Meeting Women for Holiday in Philippines

[bridgyguy]

Hi everyone, i am in my 60's and heading for a 3 month trip to the Philippines next April, and i am just wondering the best way to find casual women as travel companions while i am there.

I know this might seem strange, but i am new to this type of thing, as i have been married to a Filipino for 30 years, but we have recently decided that we both need a change of scenery, so we have decided to stay married and still live together in our home, but change our relationship to an "open marriage" status for a while.

During my trip, i will be moving around to different locations, with 1 week put aside in Manila at the start, and 1 week at the end of my trip before returning home.

I am not really interested in going to girlie bars or massage parlors because the girls in those places are too young for me, i would prefer to meet up with women who are in the 35 to 40+ age group if possible.

My aim would be to try and meet up with a different woman at each place that i will be going to, and have her as my companion during that stay, rather than have one travel companion for the whole time that i am in the country.

I read something in this forum posted by one of the regular members who said that he used one of the Filipino dating sites to find casual sex partners, but i thought that was a bit of an unusual way to find casual travel companions, but i decided to give it a go, so i joined Filipino Cupids, and i ended up meeting a wonderful 34 year old lady from Quezon City, who i have been chatting to via skype now for 3 months, and we have formed a wonderful friendship, but she has a 7 year old daughter, and has been separated from her hubby for 4 years, and she works 6 days a week in the construction industry (safety officer) so she is not able to travel with me during my trip, so she and her daughter will stay with me at my hotel in Manila for a week at the start, and a week the end of my holiday, and she already knows about my intentions while i am there.

Can someone else recommend other possible options to find casual travel partners aside from dating sites.

Cheers

[4FoW2]

If you want "casual" travel companions you have to go where casual travel companions go. So that means bars etc ie LA cafe.
If I was you 1 week before you go flood Fil Cupid with intros and then when you arrive interview. Conversely you can be "picked up" at coffee shops, restaurants, malls if you smile, are well dressed and scrub up ok.
Depends on how much hard work you want to do - clubs etc its point and shoot, whereby Fil Cupid takes more time but maybe semi pro.
If you've neem with a Fil why not try Thai, Camb or Viet?
All the best

[bridgyguy]

Thank you, well it was PinaLove date site where i already met the woman mentioned in my opening post, i kept thinking it was Filipino Cupid, and i want to keep her as a very good friend right now because i know a lot about her already, and she is a genuine "good girl" but she can't travel with me as i mentioned above, but told me she is ok with what i want to do, as long as i am careful.

I found a lot of other girls in that site, but all of them who read my profile replied back telling me that they want a serious relationship, and told me that they were not interested in casual or otherwise, which was fair enough, given that it is a date site.

Too much hassle and time consuming for me to try those sites again.

Might just wing it and try my luck when i arrive at each destination, walk the streets, see what's happening.

Most of my travels involve going to more remote islands and beaches, so i either find a woman at each landing port and have her travel with me to the surrounding places for the duration, or i travel alone to each place and try to find a woman there who is willing to be my companion in and around her own place, and just offer her whatever rate is considered fair.

As mentioned above, i don't want to hang at girlie bars to find someone, and if i decide to travel to each island or beach on my own, chances are there won't be any girlie bars there anyway.

[17012430]

There are some red flags with the single mum mate... They might try and take you for all you've got during that first week, or you might absolutely hate being with her and the kid and need some space of your own. If you get sick and need to use the toilet you might be a bit shy going with them in the next room etc.

Go to Angeles, find a bar girl or two you like and bar fine them for the week and go somewhere. Let us know how you go though.

[electroman69]

Gday mate, I recently went to Manila and used PinaLove and tinder. Both were very successful for ons and a bit longer. I came across some women that you can hire for a month as a travel companion or even hire for group trips. I’ve just signed up to FilipinoCupid but the quality is not as good. I ask for their WhatsApp number and take it further on there. I’m going back in a few months and have a few ready to go when I’m there.

[Johnisfun1969]

Gday mate, I recently went to Manila and used PinaLove and tinder. Both were very successful for ons and a bit longer. I came across some women that you can hire for a month as a travel companion or even hire for group trips. I’ve just signed up to FilipinoCupid but the quality is not as good. I ask for their WhatsApp number and take it further on there. I’m going back in a few months and have a few ready to go when I’m there.

My experience is also with Pinalove. I have met few girls on my business trips and had good time. I never promised anyone relationship. But I always bought gifts and sent money as a token of appreciation. In my experience even though lot if girls are looking for a life partner they may still be happy to meet and spend few days traveling with someone and have fun where they could make a good amount of money as a travel companion. Quite a few of these girls would not mind staying in nice hotels and going to restaurants.

Considering you are not into girlie bars etc my suggestion is if you meet a nice girl be open to taking the girl around to few places. Nothing like you go to a smaller town and no option of finding a decent girl and spending time alone in hotel room.

[liam324]

Wow, you have wonderful plans for the trip. I hope I will be as active as you at 60. You deserve respect. I think looking for a woman on some dating app is unreliable. You can get acquainted in cafes and bars, it's always fun. But that doesn't guarantee there will be a woman there who you'll like and agree to go on a trip with you. You can take advantage of https://escorteurogirls.com/. There is an opportunity to plan in advance with which woman and in which city you want to meet. That way you can be sure that you will have the companions you want to see with you. I think this is the best way to plan the greatest trip. I hope you have a pleasant time and have fun on your trip.

[bridgyguy]

Hi again, ok well April has come and almost gone, and my planned trip to Philippines did not eventuate for several reasons, however, my son will be traveling to the Philippines on May 28 to work there for 2 months, June he will be working away from Manila, and July will be spent filming in Manila, so i have decided to try getting there in mid June until end of July so that i can hang with him in his spare time, and also get time to spend some time in Manila with my lady friend who i mentioned in my first post up the page, as well as taking the plunge and spend some time hanging out in and around some of the night life in Manila, which i will be creating a new topic to get more info on that part of my trip.

I didn't go back into PinaLove to try and find companions in different places that i will go to because i decided that i will just wait until i get to these locations, and just seek out mature age women myself who are keen to hook up and be my companion while i am there, and reward them accordingly, before moving on to the next place.

Manila i think will be a very different story, as i have not spent very much time in or around the adult entertainment districts, so i will post up a new Topic for that, as i am really unsure about hooking up with ladies in the bars and night clubs, especially that many of them are younger than 30, and i really want to be with women older than that if i can (might sound wierd, but i am not really keen to be with the younger girls, especially those from the bars etc.

My lady friend knows what my intentions will be while i am in the country, so i don't have to worry about that, as long as i spend some quality time with her as well, she will be happy.

I will post back when i have more to report.

Cheers

[Ciaran81]

Sounds great Need to holiday in Manila

[aussiegaigin]

Suggest you read through the Phills section of International Sex Guide forum. Lots of good advice from regular visitors and permanent residents.

PAL has some good deals going fare-wise at the moment, BTW.