza Club or Ginza Empire with cash in hand. You won't regret it.

[trampslikeus55]

Hi OP. I will relate. Xmas BBQ at Umina 27/12/22. Inherited son in law was telling the tale of going to Thai massage for relief from a sore back due to pruning back the trees we were dining under. Cheeky snigger about how they only seemed to want to relieve one part of the anatomy more than the rest. Asked for my take on the situation. I said did you get it for $50 and did they use enough oil. Silence was profound. Checking this morning, only 2 Thai massage open in Woy Woy today. Toss a coin, brave your social anxiety and enjoy yourself. 😎

[fnmfnmfnm]

Very addictive hobby to be taking up. I started out of curiosity and now I’m on these forums uncovering new WLs to tickle every sexual curiosity I have. Once the anxiety of visiting a place subsides, it’s replaced by pure excitement for your next punt. Now I find it almost impossible to give up because there’s always an ever growing list of women I want to try

[Axeman123]

Tell me about it!! Try as I might I can't either. My job is on the road n all day I'm doing is perving . Feeds my need for brothels it does.

[ditchtheboss]

Don’t start, because it is bloody hard to stop.

If you have to though go to a good quality brothel such as 42G or Ginza. Don’t go cheap, it is not worth it in my opinion

[grstile]

To toss a little more random advice into the pot - sit down and figure out how much you're comfortable spending at a maximum before you go anywhere near a shop, and only take that much cash with you.

It's always going to be a punt on how much you enjoy each and every time, but feeling lke you overspent in the moment can make it harder to shrug off a dud as a learning experience.

[Massagecreep]

Don’t overthink it. Just have a go, and remember that not every punt will be a highlight

[Johnisfun1969]

How do I actually start punting? I live up on Central Coast. I have social anxiety so I dont know how to initiate this. What do I say? If I go to a local asian massage place, is it assumed that they will do more than just a massage? Sorry if this is posted elsewhere, I couldnt find it. A link to an existing thread would be great.

There is a lot of advise for your here and perhaps something will work out for you. My advise would be to start at a massage place. If you are comfortable you can go ahead and let the ML give you a hj or more. If you are not comfortable you could get a regular massage as most asian women working in the shop give a decent massage. You could tip the ML $20 if you feel generous and avoid any guilt for making them work. Going to full service place whether brothel or private will put more pressure on you as you could be spending $150-300 for the cheaper asian place and if the WL is old or ugly it may put you off. The trick is to take it easy without big expectations as that is what punting is. Some you have a fabulous time and others are dud.

If you are a younger guy I would suggest is only try this to get used to the women's touch and since you are paying customers be more comfortable. Then rather try meeting regular girls and maybe even have a gf. Sex is amazing but when done in the right environment and safely. With working girls their is always a degree of risk.

But do give your feedback after your visit and maybe guys can privide you more ideas.